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I enjoy anal every so often but it has to be at my own pace. I only do it with a few select customers who I know treat me well and respect my wishes. If they are too big I don't do it as it will struggle to fit and just be too sore and there is no fun in that.

Re. the last question, I just wondered if anal-seeking punters were perhaps more into the whole PSE thing overall, maybe a little rougher, or if there were any other characteristics that separated them. I think I'm a bit put off by some of the idiots whose first question on the phone is 'Do you do anal?'

No, I don't find that at all but then the punters who want a PSE service don't book me because I don't offer one, so I suppose we just don't run into each other. I'm more likely to get punters who haven't tried it before (or who just like it ). As for the phone manner, I'd just count that as bad manners combined with not having read my ad, so I'd be just as put off as you.

VC, I agree about the anus not lubricating if everything is OK down there. With me, it would just be vaginal lubrication spreading downwards.

I agree too - if your bum is making mucus or other slippy stuff that isn't poo, that would indicate something like IBS to me.

I threw an anal douche in the bin five minutes ago because I mixed up the spouts and didn't know which one was mine or used by a client. I don't know enough about the hygiene issues so thought better safe than sorry.

I don't prep my unless a client specifically wants anal and even then just a douche or three to prevent unsightly accidents. My biggest problem is lube. I'm not sure how much or how deep or when to apply beforehand. I had loads squirt out of my bum once which caused a client to worry.

hi Kay,

as a (part-time) bi male escort, i'm surprised more of the gents haven't replied, after all we are the experts for anal sex - most of our bookings involve us giving or receiving (or both) anal.

You asked some very good and structured questions and I think got some good answers. I would just say from my experience, anal does get easier after the first few times, I don't think it's about stretching but just being more confident and relaxed. I can remember, in the beginning (when I did it in my private life - not for work) it really hurt every time, my friend I was having sex with was quite big (8 inches) but not massive. Somehow I learned to relax, after that it never hurt with him and I really enjoyed it!

When I started working, again it started hurting, even with much smaller ones! Then again I managed to relax and it never hurts again - even really big ones! Now I actually like the challenge of taking a big cock, I feel very proud of myself afterwards! It doesn't really hurt either, just feel a bit "worn out" and feel aware of my anus (but not in pain).

So what I learned is that it's all about having confidence, being able to relax (so your ring doesn't tighten through nerves) and then it's possible to enjoy it. Also I have a friend, ex female SW, we have been occasionally having sex for like 15 years. She used to hate anal (never did with clients nor me), but now loves it and can orgasm through anal, often asks me to switch from her pussy to her ass.

About being clean, I always douche before receiving anal. With experience, you can know if you will be clean or dirty based on what you ate and how long since last ate, but to be sure I always douche - this also is part of me feeling confident (knowing that the client will be clean). Almost always girls I have had anal with have been clean, but clients very often are not - male bums seem to be dirtier than female ones, for some reason!

About condoms, always use plenty of lube. I never had any problem with splitting or slipping off. As others have said, cocks have to be harder to enter an ass than a vagina in the first place.

Good luck, and let us know how you get on!

henry

as a (part-time) bi male escort, i'm surprised more of the gents haven't replied, after all we are the experts for anal sex - most of our bookings involve us giving or receiving (or both) anal.

About being clean, I always douche before receiving anal. With experience, you can know if you will be clean or dirty based on what you ate and how long since last ate, but to be sure I always douche - this also is part of me feeling confident (knowing that the client will be clean). Almost always girls I have had anal with have been clean, but clients very often are not - male bums seem to be dirtier than female ones, for some reason!

It was great to see henry's input.  I too, expected far more input from male perspective.  Maybe, the subject is too personal, I don't know.  Some clients clean themselves prior to the booking and some assume that they are clean without any douche (and they are not).  Some clients never heard of "douche" and never seen one and what it takes to prep for anal even when "anal" is his main dish.   

I have seen posts from women who had some "accidents" during the booking.  I do think these things may or do happen unless you fast for the past 6-8 hours or so like you do when you do your colonoscopy (just like porn stars who receive anal). And you know that patients are expected to drink the prep fluid (laxative) for colonoscopy beforehand as well.   

I quite agree.  It depends on what type of food you had eaten and how "overactive" or "settled" your gut might be on a given day.   The gut has its own mind.  For clients who would freak out if gets dirty, I would say, maybe, anal isn't for you.  You never know.  I doubt any escorts would fast for many hours in advance or modify what you eat just because you offer anal.   

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