I had similar recently a guy had to go out to get more cash 2 mins away, he text every 30 secs saying I'm on my way ,at cashpoint, etc, he was really nice (appeared so) then sent one saying could I be doing paperwork, over table with skirt up , door ajar , I sent text saying nope .
He got back said it was his biggest fantasy, I said "well you coming in with 3 guys isn't mine" he genuinely apologised and really put emphasise on " OMG I'm so sorry it hadn't occurred to me, Bloody hell you must have to think of everything ,I hadn't thought of it that way at all ".
Sometimes I just think they don't realise the things we have to be aware of .