Author Topic: Question about walkouts [was: is it normal at all?] (Read 10937 times)

meetingdiversity · « **Reply #45 on:** 12 August 2015, 06:22:23 pm »

It is more of a reflection of them not us. Some are unpleasant right from the word get go. It is a shame to not allow a booking. But on the other hand there are many genuine respecting clients.

Siorse · « **Reply #46 on:** 12 August 2015, 08:27:41 pm »

Quote from: lea on 12 August 2015, 04:07:19 pm

Can't fucking believe this - had another one this morning, just grabbed my by the boob and then run off
Honestly, don't know what to think..

Do you show your face on your profile? I'm not saying that's what puts them off!!! But there's something very strange going on here..
There's no way, even if you don't show your face on your profile, that many guys would walk out, even if they didn't like your face.
Maybe they all know eachother and have decided to play some cruel joke on you?!

Oh, and I think I solved the "puncture" text (I hope that was this thread, and not Foxy lady's..!), it probably meant to say "picture",
and predictive text changed it to puncture?
I get them quite a lot, texts with just "picture?", meaning they want me to send them free pics..

MM3 · « **Reply #47 on:** 12 August 2015, 08:35:50 pm »

I kinda show my face- eyes are blurred

Siorse · « **Reply #48 on:** 12 August 2015, 08:45:25 pm »

Quote from: lea on 12 August 2015, 08:35:50 pm

I kinda show my face- eyes are blurred

Well that can't be it than either.. I'm baffled by this and I really feel for you, can't be doing your self-esteem any good..
When do you give them your address?
Maybe you need to tweek your clientele radar a bit, weed out the arseholes and TW's, and do not give your address out until
the booking's confirmed, you've spoke to the guy, he sounds genuine etc etc..
I don't give them my buzzer number until they're actually near my flat, then I tell them to call or text me and I'll give them the number.
That way you won't get all and sundry at your door without having to put a bit of effort in getting your address in the first place..

cheesypeas · « **Reply #49 on:** 12 August 2015, 09:19:50 pm »

Siorse you're brilliant! lol

I think some girls already asked...any pets or babies in the house?
Any neighbours who cook speciality foods? curry, cabbage, fish etc
I'm scraping the bottom of the barrel here...

(My mate had a baby and the flat stunk of shit when it had an upset
tummy but she couldn't smell it. I was too embarassed to mention it

)

meetingdiversity · « **Reply #50 on:** 13 August 2015, 01:26:07 am »

Quote from: lea on 12 August 2015, 04:07:19 pm

Can't fucking believe this - had another one this morning, just grabbed my by the boob and then run off
Honestly, don't know what to think..

Some are sad old men that are immature he probably was jobless. I study them when they talk the words they use. Their manners etc. Then conclude the jolly ones you know they are safe watch out for the quiet tone voices. I let clients know if they ask about that clients don't all get a booking with me just because they want.

Some times a slight change to how we operate improves. Over seeing our business. It has been ages since had a walk out.

All the best.

serenaswansea · « **Reply #51 on:** 13 August 2015, 01:39:16 am »

Hi, I'm new here so forgive me if Im butting in!

I was reading through this thread and it struck me that it looks a lot like someone is doing this deliberately. Is there anyone who knows or could have found out your work details, who could be out to get you for whatever reason? Putting your number somewhere perhaps?
Has this rate of walkers changed or always been the same?
Im probably just being overdramatic and been watching too much crap tv though lol.

S xx

Siorse · « **Reply #52 on:** 13 August 2015, 12:15:46 pm »

Quote from: cheesypeas on 12 August 2015, 09:19:50 pm

Siorse you're brilliant! lol

I think some girls already asked...any pets or babies in the house?
Any neighbours who cook speciality foods? curry, cabbage, fish etc
I'm scraping the bottom of the barrel here...

(My mate had a baby and the flat stunk of shit when it had an upset
tummy but she couldn't smell it. I was too embarassed to mention it )

Lol, I wouldn't go as far as brilliant

I just don't understand how the OP can get that many walk-outs, I really feel for her and
there's gotta be a reason for it, there's no way that's coincidence or that many guys happen to "change their mind" when they get
to the door..
Lea, I would hold off giving them your address until the very last moment, when you're sure they're serious about wanting a booking
(and not just a peek at a working girl they might get a thrill out

), and see if that'll improve things..
I'm sure it's not you, and someone (and his mates) is playing a cruel joke on you/ taking advantage of you..

fancypants · « **Reply #53 on:** 13 August 2015, 01:26:21 pm »

Sorry to be an A hole but it's just me and Google at the moment while I wait for my next booking and rather than spend my time watching cat videos on YouTube I decided to be slightly more productive and find out what the word " puncture" could possible mean.

The term " puncture" from the Macmillan dictionary [TRANSITIVE] ( To cause a sudden change in the way that someone feels or thinks about something)

In plain English he's just a Dick. Walk outs happen to the best of us. My friend once had a walk out and she's mega hot!!! He turned up and said " Sorry your not what I was expecting" then she said " Ok then, bye" and then he said " Can I just have a blow job"? you can imagine what she said to that.! Basically he didn't have the money to begin with.

meetingdiversity · « **Reply #54 on:** 13 August 2015, 05:55:15 pm »

Quote from: lea on 07 August 2015, 10:42:08 pm

I * usually * have 3-6 booking a day on the average and one of them (well, most days) is bound to be a walkout
I mean, they use various reasons like '' thought you were more like brunet'' even tough I use word ''blonde'' as a part of my AW nickname ...
I answer the door wearing the very same dress like in my AW amateur pictures and look just like my pics- most guys are like '' WOW you look much better than the pics!"
I mean, I don't mind it too much if I'm doing my incall day ( which means sat in my flat all day and don't have to travel) but otherwise.. really pisses me off..

Any advise or other observations.

Thanks xx

_{[Title edited for clarity]}

This might help just an idea only get changed on thier arrival. Have it on the bed ready. Dress nice in between bookings. Screening is another one not saying you don't just incase. Are there any ways this can be improved. Time wasters are out there usually the suspicious ones turn out to be. When some thing isn't right about there verbal is another clue of a time waster.

Once you start doing things different you should notice an improvement.

ParisB · « **Reply #55 on:** 13 August 2015, 06:41:54 pm »

I still think that if your advertising on Craig's list that's were most of the idiots are coming from they seem to breed on that site in large numbers
My friend use it in dubai and had a similar time to you as soon as she took it off things went back to normal

I know a lot of escorts and none of them advertise on CL because of the amount of wankers

I would still recommend getting a different phone for CL and not linking your advert to it and I bet you all the dicks come from there

If you want to keep advertising on there just put your email address on it and get them to email you for your contact details

Or remove your adds for a week or so and see what happens if you get less walkers but I still think the separate mobile work best to see where they are coming from

Def don't give them the address until you can either see them or you know they are nearby maybe make it a little bit harder for them to book you

You said before all your AW bookings come off so it's obvious that it's either CL or viva St

The only other thing I can think of is are you in a area where there are a lot of Massage parlours because that might make a difference to the mentality of the guys who are used to just going and having a look

Mirror · « **Reply #56 on:** 13 August 2015, 06:49:42 pm »

I'd try taking your number off CL and VS.

Also do you have clients confirm close to their appointment?

Having several steps can help weed out the look-see, and some genuine guys tell me they end up reassured that you are taking their booking seriously.

MM3 · « **Reply #57 on:** 13 August 2015, 07:29:24 pm »

Maybe I'm getting paranoid, but i think somebody is having me on..
I got this message this afternoon...

'' hey lea. love your profile . would you be interested in joining me for a daring dinner date? the daring part is would like to you wear an incredible skimpy revealing outfit out for the evening if thats ok? we can go for dinner, to few bars and then have some naughty fun. probably 3 hours in total x''

MM3 · « **Reply #58 on:** 13 August 2015, 07:37:54 pm »

I mean, skimpy outfit wtf> they just want me to turn up there looking ridiculous ...

Mirror · « **Reply #59 on:** 13 August 2015, 08:18:00 pm »

Yes those requests are not unheard of.

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