Every NEW client Ive met who has asked me in comms "how many times can I cum in a booking?" has always ended up cumming quickly - and hard - to a point where they cant go again and tell me that they are done.

So I just got back from an outcall seeing a new client. In comms, we were going back and forth whether Id stay for 45 mins or 1 hour but in the end we settled at one hour. He came really hard 25 mins in then asks if we can reduce the meet to 45 mins  At first I told him that was fine but I dont give refunds, but then I felt bad so gave him back a bit of money. I tried getting him up again but 2 mins later he looks at me and says hes done so the meet only lasted 30 mins.

As this was the first time Id seen him I was torn: on one hand, I believe that if they want to end the booking early we shouldnt feel inclined to offer a partial refund but on the other hand, it shows courtesy and Id like to think he would be grateful of this and in turn, think about booking me again in the future.

So do you offer refunds when a new client wants to end a booking early? If you dont, how do you handle it (what do you say) so it doesnt make it awkward? Or do you feel that clients should always be giving partial refunds as a goodwill gesture?

When I did outcalls it was for a minimum of an hour and this was stated on my profile.For incalls I will occaisionally give a partial refund if the booking finishes early but this is when they don't ask and they have been really nice.
If a guy asks and he is over half the time of the original booking then the answer is no.Although rarely have I been asked this anyway.
The only time I think they are entitled to any sort of refund is if the sex worker makes no attempt to get them going again or if they don't give the services that they claim to do and the guy has a genuine reason to be unhappy.
If they choose to end a booking early because basically they are fully satisfied and don't want to hang around then that is their problem.They should ask you to slow down if they are the type who can't pop again or can't get hard again.
It's really not on especially if you have potentially turned down other bookings thinking that Mr X is having an hour only to have him wrap up and try and get money back after 30 mins.
At the end of the day you wouldn't wade through half your dinner at a restaurant,decide you are full and ask if you can only pay for half nor would they offer you money back for that reason!

I dont think offering 1 hour min for outcalls is going to make any significant difference (to this matter anyways). I actually offer 30 min outcalls too if they live within a reasonable distance because I was doing outcalls only up until last month, and in some ways I still prefer outcalls to incalls but thats just me (and another discussion for another thread). I dont feel inclined to offer min of 1 hour because I enjoy the quick meets (as well as 1 hour) and this particular situation doesnt happen very often anyways - but its been on my mind for some time.

I guess the same Q can be asked with incalls. Would you still offer no refunds if they want to reduce the booking within the meet? If so, how would you word it so it doesnt make things awks?

He was a nice guy and the booking was ok. We didnt even have sex, he came from a HJ so it wasnt a rushed meet. He only asked if the booking can be reduced: he didnt ask for a refund but after I told him I dont offer refunds I felt bad hence the reason I gave him back some money so I guess I only have myself to blame for not being a tough bitch 

At the end of the day you wouldn't wade through half your dinner at a restaurant,decide you are full and ask if you can only pay for half nor would they offer you money back for that reason!

Thats a very interesting analogy!

It the same as guys saying I'll book half an hour and then I might extend it to an hour

No you won't idiot I give a discount if you book 1 hr it ?120


So I charge ?120 for an hour and ?80 for  & half two half hours is ?160 so if you book me   it's cheaper than two half hours and I think we all probably do this

So it's get right on my nerves that they think they can book 30 mins at ?80 and then get another half an hour for ?40

I know , I know that's it the same price as my hour ?120. But it not well not in my head it not the same ( bangs my head against the wall) )

Anyone else feel this way it's irrational I know but I won't budge on it 

So whats the best way you would put it if a client decides to end the booking in 1/2 and asks for a bit of money back? Id love to know what some of you would actually say to them!!

To be honest, Gracious, it never happens to me.

Is it possible you could incorporate this into your profile? Also, I would advise not offering Outcalls of less than an hour's duration.

My clients would never dare but if one did,  I would just repeat the usual mantra, 'You pay for my time,  blah blah blah.'

Once that money is in my grubby mits, only Satan himself could prize it from me.

To be honest, Gracious, it never happens to me.

This is the 2nd time its happened but the first time was with a reg. Ive had lots of guys finish and leave early but they have never asked to "reduce the booking". They just get ready and go

Is it possible you could incorporate this into your profile?

Im not sure this is going to make a difference. He didnt even know how much I charged for the hour even though its clearly stated on my profile!

Also, I would advise not offering Outcalls of less than an hour's duration.

But it could happen if he booked for 1.5 hours and wanted to reduce to 1 hour so I dont think min of 1 hour outcall will make any significant difference, but I do enjoy shorter outcalls too so would like to keep offering shorter outcalls

Once that money is in my grubby mits, only Satan himself could prize it from me.

Haha!!

My minimum outcall is an hour, whether they live 5 miles away (I do have this according to my sat nav, but its a pokey little way to get there) or 25 miles away. Think about it this way, even though you prefer outcalls - which I also do, but to hotels - if you weren't on that, you could have done, for example, 2 x 30 mins. Or worked into 2 x 1 hr.

Now everyone works differently and (mostly for health reasons) I wouldn't have appointments running so closely together, but the point still stands about time I've set aside in the day for travelling, having this appointment, then travelling back, showering, touching up make up etc in time to be ready for another appointment. I love outcalls! But business wise, I won't offer refunds from a cold, business perspective - they can easily take up 2 hours, if not more, of my day. In that hour I'm not potentially having sex/being sexy/doing sexytime because I'm driving, I could be answering calls, emails, or having more sexytime and making more money. Business is business.

So as much as I might like a person - and I do have plenty of clients I genuinely do think are pretty sound blokes - you've bought my time for X period. If you want to leave, or for me to leave before that time, that's your decision to make - you're a grown man. I'll happily stay for that time; I'll continue to be sexual with you, or we can sit and chat, laugh, do whatever really. There's plenty of times I've found bookings have overran by 5-10 mins just by chatting and laughing with some clients. But if you look at your own watch and call it a day, well, I'll remind you that you have X amount of time left, or more likely that it's only... If you still want to leave, that's your call. Without being blunt, I don't recall ever getting a part refund on anything else I bought and used part of.