I thought swinging sites were just for sex and swapping partners i never knew they were meant for dating too. Oh well you learn something new every day.

Not much of story but we spent a lot of time talking on the phone for a couple of weeks before we met so we kinda had an idea it might be more than just a one off shag. We met it was amazing, not just the sex either lol. Three years later still together.

I don’t see how they are comparable? Ones a job and the other is pleasure

Yes it is a job, i do know one woman though who allows her partner to go elsewhere as she says he thinks it's unfair if she can still have fun and get paid and he cannot so he hooks up too as he apparantely says she cannot keep using her sex with strangers as just a job as it must work both ways. I found that quite funny. They been together on and off couple of years not sure how long they will last as the arrangement is already making her feel uneasy.

Yes it’s quite complicated for me I only see sex at work as work. I’m not interested in men to date or even have sex with in my private life. I don’t find them attractive physically, romantically or anything like that.

No there are other women on the site looking for women but not so many

I used to do duo bookings with another sp and they were usually evening out calls. Her husband would drive us there and pick us up afterwards.  He creeped me out though because he always asked her to describe the booking while he was driving then more often than not he would ask me how many I had "done" that day?

I gave vague answers but wanted to tell him to mind his own fkkkin business.  I ended up feeling a little sorry for that lady as she told me he gave up his job a few months after she began escorting. 

Eventually I stopped the duos with her after making an excuse as to why I was only doing single bookings from then on.