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newescortgirl18

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new call girl
« on: 26 November 2008, 08:47:35 pm »
heya basically just started escorting and was just wondering if u have any  advice to me as how i can become less nervous.

i always get really nervouse at the start but loosen up a bit after but just reall need sum advice about it all.


and basically any tips u can giv me about escorting/blokes xx

thanks x
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medea

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Re: new call girl
« Reply #1 on: 26 November 2008, 09:52:10 pm »
first a warm welcome

for nervousness i think that is quite normal, and my first booking i was quite nervous and did lots of talking, it was good that the gentlemen was very nice. i needed lots of talking to open up and do what i was called for :)

for me it is like in many other situation to let go and trust

what i would i advise you and i am sure you have read many posts is to have a security buddy and also just listen to your intuition when arranging a booking

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UrbaneAspects

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Re: new call girl
« Reply #2 on: 26 November 2008, 09:58:39 pm »
I have met dozens of clients since I started, and I still get nervous before I meet someone. It wont go away, thats just how it is when meeting strangers, especially when you have no clue what they look like...

But, me personally...I rarely show up to an appointment without having had atleast 1 good drink. Some people do drugs before an appointment, but I choose not to. Wine, liquor is a better option but just enough to feel relaxed and comfortable.
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lexienight

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« Reply #3 on: 26 November 2008, 10:26:07 pm »
I think the nerves are good, keeps you on your guard.  If i feel particularly nervous i tend to feel my hands shake a bit so i always try and put my handbag down behind me so i have to turn my back tothe client while im counting it.  i also turn away when im calling my security for the same reason.  the shakey hands doesnt happen so much now and i blag my way through the nerves by talking shite to them for a few minutes basically haha   ;D
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newescortgirl18

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« Reply #4 on: 26 November 2008, 10:31:41 pm »
hey thanks for the welcome yeah i did talk aloud ov rubbish 2day had a client 2day lovley guy very business like and was so nervous i was nearly keeling ova the guy saw this and laughed though and sed dont be nervouse but eh had a good time i suppose.


would have a drink if i could cant drink :( heart conditon .

question do u always ket sum 1 no where you are? xx
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brandy@saafe

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« Reply #5 on: 27 November 2008, 06:46:04 am »
Quote from: newescortgirl18 on 26 November 2008, 10:31:41 pm
hey thanks for the welcome yeah i did talk aloud ov rubbish 2day had a client 2day lovley guy very business like and was so nervous i was nearly keeling ova the guy saw this and laughed though and sed dont be nervouse but eh had a good time i suppose.


would have a drink if i could cant drink :( heart conditon .

question do u always ket sum 1 no where you are? xx

Welcome to the forum. Good to hear that you're getting used to the job, but always keep your wits about you. It's good to maintain a little nervousness as lexie (I think) said elsewhere, it keeps you on your toes.
And yes, on outcalls I always let someone know where I am. Good to see you've asked for a buddy.
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Re: new call girl
« Reply #6 on: 27 November 2008, 02:02:34 pm »
Welcome to the forum from me too.  :)

For as long as I've been an escort I still get nervous and I think it's a good thing.
It helps to remember that the guy on the other side of the hotel room door is
probably absolutely sh*tting himself too and has checked his breath and
underarms 11 times.  ;)
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lexienight

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« Reply #7 on: 28 November 2008, 06:26:49 pm »
Quote from: LauraLee on 27 November 2008, 02:02:34 pm
......and has checked his breath and
underarms 11 times.  ;)

I wish that bit were always true haha!!!!
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Re: new call girl
« Reply #8 on: 28 November 2008, 09:35:04 pm »
Quote from: lexie on 28 November 2008, 06:26:49 pm
Quote from: LauraLee on 27 November 2008, 02:02:34 pm
......and has checked his breath and
underarms 11 times.  ;)

I wish that bit were always true haha!!!!

Ooooooh! There's a story in there, c'mon Lexie - spill! :D
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lexienight

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« Reply #9 on: 29 November 2008, 03:52:44 am »
Quote from: cassie on 28 November 2008, 09:35:04 pm
Quote from: lexie on 28 November 2008, 06:26:49 pm
Quote from: LauraLee on 27 November 2008, 02:02:34 pm
......and has checked his breath and
underarms 11 times.  ;)

I wish that bit were always true haha!!!!

Ooooooh! There's a story in there, c'mon Lexie - spill! :D

Nothing too bad just one guy a couple of weeks ago clearly hadnt checked his armpits but luckily things hadnt gotten 'intimate' before i noticed so i politely and a little flirtatiously asked him to have a quick shower before we started.  Luckily he was ok about it and admitted he had gotten back to the hotel only shortly before i had arrived so hadnt had time to shower (not sure why he thought i wouldnt notice, probably thought he could get away with it) but im sure that isnt going to be the last time it ever happens and im not backward in coming forward so its not something i would let slide.
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Re: new call girl
« Reply #10 on: 29 November 2008, 01:48:21 pm »
Bad armpits seem to be popping up rather more often here of late too - I think sometimes they believe that as long as they have carefully washed the tackle (and preferably not with my Clinique which I have had to start hiding), the rest is irrelevant (and I have run into some truly disgusting hair lately too - maybe because the woolly hats are coming out?)

I added a link to this http://escort.blog-city.com/filthy_beyond_belief.htm on my blog because I think Pru has got it spot on! I always offer a shower and think it's very unfair that some will complain about a lesser/reduced service because they cannot be bothered to prepare themselves properly. I once had a man whinging that I wouldn't kiss him even though I say that I like kissing on my site - his mouth was like a sewer and the thought of going near it made me heave - I wouldn't let it anywhere near me and that went for RO too. Nerves are one thing, but there's no excuse!

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LondonEvie

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« Reply #11 on: 29 November 2008, 01:59:05 pm »


*touch wood* I've still been very fortunate to have had none of this, thus far. Everyone I have had the good fortune to meet has been scrupulously clean and neat and a gentlemen through and through, nothing short of a genuine pleasure. Hope it stays that way as much as possible!
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Re: new call girl
« Reply #12 on: 29 November 2008, 02:01:41 pm »
Quote from: amy on 29 November 2008, 01:48:21 pm
I have run into some truly disgusting hair lately too - maybe because the woolly hats are coming out?

Hehe, this reminded me of a limerick I just had to share:

Pubic hair is put there for a reason
That is evident in the cold season
For the balls its a muff,
For the rod its a ruff;
and it keeps the vagina from freezin'
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Re: new call girl
« Reply #13 on: 29 November 2008, 02:10:14 pm »
Quote from: cassie on 29 November 2008, 02:01:41 pm
Quote from: amy on 29 November 2008, 01:48:21 pm
I have run into some truly disgusting hair lately too - maybe because the woolly hats are coming out?

Hehe, this reminded me of a limerick I just had to share:

Pubic hair is put there for a reason
That is evident in the cold season
For the balls its a muff,
For the rod its a ruff;
and it keeps the vagina from freezin'

well said babes
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cecilia.chic

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« Reply #14 on: 29 November 2008, 03:19:50 pm »
Quote from: amy on 29 November 2008, 01:48:21 pm
I think sometimes they believe that as long as they have carefully washed the tackle (and preferably not with my Clinique which I have had to start hiding

Of course, some men take their prep to the extreme.  I had a client (first-timer, nervous as hell) dash off into the bathroom when I tried to kiss him.  Once we began I noticed that there was a slight odd taste to him but I wasn't alarmed until my lips began to feel throb and feel numb as if they had been doused with lidocaine.  He must have bathed his body and pubes in aftershave!!!  I have a sinus problem so my sense of smell isn't the best, which is why I didn't notice until it was too late.

Perfume on your pubes?!?  Dear God, why?
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