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Re: Outcall procedures - how hard can it be?!!?
« Reply #15 on: 19 July 2015, 02:40:54 pm »
I find it hard to put about deposits on my ads, just find it hard not to end up with something that's 4 paragraphs long rather than short and to the point.

No need to post that on your ad about a deposit hun, I don't!
I only mention a deposit once the client has messaged me for a booking.
I then explain travelling 30-60 mins (or more) for an outcall without ta deposit for fuel/travel time would be needed as there are many timewasters about.
If they are genuine then they won't have a problem with that.

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« Reply #16 on: 19 July 2015, 02:47:00 pm »
I find it hard to put about deposits on my ads, just find it hard not to end up with something that's 4 paragraphs long rather than short and to the point.

No need to post that on your ad about a deposit hun, I don't!
I only mention a deposit once the client has messaged me for a booking.
I then explain travelling 30-60 mins (or more) for an outcall without ta deposit for fuel/travel time would be needed as there are many timewasters about.
If they are genuine then they won't have a problem with that.

Lola x

Ah ok was just because I sometimes get them saying that there's no mention of deposits on my ad.

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« Reply #17 on: 19 July 2015, 02:54:25 pm »
I find it hard to put about deposits on my ads, just find it hard not to end up with something that's 4 paragraphs long rather than short and to the point.

Yes, it takes some careful thinking, I also have a look around at other lady's websites for wording ideas.

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« Reply #18 on: 19 July 2015, 02:56:44 pm »
Ok, maybe tell them that's because it's client specific.
Amount of deposit would be different for each client depending on distance and length of booking etc, so that's why its not on there.
I think maybe I've just been really really lucky as never had an issue with it.
Or maybe Welsh guys are more laidback? Lol.

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« Reply #19 on: 19 July 2015, 03:05:26 pm »
Ok, maybe tell them that's because it's client specific.
Amount of deposit would be different for each client depending on distance and length of booking etc, so that's why its not on there.
I think maybe I've just been really really lucky as never had an issue with it.
Or maybe Welsh guys are more laidback? Lol.

Lola x

I use an amount which is directly related to the booking fee, and add or subtract if the person can't provide address proof, or it's a extra long journey (fees/minimum booking are already related to the distance travelled).

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« Reply #20 on: 19 July 2015, 03:34:37 pm »
I've never asked for clients personal details as in bills etc, I understand why some escorts do of course, I've only asked for a landline number and then most of them said no. I've gone on gut instinct and always taken a driver with me. Most clients would have laughed in my face if I'd asked for a bill,

I suppose if they don't mind giving up their real name etc then all good x

I'm with you Nia!  I completely relate to this 100%.  I've lost work asking for proof before too.  I've always gone on my gut and never had an issue.  Although, I'm very fussy and I have to be totally satisfied before I head out.

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« Reply #21 on: 19 July 2015, 03:40:52 pm »
I've never asked for clients personal details as in bills etc, I understand why some escorts do of course, I've only asked for a landline number and then most of them said no. I've gone on gut instinct and always taken a driver with me. Most clients would have laughed in my face if I'd asked for a bill,

I suppose if they don't mind giving up their real name etc then all good x

I'm with you Nia!  I completely relate to this 100%.  I've lost work asking for proof before too.  I've always gone on my gut and never had an issue.  Although, I'm very fussy and I have to be totally satisfied before I head out.
I can of course see the logic in asking but when I discovered that some clients actually provide their personal details I was honestly shocked, as I said I asked twice I think and both guys were horrified x
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« Reply #22 on: 19 July 2015, 03:57:28 pm »
I've lost potential bookings, but I have no way of knowing if it would have been an actual booking. Until a client turns up and pays, a booking is not a booking.

Any enquiries who say they can't meet residency requirements have always been replaced by those who can, or incalls, or I've used the spare time for something else.

I rarely receive enquiries from anyone surprised by the request, which I assume is because it's already on my profile.

I've also had quite a few clients tell me they found it reassuring, they felt it gave the impression that I am careful and take my well-being seriously.

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« Reply #23 on: 19 July 2015, 04:41:01 pm »
Have put this at the end of my AW ad but its a bit long for those sites which dont have as big a word count.

Please note: For outcalls to private residences you must either have a registered landline (registered in your name and to the address I will be visiting and searchable in the phone book) or be registered in the electoral roll (again this must be for the address I will be visiting and searchable). If neither of these is possible then a deposit payable by bank transfer will be required

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« Reply #24 on: 19 July 2015, 05:38:00 pm »
Have put this at the end of my AW ad but its a bit long for those sites which dont have as big a word count.

Please note: For outcalls to private residences you must either have a registered landline (registered in your name and to the address I will be visiting and searchable in the phone book) or be registered in the electoral roll (again this must be for the address I will be visiting and searchable). If neither of these is possible then a deposit payable by bank transfer will be required

Something like "I require proof of residency, or a deposit for outcalls" ?

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« Reply #25 on: 19 July 2015, 07:58:14 pm »
Something like "I require proof of residency, or a deposit for outcalls" ?

Thanks Mirror  :) Might use that on my AW too (will change the wording slightly) and use my lengthy version in my faqs.

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« Reply #26 on: 19 July 2015, 09:32:15 pm »
I wouldn't have even thought to ask for a bill, is that by pic text or email scanned pdf .. :P

Used to use the old 192 but found a free site recently for the electoral role & land line to confirm they are there when I'm around the corner.
Historically, I've had more time wasters doing incalls. I prefer outcalls now, seems to be a better caliber of client!

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« Reply #27 on: 19 July 2015, 09:38:24 pm »
I take the booking details and go to the outcall. I don't really do any overly stringent security checks because I only do outcalls 30-45 minutes from my front door. I check their number etc. on NUM and SAAFE but other than that I just go on gut.

My husband says and I agree that even if I did ask for 'proof of residency' there is still no guaranteeing they are not pissing about or wont still be a blowout. My gut is never wrong so I trust that over the land registry any day. A landline or bill wont mean much if you turn up and they still don't answer the phone/door.

I only do outcalls and my routine has rarely let me down in the last 3 years as an independent.
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« Reply #28 on: 19 July 2015, 11:18:24 pm »
Much like Teddy, I just take the details and go. Landlines aren't really a thing here anymore, and considering the clients are criminalized in Norway, I doubt you'd ever land an actual job if you asked them for any personal details. It can be hard enough to get them to text from non-hidden phone numbers. ::)
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« Reply #29 on: 20 July 2015, 10:42:50 am »
Great discussion ladies - it's really important the newer girls are aware of these procedures.

I always say to guys, I don't care about your name I just need proof that you are where you say you are - so many are not keen on the idea which is ridiculous.

Can someone give me a link to how you search the electoral register?

Also - with deposits, I only have a paypal in my own name and wouldn't want to give that away. Does anyone use the new Ping stuff or pay via phone number? How easy is it to set up a work account with these things?

Maybe a business bank account is the way forward?