Author Topic: OWO or OW (Read 145531 times)

AA · « **Reply #90 on:** 19 November 2013, 07:32:14 pm »

Quote from: amy on 19 November 2013, 07:09:22 pm

Well just in the event that it was directed at me, I'll just reiterate that I didn't say or imply that 'most prossies who do OWO don't really want to do it', I said that in conversations over the years (both on here and in person) about services, OWO is the one I've found that most would like not to continue doing but feel they can't; I think kissing would be second.

To be fair, if the same numbers of people offered things like anal and CIM, there might well have been the same sort of figures wishing they didn't. The point I was trying to make is that OWO is not 'more' than OW, it's just different, and thinking of yourself as offering 'less' than others isn't really very helpful .

No it wasn't.

Without wanting to drag the issue out, I have noticed - from conversations with clients, other escorts and friends as well as reading the odd industry forum - that a lot of people seem to think that OWO isn't an activity that many escorts would do willingly. I was just trying to say that's not always the case. I've just noticed PP's reply a couple of posts further up and obviously some things have been misinterpreted.

Anyway, I remember now why I've never commented on any other thread about OWO. It's a minefield and has got be one of the most emotive and dividing subjects out there! I just wanted to show my support for the practice and give reasons as to why I'm OK with it. I don't have a problem or issue if people choose to do things differently from me or disagree and have different opinions. Live and let live.

AA · « **Reply #91 on:** 19 November 2013, 07:47:32 pm »

Quote from: Pink~Princess on 19 November 2013, 07:20:37 pm

Amy, wee misunderstanding

Alisha thought that when I said...................

I just wonder WTF makes you think I'd be ok with that?

Above on one of my posts that I meant I was asking her WTF makes her think I'd be ok with that when what I meant was when a client asks to shit on my stomach or something I think WTF is it about my spotlessly clean profile that makes you think I am ok with that sort of thing.

Make sense? Anyways Alisha felt she had to apologise and explain herself when all it was, was a misunderstanding.

So nobody is getting at anyone lol.

xx

Yes I did misread that "WTF...." bit, I thought you were talking to me, when actually you were directing it at a would-be client. Hence my apology and clarification in the subsequent post. It's so easy to end up with crossed wires on here! Glad it's sorted though.

Pink~Princess · « **Reply #92 on:** 19 November 2013, 08:17:53 pm »

It defo is easy to read something wrong or write something wrong in a forum. I know what I am saying and I know what I mean but as someone else reading it, they may be like WTF?? Pardon the pun

Sorted now

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Caledonia · « **Reply #93 on:** 19 November 2013, 10:28:22 pm »

I did offer OWO but have stopped, not because I don't enjoy it but because I hate someone coming in my mouth (literally makes me gag) and although I didn't offer CIM and always made sure they knew that there was always a worry that someone would.

xw5 · « **Reply #94 on:** 19 November 2013, 11:48:30 pm »

Quote from: amy on 19 November 2013, 05:55:42 pm

I think the operative part of the sentence is 'they're worried that...' - just because you worry about something happening doesn't mean it actually will, but if you've only ever done OWO with punters and very few have asked for OW it would be reasonable to assume that most of those punters wanted it, whereas if you only see punters who want OW or aren't bothered, your view would be skewed in the other direction.

Either way, I agree that only offering what you're comfortable with is the way to go. And smelly is unacceptable whichever one you pick .

There are men who want OWO, men who want OW, and more who couldn't care - either because they don't want oral or because it doesn't matter so long as their dick is in someone's mouth.

As ever, what Amy says is right. Everyone has their own attitude to this, and dozens of other choices.

Dani · « **Reply #95 on:** 20 November 2013, 07:46:55 pm »

Quote from: happyhappyjoyjoy on 19 November 2013, 02:59:07 pm

I'm the weirdo who prefers owo. none of the guys I have seen have been smelly and I really enjoy it. Granted I am outcall only so I may only see 1 or 2 people a day but I have always enjoyed giving blowjobs.

I do OWO as no matter what condoms I use I gag on them. Just the thought of anything rubbery in my mouth makes me gag, ever since I had a tube down my throat at the hospital and they forgot to sedate me and I was gaging and choking on the rubber tube. Urghh I am shuddering just thinking about it. I have a couple of clients that prefer OW and tbh I always try to put them off by saying I am busy as I know I wont be able to do it for more than a couple of seconds before I start gagging

I just make sure I have very regular throat swabs and must admit everytime I get a sore throat I am panicking that it may be an STI but that is something I live with as I choose to give OWO

amy · « **Reply #96 on:** 20 November 2013, 08:06:05 pm »

Quote from: Dani on 20 November 2013, 07:46:55 pm

I do OWO as no matter what condoms I use I gag on them. Just the thought of anything rubbery in my mouth makes me gag, ever since I had a tube down my throat at the hospital and they forgot to sedate me and I was gaging and choking on the rubber tube. Urghh I am shuddering just thinking about it. I have a couple of clients that prefer OW and tbh I always try to put them off by saying I am busy as I know I wont be able to do it for more than a couple of seconds before I start gagging

Lord, that's horrible - I'm not surprised it's difficult.

I have a horror of choking, but it's having anything around my neck that bothers me (even things like T-shirts have to be lowish) and it took me a solid month to get used to doing it, but I don't even think about it now. I've coughed and choked when a punter with a long one has tried to shove my head down on it, but I would have done whether there was a condom there or not and I think most people would.

What I did find when I stopped was how much more relaxed and happy I felt, and how much more enthusiastic I was as a result; I also learnt a lot about using your lips and tongue and applying different pressures and techniques, because obviously the condom means you have to work harder

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I did get punters asking if I was going to stop doing anal and some other stuff too, which I thought was a bit odd but they maybe associated covered oral with only doing very vanilla stuff. Going back to the OP, I don't honestly think I'd have lasted a year if I was doing stuff I wasn't OK with just to try and get more business.

CocoChanel · « **Reply #97 on:** 10 July 2014, 09:26:13 pm »

snap, I gag on them. I never would have entertained the idea of owo and I dont offer it everybody. But after giving it my ex husband for years and getting bugger all back, hey ho its no hardship to do it for money now. Somebody has to pay the rent. The tongue does all the work (I use strong mouthwash as soon as hes gone), you do not need to take much of it in!! They take forever to come with a condom. I will never, ever offer cim. Id probably throw up all over him haha. He wouldnt ask again ;-)

tvhappiness · « **Reply #98 on:** 02 March 2015, 12:47:20 pm »

Okay I know there are tons of OWO / OW threads. I am doing this thread dedicated to oral without and complication if any. I am thinking of offering oral without at discretion. I have sucked tons of cocks without protection, and caught nothing. Just curious if anyone has had the misfortune, or never had any probs

Miss K xXx · « **Reply #99 on:** 02 March 2015, 12:54:19 pm »

Not me, never had any desire to offer it either. For every man who is put off me for not offering OWO.....there is someone who wants me specifically for using protection and then there's all the clients who aren't bothered whether they get it with or without.

In my home city, the prices are getting lower so I have had to lower my rates in order to keep myself as busy as I like to be, obviously if I did offer OWO, I could charge more but it's just something I would never do.

If I felt the need to start offering OWO, that's the day I will give up escorting.

Each to their own though.

I think you could be escorting doing OWO for 10 years and never catch anything or you could be unlucky and catch something in your throat first time.

You just have to weigh up in your own mind what the risks are to you nevermind what anyone else says. For me, the risks are too high and not necessarily just the thought of catching something in my throat but the thought of putting a dirty cock in my mouth freaks me out so the worry of that happening several times a day would make me really unhappy in my job whereas, I am quite happy doing things the way I do them.

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Miss Molly · « **Reply #100 on:** 02 March 2015, 12:59:54 pm »

Never do owo and I mostly do pse which you would think ow I would happen. I have only really had a few question it they didn't complain just asked was it not on the cards when I said i never do owo they where happy enough.... I have clients that actually ask me over and over to make sure I don't offer owo as they worry about their sexual health.

sourgrapes · « **Reply #101 on:** 02 March 2015, 01:03:58 pm »

I've been doing owo for years, with no problems. Not sure it's less healthy than sucking on a bit of latex covered in chemicals. Each to their own....

firsttimer · « **Reply #102 on:** 02 March 2015, 01:09:13 pm »

I do OWO, CIM and Swallow.
Never had any issues, but cancel booking if I even see a mouth ulcer and get it checked.

Hotblondie · « **Reply #103 on:** 02 March 2015, 01:10:58 pm »

Im doing owo / cim/ swallow since I started 5 years ago.
Never had any issues apart from smelly cocks.
I cant do ow, I gag from the taste of condoms and I dont like to suck a cock with a condom on., but I do like it without.
Each to their own, yes

The_Lynx · « **Reply #104 on:** 02 March 2015, 01:13:13 pm »

I don't do OWO, either. For one I don't really feel like putting up with the hygiene roulette, but more importantly me and my partner do not use protection and as such he doesn't feel comfortable with even the small risks OWO may carry.

With that said, in my personal life (before I got together with my current partner) I've never once used protection for oral - it's a habit I've picked up on the job. Never had any health problems, so the risks seem fairly small to me.

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