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loubyloo

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newbie starting
« on: 28 September 2014, 11:42:21 am »
Hi been thinking long and  hard about starting this job and am going for it.
Read a lot about safety and it seems i for an outcall i need to ask for landline no and call to confirm guys there? how do i know its the no for that address though? It could be someone 3 doors down who just want to play a prank and see the neighbours face when he opens the door to me!
Also for an incall is it ok to answer the door dressed smart casual? Surely cant be dressed up to the nines at 10.30 am?
thanks in advance, this is a fantastic website.

glitterfeminism

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Re: newbie starting
« Reply #1 on: 28 September 2014, 01:57:05 pm »
For outcalls to houses I ask for

- landline number
- copy of a bill with their address and name on it
- I'll take the bill if they don't have a landline (I don't have a landline so I know not everyone has them)

these are my non negotiable things (the second one, mostly). I've had to turn lots of appointments down to people who won't give me them, but at the end of the day safety is most important. It's also important to have a security buddy you check in with before and after each appointment (and they know where you are in advance of you getting there), and having a protocol of what to do if things don't go okay.

Vichyssoise

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Re: newbie starting
« Reply #2 on: 28 September 2014, 03:00:24 pm »
As far as how to dress I ask them what they would like, it's thier fantasy after all, and dress accordingly whatever  the time of day. If they have no preference to dress I wear something classic, black skirt white top or black dress. I have only ever worn jeans once although it was smart casual. I would never wear lingerie to answer the door. They will have to wait for that. Out calls are again black smart elegant. But the out calls have been in the eve so no problem there looking over dressed.
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amy

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Re: newbie starting
« Reply #3 on: 28 September 2014, 03:36:20 pm »
how do i know its the no for that address though? It could be someone 3 doors down who just want to play a prank and see the neighbours face when he opens the door to me!

The purpose of getting the number is so that you can check it corresponds with the address you are being asked to visit - you can do this on the electoral roll with sites like 192.com and other 'phone book' type places.

It sounds as if you haven't read the main SAAFE site - this forum is really just an offshoot and not a substitute or a shortcut for the important information in the articles there. There's an outcall article which explains your checks in more detail, but as posted above it's equally important that somebody you trust knows where you're going and at what time you're leaving so you can call in with them before and after :).