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Nia Hope

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #45 on: 18 September 2014, 07:57:22 pm »
Can you get a whole hand up there Lushblossom?   :D

Nia, do you fist blokes or girls? How do you get your hand up there?? Tbh, I have a reg who would like to get his hand right up my arse.

Girls, if you don't want to discuss on public forum (which I completely understand) then please PM me.

I am finding this fascinating!!  8)
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« Reply #46 on: 18 September 2014, 11:22:08 pm »
LMAO Lushblossom. It's true, I wouldn't want to be wearing Pampers when I'm ancient!

Nia, I've never had a bloke ask for that yet but I will be using a strap- on soon so I'll need to go slow. I doubt the ol' bum hole would go back to its usual 'pucker' state with a lot of fisting and Nia, my hands are not small so god help the guy who asks!!

Casualty anyone  ;D ;D ;D ;D

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« Reply #47 on: 18 September 2014, 11:34:36 pm »
I cannot believe that being fisted anally doesn't have long-term health and functioning implications!  :-X
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #48 on: 18 September 2014, 11:42:03 pm »
Think that I must be one of the few girls who enjoys anal & anal play! Ok first off, get a 'booty bath' from Ann Summers  {?12 I'm in Dublin but would imagine the UK price to be less than ?20) to 'cleanse' before play {or cleanse any time to relieve tummy bloating!} I also got an 'anal bleach' cream from a sex shop, again it was really cheap and after a few applications leaves you with a pretty, pink, butt! I find that once I'm turned on, loads of lube, loads of teasing {the anus is a highly sensitive erogenous zone!) its very pleasurable!!! The initial, ahem, entry can be a little painful but I find once you relax, a little manual clitoral stimulation and you a well on the way to heaven! I have come loads of times this way! I would deffo say try it at least once this way, you dont know what you are missing!! But maybe thats just me! :-) I had a guy once who was anal obsessed and obsessed with licking my bum - rimming- and omg I found it the sexiest thing ever!! apologies if this is a little graphic!! xx

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #49 on: 18 September 2014, 11:49:48 pm »
SarrahSue, I couldn't agree more. It turns me on like nothing else and guys love it! I love douching too as it cleans you out and like you, I douche if bloated.

I find if I stick two or three fingers up before a guy attempts penetration, then he slides in nicely. I also don't eat certain types of food and this helps with the evacuation. It's a normal pre working ritual for me now. My arsehole isn't too dark lol but the bleaching cream sounds interesting. There'll be a bloody colour chart soon, like when you choose paint!! ROFL  ;D ;D ;D

Delicious!!

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #50 on: 19 September 2014, 01:12:17 am »
I don't usually have guys trying to convince me to do it-- I do offer anal play cause I don't mind a lubed up finger or a tongue in my bum, although I get really ticklish with the latter, so occasionally I will have someone call and ask if that means I offer anal to which I firmly respond no and have never had anyone argue with me over it-- but in the after sex chat I have had guys ask me about me and have gotten similar responses to what yours have said when I say yes I have done it and hated it and wouldn't do it again, unless it was for a boyfriend on his birthday or something as it wasn't painful or anything to me just not terribly enjoyable.
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Nia Hope

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #51 on: 19 September 2014, 10:28:36 am »
I cannot believe that being fisted anally doesn't have long-term health and functioning implications!  :-X

It does!x
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« Reply #52 on: 19 September 2014, 10:54:28 am »
Hi- I'm a 20 y/o student escort. One of my regulars has said he wants to "take" my anal virginity. He is rich and my best customer. He suggested a price but I have no idea. I think I'm ready and want to do it anyway. I don't want to go into the practicalities of preparation I'll ask you all about that nearer the time. How much should I charge him?

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« Reply #53 on: 19 September 2014, 11:52:25 am »
Pieces of string, how long are they? :)

Are you happy with the price he's offering? If not, what price would make you happy?
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #54 on: 19 September 2014, 12:48:39 pm »
I love anal, I get ready with a medium glass plug beforehand and lots of liquid silk :)

I do have issues with guys getting a bit too excited with their fingers, trying to put them from my bottom to my vagina :-X strongly considering banning fingers from downstairs
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #55 on: 19 September 2014, 04:03:02 pm »
I sort of liked anal play but found penis penetration painful more often then not. So, I did some googling about it and got ideas on how to "learn" it. I bought a douche thingy (and I absolutely love it. I use it for every bowel movement, now.) I bought special anal lube that has a slightly numbing effect. I use a vibrator during vaginal penetration in cowgirl to apply it - they like the feeling of the double penetration/vibration, and it is an easy way to prime the hole!

I read that bearing down just as the penis begins to enter helps it move in (although you might think you're pushing it out, but it doesn't work like that. It just pops it in. I ask them to hold still and I will gently rock back and forth, taking more in until he's all the way in.

I do really like it, but I can't stand it for very long, like I can vaginal penetration.

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #56 on: 19 September 2014, 04:24:54 pm »
When I first started working ( a zillion years ago) I never offered it - now I totally love it. Even though I've been doing it for years I still find that the *angle* has to be right otherwise it can be uncomfortable.

I'm wary of offering newbies anal after doing it for the first time with a regular who just shoved it straight in - I almost ended up with my head embedded in the wall. Slow and lubed to start with before I can take a jolly good pounding.

Strangely enough I HATE anal play - no fingers are allowed in there.

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #57 on: 19 September 2014, 06:55:20 pm »
I love anal but no way would I do it with a client, or anyone who wasn't a serious boyfriend.
Even then I wouldn't do it too often due to what can happen (prolapsed arsehole? No thanks)
I've a friend who has had anal so much she has real problems down there
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #58 on: 19 September 2014, 08:37:23 pm »
Hmmmm, I must be in the minority. I'm like a cross breed of you fellow posters, lol.

You see, I LOVE the thought of anal, it turns me on so much! Just reading this thread makes me hungry for it, haha! But, like many others on this thread, I find it very uncomfortable, sometimes painful and, yes, I agree, like I need to poo! Lol.

It frustrates me so much that I cannot do it.
I have a douche, a multitude of anal lube, a million anal toys, I have tried everything! I have tried roughly 20 to 30 times, and only 2 to 3 times were really enjoyable, I fully got off on it and the feeling of needing to poo and the discomfort subsided. All I know was that I was very drunk and my labido was sky high, that was how I was able to work towards it.

For those who just have the problem of feeling like they need a poo. I found that once you've gently worked him in, your relaxed, slowly pick up the speed, picking up the speed (but at your own instructions and pace) helps eleviate that feeling, and it then becomes enjoyable. This is just in my opinion though that worked for me, we are all different, so please don't take this as a definite answer to the poo problem, lol xox

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #59 on: 19 September 2014, 09:26:07 pm »
- they like the feeling of the double penetration/vibration, and it is an easy way to prime the hole!

I have to admit this does turn me on... a guy having his finger in my bum while having sex with me vaginally, I had a guy do it couple years ago and it got me super hot! I'm too afraid to ask my guy to do it though as he's a little vanilla in the sex department and I think he'll think I'm a total weirdo.

I agree with the comment about guys switching fingers between bum holes and the vaginal hole, it really annoys me as I know you can get an infection that way, they just seem totally clueless about it...
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