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Siorse

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Phoning vs Texting
« on: 14 August 2015, 08:32:05 pm »
I know I'm slightly weird, but I really hate phoning..!!
I've always hated it, as long as I can remember, which is, as you can imagine, not very handy in this job..
Half the time I'll let it ring out, and then text back saying I was in a booking or whatever, but I'd rather just be able
to answer the bloody phone without freaking out lol.
Does anyone else have this problem or am I the only weirdo  ???
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Re: Phoning vs Texting
« Reply #1 on: 14 August 2015, 08:46:19 pm »
Same here. I text back that I can't speak at the moment but text is ok. I answer the phone maybe 1 out of 10 calls, maybe not even that. I have a weird anxiety talking to new clients on the phone. However, if a regular rings me I am more than happy to answer.
My phobia started a long long time ago, when I was in a relationship with someone who didn't know what I was doing. I was obsessed that he'd found me and will ring me from a different number and recognise my voice. The guy is long gone, but my phobia not.

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Re: Phoning vs Texting
« Reply #2 on: 14 August 2015, 08:48:58 pm »
I'm the opposite with texters just phone me is alot quicker. As texting back and forth is time consuming. When could be doing other things.

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Re: Phoning vs Texting
« Reply #3 on: 14 August 2015, 08:50:30 pm »
I'm the exact same iv never answered the phone to a client, I have it on my profile to only text me, but of course clients can't read so I still get about 20 odd calls a day.

sensualmilf

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Re: Phoning vs Texting
« Reply #4 on: 14 August 2015, 08:51:46 pm »
I insist on talking to clients before they book.

How do you weed out TWs S?

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Re: Phoning vs Texting
« Reply #5 on: 14 August 2015, 09:25:07 pm »
I communicate exclusively by text and email for this very reason. I'm super-awkward and quiet on the phone, it just makes me shut down completely for some reason.

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Re: Phoning vs Texting
« Reply #6 on: 15 August 2015, 01:32:51 am »
God no - texting gets right on my tits, especially when it's to ask moronic questions, plus I'd never confirm a booking without speaking to them on the phone first. The only exception I made was a deaf bloke, and he emailed me a lot instead, including sending a photo. I can usually tell within 30 seconds whether they're genuine.
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Re: Phoning vs Texting
« Reply #7 on: 15 August 2015, 11:08:00 am »
I used to be like that, and for the first months I'd only take bookings via e-mail, as I was always phone shy. But like sensualmilf said, it's hard to identify timewasters this way, and I was getting way too many no shows. Most of them were no shows, really.
I've since switched to phone, and although it was awkward at first, I definitely got much better at it, and after a few months it's not a problem anymore. I now get irritated at people texting me, with their stupid 'hi' and 'available?', just wasting time when they could just ring me and get done with it.

Bonus, I can now make phone calls in my private life without getting all nervous. And that is a huge plus for me.

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Re: Phoning vs Texting
« Reply #8 on: 15 August 2015, 01:09:23 pm »
It just takes practice. I used to have a little phone anxiety when I was younger (usually fuelled by my mum just making me ring companies when something was wrong - do I know how much I can't do that, mum??!!) But speaking on the phone helps you gauge whether they're genuine or not. I get a lot of texters who when I ask to ring never do, so that's the first stage of eliminating timewasters.

Siorse

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Re: Phoning vs Texting
« Reply #9 on: 15 August 2015, 01:13:58 pm »
I insist on talking to clients before they book.

How do you weed out TWs S?

You can tell a lot from texts lol, just as much as from talking to someone..
It's this weird phone-phobia I've had all my life, it's a pain in the arse, it's not just clients, it's everything and everyone!
Even my friends and family, I'd much rather text or message them on fb or whatever, I've no problem talking face to face
to people either, it's just the PHONE lol, I hate it  >:(
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sensualmilf

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Re: Phoning vs Texting
« Reply #10 on: 15 August 2015, 01:24:57 pm »
Is it a problem for you Siorse? You could try hypnotism X

sensualmilf

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Re: Phoning vs Texting
« Reply #11 on: 15 August 2015, 01:26:31 pm »
And BTW, how DO you pronounce your name - it's bugging me lol?

Is it Shorsha - phonetically??   :)

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Re: Phoning vs Texting
« Reply #12 on: 15 August 2015, 02:03:49 pm »
I absolutely hate texting and insist I hear their voice.

I have the added advantage of having worked switchboards which had 20 incoming lines with approx up to 100 extensions to be connected to.  Not for the faint hearted  ;D
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Re: Phoning vs Texting
« Reply #13 on: 15 August 2015, 04:44:18 pm »
I always insist on telephone calls, I absolutely hate texting full stop. I've got guys who've persisted in texting me for over a year and I haven't replied to them.
Its stated on my profile calls only.
It usually only takes a 30 second call for me to gauge a clients credibility.

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Re: Phoning vs Texting
« Reply #14 on: 15 August 2015, 04:53:04 pm »
A few threads on this is the past I think.
I usually get them to ring.
I send one text to ringback and if they don't they're ignored.

Funnily I have an online booking system which
seems to work without any talking. Those always turn up.
It requests a deposit.

Some guys aren't able to talk coherently to a woman on the phone.
They should never be given a phone contract.
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