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Ieaio

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Questions about anal?
« on: 11 July 2013, 10:35:54 pm »
I don't currently offer anal as i find it unpleasant, lets face it, it feels like you are going to the toilet. SO of course if i don't enjoy something i wont offer it. Personal preference each escort to their own.

Some rude men ask me for it despite knowing i don't offer it. Some offer me more money, i always decline. The usual one liners such as "Well you haven't tried it then" or "It wasn't with the right man" or "You weren't relaxed" To which i respond to their rudeness with "Have you ever had it? No. I don't offer it end off, feels like you are going to the toilet, sorry to burst your bubble." Sometimes you have to be sassy huh. One man even came out with the line "You are a prostitute, i paid you, you were made for anal" Huh charming. 

I like to explore my options but of course i like to keep my service as honest as possible.

Do you enjoy anal and do you feel it makes you more money offering that service?

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #1 on: 11 July 2013, 10:50:44 pm »
I've always offered it because I enjoy it (and I've never had it feel like 'going to the toilet') but I don't think the specific service is the issue here. People who try to badger you into offering services you don't want to are never going to be the sort of punters you want, and not seeing them is costing you nothing :).

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #2 on: 11 July 2013, 11:07:25 pm »
I don't offer it because it does make me feel like I'm going to the toilet and it hurts. I also have had the same lines from men who would like to 'persuade' my body to not experience the same reactions. ::)

In fact very recently I've had offers of twice my usual 2 hourly rate to include the service, and have explained I only offer the service I genuinely like and am comfortable offering. Unless he wants to add a lot of zeros, and likes having sex with someone whose body is physically rejecting the act,  and in pain then it's not on the cards.

Don't get angry, just offer what you are happy offering otherwise you just waste energy and time. By the way the lines you are hearing are not confined to men paying for sex, I've heard exactly the same outside and before I worked in the sex industry. It's manipulation by making you out to be in the wrong, not pleasant but worth remembering that it's their issue not yours.
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #3 on: 12 July 2013, 12:52:02 am »
Are you considering offering anal? If you find it unpleasant I don't any money you make from offering it will make it any less unpleasant.

I don't offer anal and I have not had clients ask for it - but quite a lot think it's ok to just go ahead with anal play and try putting fingers where they are not welcome. I point out anal play is not one of my services, if they push their luck again they are no longer a client of mine.

Offer services you are comfortable with and don't let clients try and change your mind.


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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #4 on: 12 July 2013, 01:05:14 am »
Dont like it personally, have had the same thing said to me. My craic is if i dont like i dont do it, and if clients try to force it on me they dont see me.

At the same time though kinda wish i did lke it, a friend of mine another WG loves it and gets so much more work than me!!

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #5 on: 12 July 2013, 08:49:54 am »
Have to admit that I like it too :-X. For me it doesnt feel like I'm going to the toilet at all (would spend more time in the loo if it was like anal!).

I love the fact that its a little brutal and shocking without being too painful or uncomfortable. It does depend entirely on how its done and for me the wham bam take that Maam approach wouldn't be good. 

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #6 on: 12 July 2013, 08:58:38 am »
I've never offered anal since starting in this business.  I sort of enjoy it in my private life, but have to be really really really turned on and have been good diet wise for a few days otherwise it plays hell with my IBS.  Even then it takes me a couple of days to recover from it, so offering it as part of my service isn't worth the hassle.
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #7 on: 12 July 2013, 08:59:21 am »
I don't currently offer anal as i find it unpleasant, lets face it, it feels like you are going to the toilet. SO of course if i don't enjoy something i wont offer it. Personal preference each escort to their own.

Some rude men ask me for it despite knowing i don't offer it. Some offer me more money, i always decline. The usual one liners such as "Well you haven't tried it then" or "It wasn't with the right man" or "You weren't relaxed" To which i respond to their rudeness with "Have you ever had it? No. I don't offer it end off, feels like you are going to the toilet, sorry to burst your bubble." Sometimes you have to be sassy huh. One man even came out with the line "You are a prostitute, i paid you, you were made for anal" Huh charming. 

I like to explore my options but of course i like to keep my service as honest as possible.

Do you enjoy anal and do you feel it makes you more money offering that service?

To much anal the doctor told me the worst cases is where it leaves incontinence.  I would rarther stop ahead instead to having a bag having to quit. When they ask tor anal now my response is that my bum is precious. When I did anal it was within the time fee not exrtra.

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #8 on: 18 July 2013, 10:36:41 am »
I offer it at discretion. I will not do it with people who have large equipment as I can get very sore but If its a little one I dont mind and actually really enjoy it. When I say no theres not really much offence as Ive just told the client the have a massive package hahaha  ;D
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #9 on: 18 July 2013, 03:41:23 pm »
I enjoy it, and so I don't mind doing it... frankly when I was young a lot of girls did it to make sure they didn't get pregnant.

However I do think it has to do with how tall you are.... I think...

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #10 on: 18 July 2013, 04:04:04 pm »
I enjoy it but don't offer it to clients :)
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #11 on: 18 July 2013, 04:31:11 pm »
I don't offer anal  and it annoys me when guys think that its ok for anal play  i tell them  that i don't like that /don't offer it 

(on these occasions i wish i had a nice big tail like my dogs so that i could ram it between the cracks of my ass so that they cant touch me there )

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #12 on: 20 July 2013, 10:54:20 am »
I love it.  Healthy eating and douching do the world of good for your health and enjoyment when offering anal


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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #13 on: 20 July 2013, 11:47:00 pm »
I like it :D But I also have IBS, so it does create health issues for me. I really don't enjoy it with small cocks but I'm not sure how good for business it would be to advertise that I enjoy a certain size for anal!? I tolerate the smaller cocks and think about shopping, I love shopping  ;D

I also absolutely hate having a finger up my ass. It's sooo annoying when clients do that without even thinking to ask. I make it VERY clear on my website that I don't like it. It results in 50% shut down for me. Ok. I'm here, you're doing that, I am thinking mostly about the shoes I'm going to buy but remembering to make appreciative noises and I will NEVER meet you again.

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #14 on: 21 July 2013, 10:57:55 am »
I like it :D But I also have IBS, so it does create health issues for me. I really don't enjoy it with small cocks but I'm not sure how good for business it would be to advertise that I enjoy a certain size for anal!? I tolerate the smaller cocks and think about shopping, I love shopping  ;D

I also absolutely hate having a finger up my ass. It's sooo annoying when clients do that without even thinking to ask. I make it VERY clear on my website that I don't like it. It results in 50% shut down for me. Ok. I'm here, you're doing that, I am thinking mostly about the shoes I'm going to buy but remembering to make appreciative noises and I will NEVER meet you again.

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