Author Topic: Relationships whilst escorting? (Read 110603 times)

Jessiegirl · « **Reply #555 on:** 06 January 2022, 04:38:06 pm »

My ex wanted me to quit. I chose the job over him.

Jealousy can be a problem dating a client especially if other clients are giving you sexual pleasure.
At the same time will a client you date be seeing other escorts.

I have a client in love with me but I know he sees other ladies. If I were to have a relationship with him would I trust him to stop seeing other ladies. Probably not.

I do know clients who have dated escorts and did love them so although rare it can happen.

Milf-G · « **Reply #556 on:** 09 January 2022, 05:40:07 pm »

Quote from: sw London girl on 06 January 2022, 04:07:03 pm

I am dating a client He was ok with me working untill recently when he started to be jealous... He is saying he cant sleep, he is sad because he doesnt like the thought of me having sex with other men... We are having a relationship crisis I suggested to be just casual but so hard I have feelings for him as well.... But one thing for sure I will not stop working because of him!!!!

I had some feelings for a client, but he wanted me to stop escorting. In the end he went back to his sugar mamma because I wouldn't let him control me.

Missizzy · « **Reply #557 on:** 09 January 2022, 06:35:10 pm »

I hope I'm not derailing the topic, but I have enormous respect for ladies who have relationships doing this job. I'd have no nerve to even begin to bring up if I had a boyfriend. I Wouldn't know how to even begin to broach it.

sw London girl · « **Reply #558 on:** 09 January 2022, 08:53:14 pm »

Quote from: Missizzy on 09 January 2022, 06:35:10 pm

I hope I'm not derailing the topic, but I have enormous respect for ladies who have relationships doing this job. I'd have no nerve to even begin to bring up if I had a boyfriend. I Wouldn't know how to even begin to broach it.

That's why I am dating a client, well he is not a client anymore. I don't think I can start dating someone and have to lie about my job... I live double life anyway... my family/friends don't know, it's hard. But I wouldn't have guts to tell someone even if he seem open minded etc

Milf-G · « **Reply #559 on:** 09 January 2022, 08:59:18 pm »

Quote from: sw London girl on 09 January 2022, 08:53:14 pm

That's why I am dating a client, well he is not a client anymore. I don't think I can start dating someone and have to lie about my job... I live double life anyway... my family/friends don't know, it's hard. But I wouldn't have guts to tell someone even if he seem open minded etc

Very few of my clients are good looking enough or are decent enough in bed lol

sw London girl · « **Reply #560 on:** 09 January 2022, 08:59:41 pm »

Quote from: Milf-glos on 09 January 2022, 05:40:07 pm

I had some feelings for a client, but he wanted me to stop escorting. In the end he went back to his sugar mamma because I wouldn't let him control me.

I sometimes question myself.... if he really loves me why he doesn't ask me to stop ... how can he just accept it? And the answer is ... I am so stupid I guess to believe him... but I am happy.. it's a casual thing and he brings joy in my life. I rather have him as a friend with benefits than a client ( he wasn't very regular anyway

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sw London girl · « **Reply #561 on:** 09 January 2022, 09:02:01 pm »

Quote from: Milf-glos on 09 January 2022, 08:59:18 pm

Very few of my clients are good looking enough or are decent enough in bed lol

I've had much more attractive guys before or after I met him or better in bed.... But this one is special

It was instant ATTRACTION from the first moment he walked into my flat...

Milf-G · « **Reply #562 on:** 09 January 2022, 09:18:53 pm »

Quote from: sw London girl on 09 January 2022, 09:02:01 pm

I've had much more attractive guys before or after I met him or better in bed.... But this one is special It was instant ATTRACTION from the first moment he walked into my flat...

Fair play to you! I'd love that.

sw London girl · « **Reply #563 on:** 09 January 2022, 09:26:25 pm »

Quote from: Milf-glos on 09 January 2022, 09:18:53 pm

Fair play to you! I'd love that.

But to be honest now when I have feelings for him... nobody even come close to him as looks or skills in bed... Sex when you have feelings it's the BEST x

Milf-G · « **Reply #564 on:** 10 January 2022, 12:49:50 pm »

Quote from: sw London girl on 09 January 2022, 09:26:25 pm

But to be honest now when I have feelings for him... nobody even come close to him as looks or skills in bed... Sex when you have feelings it's the BEST x

Absolutely. Last bloke I had freebie sex with was a chap I met off a singles group. Gave him a massage and it led to the hottest sex I have ever had, I really did have feelings for him. We met again and had another night of amazing sex, there was me thinking how was I going to hide the fact I was a sex worker because there was no way I was letting him go.... he wasn't ready for a relationship. Gutted. Decided now nobody is getting freebie sex off me unless a relationship is on the cards.

Segirl · « **Reply #565 on:** 16 January 2022, 11:31:25 pm »

I fell in love with a regular who fell in love with me
He supports my job and even gives me tips on making my business better. He has stopped seeing escorts and when he sees an escorts likes he asks me to join for a threesome. I trust him completely and he does too and talk about my job with him. He understands it's just my job,as hes a older man who has lived half of his life as a swinger. At first when we started he would still pay me for sex but I began to feel awkward about it when I got convinced it was genuine. I've told him to stop paying for sex but he still finds a way to spend money or give me money so I dont feel he took advantage of me. He tells me he walked into the relationship with his eyes open knowing I'm an excort and he has accepted it. I make sure i reassure him that sex is different from what we give each other.

Teetee · « **Reply #566 on:** 22 January 2022, 08:34:44 pm »

Quote from: sw London girl on 09 January 2022, 08:59:41 pm

I sometimes question myself.... if he really loves me why he doesn't ask me to stop ... how can he just accept it? And the answer is ... I am so stupid I guess to believe him... but I am happy.. it's a casual thing and he brings joy in my life. I rather have him as a friend with benefits than a client ( he wasn't very regular anyway )

I would be careful and not tell him or let him know who your friends and family are just in case things don't work out and he becones vindictive and tells your family and friends about what you do. I had it happen to me but I'm not sure if they believed what he said because no one has ever spoke about it well not to me anyway but probably behind my back.

northernstar · « **Reply #567 on:** 04 July 2022, 08:29:02 pm »

Hi,

If you had a situation where punter asks you out (and you find him attractive and pleasant), would you:

1) turn it down or accept
2) if accept, how would you gauge his intentions?

I’m going out with a punter soon, we have met two times and each time he was flawless as a client. He then asked me out for a dinner so far so good. Naturally, I do question his motives for asking me out and consider that he may just be after free fucks. I am curious what sort of warning signs to look out for.

Milf-G · « **Reply #568 on:** 04 July 2022, 08:58:08 pm »

Quote from: northernstar on 04 July 2022, 08:29:02 pm

Hi,

If you had a situation where punter asks you out (and you find him attractive and pleasant), would you:

1) turn it down or accept
2) if accept, how would you gauge his intentions?

I’m going out with a punter soon, we have met two times and each time he was flawless as a client. He then asked me out for a dinner so far so good. Naturally, I do question his motives for asking me out and consider that he may just be after free fucks. I am curious what sort of warning signs to look out for.

Well I have said to good looking flawless clients before after a few visits they could date me (when they asked) but don't expect sex on the first date, of and they're paying for food! Still waiting for a date....

I did go out with a client for a meal a while back, I felt sorry for him but I wasn't attracted, and he seemed to get really clingy and needy. Constantly sending me messages, turned up unannounced. It got too much for me and I had to block.

So, moral of the story is, if he's happy and you're happy go for it, just set ground rules otherwise he's getting free sex. I would be discussing why he wanted to date a SP and whether he was comfortable.

Honesty is key. I know lots of escorts in relationships where the other half is really happy with their job. I'd love that, I really would.

Ana66 · « **Reply #569 on:** 04 July 2022, 09:27:15 pm »

Quote from: northernstar on 04 July 2022, 08:29:02 pm

Hi,

If you had a situation where punter asks you out (and you find him attractive and pleasant), would you:

1) turn it down or accept
2) if accept, how would you gauge his intentions?

I’m going out with a punter soon, we have met two times and each time he was flawless as a client. He then asked me out for a dinner so far so good. Naturally, I do question his motives for asking me out and consider that he may just be after free fucks. I am curious what sort of warning signs to look out for.

Hi, I was in the exact same situation, I accepted and now he is my boyfriend.

-Just make sure his intentions are right and benevolent.

-Make sure he is not looking for free sex (as Milf-G said, make sure not to give him sex on the first date).

-Also make sure he pays for the food, activities and everything for at least the first three dates.

-Try to gauge his intentions and behaviours as much as you can (see if he wants to get to know you deeper, if he is genuinely interested in you for your personality and not for something else, if he projects himself in the future with you).

-Get to know him and see if you two are compatible for a relationship

-Finally make sure you're attracted by him physically (because let's be honest physical attraction is important in a relationship in my opinion), ask yourself if you could have sex with him on a regular basis for free.

If all of this works, then you could develop a relationship and enjoy

Ps. Also make sure he is not constantly reminding you that you're an escort and everything associated with it to put you down psychologically

See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

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