So, because of this line of work I've always thought it was impossible to do this and have a boyfriend. I would see guys on a casual basis but I always made it clear I didn't want an actual relationship.  Until about a month ago, someone who I was seeing casually wanted more & I decided to tell him I was an escort but he still wanted to see me. He seemed pretty fine with it, he did seem a little bothered everytime I had to work but nothing majorly and we ended up getting really serious in the last month. About a couple days ago, he really wanted me to quit and confessed he's been bottling his emotions & drinking the nights I had to work. I told him I couldnt quit & if he couldnt deal with it then we should split.

He thought about whether he could handle it and decided he could but I am unsure whether this will still hurt and cause problems for him eventhough he thinks he can deal with it and is cooler about it.

Has anyone else been in this situation? Or does anyone have a boyfriend who knows what you do and does he deal with it well?

Im married! Weve been together 15years, im 25. I married him on my 18th and lost my virginity to him!
Few years later im here! Ha!

Were still together, we have a mutual agreement. There are certain things, positions, actions, acts, plays, outfits- i dont do, as we kepe them sacred for ourself. I also always make sure our sex life is as exciting as ever. Im honest with him too. I dont tell him what i do on bookings, but he knows we have enough trust in each other to know im sticking to our agreement.

Its difficult at times especially for him, some days hell call me and ask me to not work, to which i wont! This isnt my sole job, so this is just extra on the side. Some woulld call us greedy He spends a lot of time away in Europe with a business we own together.

I believe it depends on the strength of the relationship, and how jealous the partner can get! My husband isnt a jealous man, weve been together long enough to know this is just business. Weve also agreed to marry again, with new vows once we stop this. So it wasnt a rash decision, took some thought and conversations to say the least!

I believe it depends on the relationship strength and how much you truly love each other to know why your doing this. If your doing it because you want a different cock than your husbands, maybe the relationship isnt meant to be. But if its to help fund a beautiful lifestyle together then i believe agreements can be made and a happy life lived together inbetween this!

After coping with clients I really have nothing left to give to any potential relationship!

I don't know how some of you do it I really don't lol.

Same. I have no romantic or sexual energy left to give to anyone on any kind of regular basis after clients have been taken care of. 

But then I am an old lady lol (55 soon).  Read the book and bought the t shirt in the past ....!

Go wash your mouth out with soap!! (or something else if you do that kind of thing) 

Serious question how do some of you girls cope with trusting a man? Considering most of the guys who see us are married? I don’t have the problem because I’m polyamorous and in an open relationship

I think for me it is realising that monogamy isn't just "never sleeping with someone else".

I can't remember the study, but apparently two thirds of people admit to cheating at some point in their life.

Which doesn't mean you failed monogamy. We don't live as long as average. I mean, my parents cheated and have celebrated their 30th wedding anniversary. Doesn't mean they failed at monogamy, just that they slipped up during a difficult time.

As such I don't view a partner stepping out as a betrayal, I view them telling me as a breaking of trust. As I have a don't ask don't tell policy. Mostly because knowing will only hurt me.

I have a casual partner, and I'd honestly never consider a serious partner until I was out of this work. And even with my casual partners, I trust them until they give me reason not to. We have the deal to share test results, and disclose accidents.

Which isn't entirely different to what I have said to monogamous partners in the past, get tested often, if you fuck up and use protection, I don't need to know, but if you didn't you better tell me. And deal with the consequences. It's the one exceptions I have to the don't ask don't tell rule.

I have tried many times to have a boyfriend. Never works out....

My ex dumped me after I told them 

I so want to get back with my ex, he always knew me in the sex industry: cam, stripclubs, but would he accept escorting?

voluptuouscurves, my ex has a heart of gold, hence why I want to go back with him, but too afraid to tell him what I am up to for sure, only time will tell xx