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mature helen

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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #255 on: 12 April 2016, 01:13:38 pm »
I'm going to buck the trend and say she's spot on especially that men shouldn't look at a WG as being the provider and he needs to work and put his money into the relationship.
I've learnt its good practice not to show SO the gifts that punters have given, I've learnt its best to leave work talk ect at the door and not bring it home, I've learnt its best never to discuss what happens in a bedroom with a punter, I've learnt to be a strong independent woman and not an emotional or physical punch bag. I've learnt its better to be single rather than have to deal with a man's delicate ego. I've escorted for over 33 years and in that time I've had a 19 year relationship with one man and married another, now I am happily divorced and single and I wouldn't have another man whilst still escorting for a gold watch.
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« Reply #256 on: 12 April 2016, 01:15:53 pm »
i wasnt looking for anything and things kind of happened with my friend he knew about my job from the beginning.
im happy with things as they are now and id like them to just stay like they are, i know he wants more from me but i dont want more i just like the relationship as it is no lables and he said if some girl offered sex to him he wouldnt say no and im fine with that. i dont wanna get hurt cause he cant handle my job
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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #257 on: 12 April 2016, 04:07:14 pm »
question for those in relationships, do you have unprotected sex with your partner?

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« Reply #258 on: 12 April 2016, 04:34:09 pm »
question for those in relationships, do you have unprotected sex with your partner?

I do, sex without a condom or a clock is the best thing ever

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« Reply #259 on: 12 April 2016, 04:43:32 pm »
question for those in relationships, do you have unprotected sex with your partner?

I do, sex without a condom or a clock is the best thing ever

Yeah it is. I ask because I'm not using condoms with my new partner but he said to me yesterday that he'd mentioned it to a friend and his friend told him he was daft and shouldn't be having unprotected sex with me because of my job  :-\ but I am very careful and use condoms for everything with clients and I get tested regularly. I didn't know whether to be offended by what his friend said

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« Reply #260 on: 12 April 2016, 04:44:26 pm »
I was an escort when I met my ex and was an escort when I met my current partner. Both have been loving, supportive, kind and understanding.

It helps that my current boyfriend has a history of hiring sex workers so I can chat to him about it and ask for his advice and help.

 :D

I have unprotected sex with my partner (we are both clean and tested) and use condoms (I do not offer OWO or CIM) with clients.

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« Reply #261 on: 12 April 2016, 05:24:26 pm »
question for those in relationships, do you have unprotected sex with your partner?

I do, sex without a condom or a clock is the best thing ever

Yeah it is. I ask because I'm not using condoms with my new partner but he said to me yesterday that he'd mentioned it to a friend and his friend told him he was daft and shouldn't be having unprotected sex with me because of my job  :-\ but I am very careful and use condoms for everything with clients and I get tested regularly. I didn't know whether to be offended by what his friend said

The only time I wouldn't is if say a condom had split with a client or something that had comprised my sexual health. I get why his friend would say it because of the nature of your job but you know and I know you're health is paramount and you're tested more than the average person

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« Reply #262 on: 12 April 2016, 05:37:50 pm »
question for those in relationships, do you have unprotected sex with your partner?
Yes.Most people that have been dating or in a relationship for some time decide to do away with condoms I would say.My partner has had the snip.I'm on the pill anyway and always use condoms with clients.

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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #263 on: 12 April 2016, 05:39:50 pm »
question for those in relationships, do you have unprotected sex with your partner?

I do, sex without a condom or a clock is the best thing ever

Yeah it is. I ask because I'm not using condoms with my new partner but he said to me yesterday that he'd mentioned it to a friend and his friend told him he was daft and shouldn't be having unprotected sex with me because of my job  :-\ but I am very careful and use condoms for everything with clients and I get tested regularly. I didn't know whether to be offended by what his friend said
I think I'd be more pissed off that he is discussing it with his friend.Its got nothing to do with anyone but yourselves.You together will figure out if and when you are comfortable enough to do without condoms not his mate!

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« Reply #264 on: 12 April 2016, 06:42:05 pm »

Yeah it is. I ask because I'm not using condoms with my new partner but he said to me yesterday that he'd mentioned it to a friend and his friend told him he was daft and shouldn't be having unprotected sex with me because of my job  :-\ but I am very careful and use condoms for everything with clients and I get tested regularly. I didn't know whether to be offended by what his friend said

Sounds like the friend is pretty uneducated and believes the stereotype about all sex workers being 'dirty' and 'riddled.' Hopefully your partner quickly corrected him.
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« Reply #265 on: 12 April 2016, 08:44:09 pm »
question for those in relationships, do you have unprotected sex with your partner?

Of course!  ;D

One of the many perks of being married!

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« Reply #266 on: 14 April 2016, 11:39:39 am »
A healthy relationship under any circumstances is based on absolute honesty, trust and commitment to making it work. If you meet the right person they will be fine with what you do. If you have to play stupid games with them to pacify them, you're with the wrong person.

I completely agree.  :)

Me also, very true words. Although I do understand how guys would be torn up on a night that I'm working

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« Reply #267 on: 14 April 2016, 11:54:45 am »
Am I the only one who has a bloke who gets turned on by their other half being a prossie?  He's got a very good job of his own and has no involvement with my work, but the idea of me coming home having had several guys in a day really seems to get him going.

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« Reply #268 on: 14 April 2016, 12:17:06 pm »
Am I the only one who has a bloke who gets turned on by their other half being a prossie?  He's got a very good job of his own and has no involvement with my work, but the idea of me coming home having had several guys in a day really seems to get him going.

It's called "cuckhold fetish".  ;)
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« Reply #269 on: 14 April 2016, 02:52:50 pm »

Me also, very true words. Although I do understand how guys would be torn up on a night that I'm working

Why on earth would a guy be 'torn up' when you're working???