Well yes, I'd say you're comparing apples and oranges and we do have a separate thread somewhere which covers this 'sugar' stuff in the Blather section. It's in that section because it's completely different from straightforward upfront prostitution which is what the rest of us here are talking about, and possibly why we might appear tonbe at cross purposes.
That said, don't believe everything your competition friends tell you - it's not that likely that anybody with that sort of ego is going to shout it from the rooftops if they're not actually that busy. Plus as you're finding out, having nobody prepared to pay you the rates you think you should get doesn't do much for your self worth once you've finished enjoying the look of the big price tag on your ads.
That aside, if you don't want to set boundaries in terms of timed bookings (and what about services?) and so on I think you're setting yourself up for an absolute nightmare and unless you're prepared to drop your expectations a bit and be realistic about your business you might be better sticking with what you know.
Also don't forget you can always start differently and rebrand yourself once you've got established and found your feet a bit! There are people here whi have sone just that, and you never knwo, you might even not mind slumming it amongst we plebs .
Yes I was. Now I realised I shouldn't and was the wrong comparison.
I know sugaring is completely different, I only mentioned that to explain myself. I'm not seeking advice on that.
once you've finished enjoying the look of the big price tag on your ads. Haha... So very true. I did enjoy looking at the price tag!😂😂😂😂
Oh no, I have boundaries for my services, and for my time too. I was just trying to explain my pricing and my preference for longer dates. However, realistically it will be difficult to start with a 2 hour plus booking as a newbie, as not many new clients would book a non reviewed or established girl for a 2 hour plus date, without initially doing an hour session with her, and maybe 2 hours max.
Being realistic and trying to start slowly is why I have hourly rate and reduced it to 250, instead of doing say 3hrs minimum booking at 500.
you never knwo, you might even not mind slumming it amongst we plebs . 😂😂 In all honesty, I wouldn't mind if I can somehow make myself happy at a lower rate and build up a good level of clientele, but I just don't see that happening. I was very sad to reduce my rate to 250, if I had know before I started that 150 was the best going rate to kick start, I might not have considered escorting or find it enticing as I did.
I'll keep you all posted, if I do become a 150 hottie. 😀
Here's another secret thought; what if I become 150 and get no work?🤔 That's a scary thought, because I might take it personal. 🤪
So far, it hasn't affected my self esteem. I don't think it is me or no one want me, because I know better (and I hope anyone else in my shoes or having a bad day or reading this thread wouldn't feel like that. There are just toooooo many variables!) Although I can't help thinking maybe God dosn't want to be a hoe....lol 😂