Hi Ladies,
Seem to have a real problem and have no idea how to deal with it! a customer was calling to get the address so i gave him the postcode, then he called again saying he'd arrived and asking for the house number. despite my inner feeling that there's smth wrong with him i still gave the number Obviously a few minutes later his phone was off Then received a text from him like you''re a f...ng timewaster, maybe i will tell your neighbors and police your address and show them your AW profile!!!!!!   please give me an advice, girls, i am nearly crying now, another text that he's printing my profile now and sending it to the police. What a ..
Need to calm down somehow...

So sorry this is happening to you hun.

First things first take a deep breath and calm down. Remember there is a high chance this guy is full of shit and just looking for a reaction.

Now- do you show your face on your AW profile? If not then even if he is serious there is no way of them knowing for certain it is you. If you do then you can always tell your neighbours that this guy is your crazy ex trying to make trouble for you.

Personally I would pull my AW account down for the day (registration settings change it to seeking services instead). You won't loose credits or feedback. Then wait it out.

I really hope this guy is just scaremonging and not serious. Don't kill yourself with worry babe x

Thank you so much Ambs
 Fortunately I don't show my face but this still would be a nightmare if he does it, hope so much that's he is just an unhappy guy who doesn't have any better things to do. Now i am  more than sure that he even was't there at the parking as he was saying. Can't believe that, i must be stupid to give away my house number

Don't go kicking yourself. We have all made mistakes and the only thing we can do is learn from them hun.

Not showing your face is in this instance a good thing. I personally would still take my profile down for a day and let your paranoia settle. Ignore this mans texts for the most part men like him are just idiots looking for a reaction with no real intention of doing the cruel things they say.

If he does do it just deny the hell out of it. But think positive the chances are not so high. If you drink get yourself a stiff one- I know that things like this can rattle the hell out of a girl! Take lots of deep breaths and try to distract yourself.

In future try to work out a way you can see a client before giving them your door number or even better try to work out a way you do not have to give your door number at all. If your in a block a lot of the time you can buzz guys in without them needing to buzz you etc.

Sending you virtual hugs xx

Keep all your texts from this guy, if he's threatening towards you and planning to expose you to the neighbours it's harrassment. If it esculates then calmly send him a text telling him YOU'll be going to the police and charge him for harrassment (if he's demanding something from you to shut him up then you can add blackmail to that too).  The police take a very dim view on blackmail.  That should shut him up.  It's easier said than done, but try and keep calm and only respond to him telling him you're going to the police if it gets any worse.  As Ambs said  he's probably just scaremongering and hopefully nothing will come of it.  xx

Keep all your texts from this guy, if he's threatening towards you and planning to expose you to the neighbours it's harrassment. If it esculates then calmly send him a text telling him YOU'll be going to the police and charge him for harrassment (if he's demanding something from you to shut him up then you can add blackmail to that too).  The police take a very dim view on blackmail.  That should shut him up.  It's easier said than done, but try and keep calm and only respond to him telling him you're going to the police if it gets any worse.  As Ambs said  he's probably just scaremongering and hopefully nothing will come of it.  xx

That's a very good idea. If he doesn't stop sending his nasty texts, just text him back something along the lines:
All your texts are saved, one more insulting text and I am reporting this to the police. Harrasement and blackmailing is taken very seriously and sorry, but I am not taking your shit, thank you.

Google his phone number.
I did this with someone trying to scare me. Repatedly.
They'd used their work mobile.
Turned out his company fitted security kit in airports. - Oh dear!   

Ok, I'll play.
My reply to him was:
_{Airport scanners, security clearance, compromising behaviour.
Who would you like me to phone first, your employer or the police?}

Talk about freaked out. He promised to never trouble me again.
And he kept to his word.
About a month later, I was ringing a client back, as requested.
They were the directory entry next to airport-man.
I hit the wrong number and the tosser answered. Totally freaked out.
_{"River, I haven't phoned or texted you again.
Please don't call again, I'll loose my job"}
I said: _{"OK, just checking..."} and hung up.
My call was a total accident and I wouldn't twist someone just for the frak of it;
and I was a little mortified I'd called.
Though there was also a little feeling of satisfaction too.

If his mobile number is not revealing anything useful,
You could text him:
_{"Please promptly state your full name, address and the location of your nearest police station.
I'll make my complaint there and this will save you too much travelling, for your upcoming interview.}

Ad removal
Mr punter may be a pimp/boyfriend of another WG located near you
and their sole intent is to get you to remove your AW ad.
If you do so, then they've achieved their aim.

Withheld number hang ups
Another text: _{Dear Mr Soon-to-be-in-custody, are you aware that withheld number data
is stored by telecoms companies for billing and technical reasons.
This data is readily accessible by the police. I expect they will shortly explain this to you in more detail}

I hope this blows over for you, I'm sure it will.

Also check his number on facebook, you never know stranger things have happened.

Thank you Janitor
Still don't have any access to it... Will try later again.
Thanx