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Cinnamon

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Serious question.
« on: 31 January 2008, 02:51:39 pm »
Hi everyone,
Have a very serious question hoping i will get an answer from here. how do people cope with escorting while pregnant? do you think its a good idea to continue working whilst pregnant and when should i stop? and finally how long should one take before coming back to work after giving birth? asking all these questions as this is my situation at the moment. i would really like to stop but finances can not allow me.i was thinking of child care after the baby is born atleast afew hours a day only when i have appointmnents booked in,is this the right thing to do?? Before anyone asks,the baby was kinda planned,sounds stupid but true so it was not an accident and i am very excited about it.
I am confused at the moment so any advice will be truly appreciated.
By the way i have just joined the forum but i have bn lurking for a while,so hi everyone. :-[

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Re: Serious question.
« Reply #1 on: 31 January 2008, 05:04:50 pm »
Although this is never going to directly affect me :) I think this is one of those 'it really is up to you' ones.

There is a definite specialist demand for pregnant escorts. 'Pamfan' is the code word from memory. But if you continue working, there's a vociferous group that will scream 'How could you?!?' at you. Like so much else, some people can be happy doing it and others would find it unacceptable.

How soon you'll be able to resume working after giving birth is something that you won't know until it happens. You may want to consider which services you'll offer.

Soooo much of having a child is luck and you've no idea whether you'll have a happy healthy baby or if you'll spend most of the first few months sitting by their cot in intensive care wondering if they'll survive. Good luck.

The other 'pregnancy not sex work' advice is to look at a copy of the Contented Little Baby Book and do the opposite of almost everything she says...
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: Serious question.
« Reply #2 on: 01 February 2008, 09:15:16 am »
Yes its up to you. Never mind the moral brigade who bang on about it being disrespectful to your unborn child, its your body, your choice.

Yes do look at www.pamfan.co.uk

There are a few girls on there who are either pregnant or working as milk maids.

My friend offers a milk maid only service - no sexual contact - and has done an interview with the site which you may find helpful:

http://www.pamfan.com/elizabeth-interview1.htm

Cinnamon

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Re: Serious question.
« Reply #3 on: 01 February 2008, 02:36:45 pm »
Thank you so much for both your advice i think i will join pamfam as i have no other choice. i hope evrything will be ok.thanks again.
Cinn x

BurlesqueHoney

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Re: Serious question.
« Reply #4 on: 01 February 2008, 11:16:33 pm »
From a medical point of view there seems no reason not to have sex while being pregnant virtually right to the end.  In fact, I have heard from a couple of friends that they had a much increased libido.  Mmmh, some guys may feel uncomfortable or worried about the idea of sex with a pregnant woman even their partner - just reassure them that they are unlikely to dent in the baby's head.... lol 

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Re: Serious question.
« Reply #5 on: 03 February 2008, 08:24:20 pm »
God i was soooo horney while pregnant everytime the wind changes i was up for it again, my poor fella nearly died bless him..lol

The choice is your hun, its your baby your body only you can decide whats best for you, i dint as i was working at the time but if i had to make a choice i would of not done so for the first 3months but only as thats the risky time off a newly pregnant lady.

But once i had gone past that stage i would of.

Does that make an any sense at all..lol

Mia x

Louise

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Re: Serious question.
« Reply #6 on: 03 February 2008, 09:35:49 pm »
panfam is a good site
some men find a pregnant lady very desirable and sexy,i know of a lady not far form me who used panfam as a good recourse for work while expecting,

Cinnamon

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Re: Serious question.
« Reply #7 on: 05 February 2008, 02:31:13 pm »
hi again,im still not sure what i should do. i think in the long run,panfam will be the solution but thanks all for your answers.

Hannah Gold

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Re: Serious question.
« Reply #8 on: 07 February 2008, 05:43:57 pm »
Hi Cinnamon, congrats on your pregnancy!

I felt as horny as hell when I was pregnant!  At it like a rampant rabbit every day...  I continued working when i was carrying right up until my due date, but took it real easy at the same time.  I had this one regular guy who absolutely LOVED pregnant women and saw me up to three times a week in the night, which was absolutely wonderful for me.  I never saw him once after my little one was born, so there you go - it is a big fetish!

My ex fantasises about pregnant women.  I recall catching some lesbian pregnant women stuff on the PC once!  You are the most feminine whe you are pregnant than any other time, and that really is appealling to a lot of men.....

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Re: Serious question.
« Reply #9 on: 07 February 2008, 09:07:31 pm »
I continued to work in my pregnancy but just did massage with relief. I decided to quit 2 months before the birth. My regular clients were wonderful to me...some got quite "Mumsy". Some even bought me baby stuff. They seemed relieved that I hadn;t given up cos they loved my Treatments. Towards end of my pregnancy a very generous client of long duration gave me a cheque for three thousand pounds to "take the worry out of things for me". So so tearfully grateful I headed off on holiday for a week with my also pregnant best friend. The rest of my time till I worked again was a breeze. I believe in praying (no matter to what God) and I believe my prayers were answered. When baby was born my Mother helped as the baby father had left me 3 months pregnant.After that my Mother babysat downstairs while I did one or two clients a day. It worked perfectly. It can be done. Have faith Cinnamon and good luck! x