Met up with someone from a well known hook up app and w suave met a couple of times now. It’s herring serious. Not sure if I should tell them about the sex work or carry on with my fake admin job. It will be long distance so I can lie a bit about my touring. But I don’t really like to lie to someone close to me.
I don't see how I could be in a relationship while doing this, it's hell hiding it from family. I couldn't hide it from a fella, I'm a rubbish liar.
That's my dilemma too, really like a guy, long distance, but don't want to hurt him.
There's no dilemma here, he doesn't want a relationship so... you're safe. Enjoy the ride while it lasts
Why not just gently mention that you do the 'odd bit of escorting' to help make ends meet.You can always play down how much you charge and how busy you are.
I've been single for a little while now and I started putting myself back out there dating wise. I'm feeling a bit down about the whole thing because I'm connecting with some really great cute guys that tick my boxes but they don't want to take things further because of my career. I completely understand but it's bumming me out quite a bit because it feels like constant rejection. I feel ready to be in a relationship and my approach is to tell guys pretty quickly so they can make that decision about going forward or not.I guess my question is how quickly do you tell possible partners? Should I tell them? Is it deceptive if I don't? I appreciate it's a controversial occupation it just kind of sucks
Million dollar question - I don't have the answer. Civvy guys won't accept it, so then do we date a client? They can get jealous after all. I want to find love but I just don't think it will happen, and I don't fancy any of my clients.
I had a civvy bf who did accept it eventually so it is possible. Just mega rare.
