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Funkymonkey

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Re: Tips for weeding out the BB/Boundary pushers!
« Reply #15 on: 27 November 2017, 05:01:36 pm »
My main experience of this was from a guy who I had previously told I didn't want to see. This was on aw so called me on available today. They will push all the boundaries they can. When I said I didn't want to see him the first time he was like 'I could be there in 2 hours and you would get ?240' .... alarm bells - thinking that him giving me money makes him better than me and I should do what he wants.

During the booking he was really into dirty talk and was like, I'm only saying I wish I could bareback you as dirty talk. Then he said he would close his eyes and I can choose whether he wears a condom or not. Afterwards he was like, that was obviously just dirty talk!!

He contacted me again for a booking but I will not be seeing him again.
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MsLadyV87

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Re: Tips for weeding out the BB/Boundary pushers!
« Reply #16 on: 27 November 2017, 05:44:07 pm »
Classic example of this happened to me today!!!  :FF

Spoke beforehand and all seemed well. No red flags, no bad gut feelings etc. He got here, you know he was quite cute. Happy to have a drink and chat first which made a nice change. Enjoyed my massage, slipped condom on as he paid for without but then asked for without, fine but insisted on extra charge first. Which is was fine with....then went a bit......

I was on top, my lady parts not touching his bare penis but then he tried to put it in. hum ok, sometimes it can happen but he tried it again. reached for the condom and put it on. as seemed so keen to fuck me, then he was like I want oral again. annoying as that was a waste of a condom! so more oral without, then did finally manage to get a condom on him but even then as I was trying to put it on, he was pulling me onto him. As I was putting it on I firmly said 'I know you want it without but its my job to be safe sorry'

It really put me off completely and luckily by then didnt have long but felt so on edge and uncomfortable! then he tried the old 'cant cum with condom on' err you knew I dont do BB!!!  ::) so got him to cum over my breasts but he didnt want to do that so he made himself cum as he watched me. Also what made the whole experience worse, when he cum it looked 'odd' Im sure most of you ladies can tell when cum doesnt look how its suppose to! this was very 'clumpy' which made me think of thrush. sigh! all well, new fresh batch of STD tests coming soon!  ::)
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Re: Tips for weeding out the BB/Boundary pushers!
« Reply #17 on: 27 November 2017, 05:45:10 pm »
Quote from: Funkymonkey on 27 November 2017, 05:01:36 pm
My main experience of this was from a guy who I had previously told I didn't want to see. This was on aw so called me on available today. They will push all the boundaries they can. When I said I didn't want to see him the first time he was like 'I could be there in 2 hours and you would get ?240' .... alarm bells - thinking that him giving me money makes him better than me and I should do what he wants.

During the booking he was really into dirty talk and was like, I'm only saying I wish I could bareback you as dirty talk. Then he said he would close his eyes and I can choose whether he wears a condom or not. Afterwards he was like, that was obviously just dirty talk!!

He contacted me again for a booking but I will not be seeing him again.

I had a guy like this, I couldn?t work out if it was fantasy or real so I eyeballed him and said

you know that?s not going to happen don?t you....
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sweetmilf

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Re: Tips for weeding out the BB/Boundary pushers!
« Reply #18 on: 27 November 2017, 05:59:18 pm »
Sometimes, it makes me wonder if it's useful to hand out some "educational" leaflet to men/punters, who insisted on BB or attempted BB e.g. condom ripping.  If they realise that some women end up with pre-cancerous cells on the cervix which had to be lasered out thanks to the virus which had been passed on, these men begin to realise how harmful BB could well be.
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VoluptuousCurves

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Re: Tips for weeding out the BB/Boundary pushers!
« Reply #19 on: 27 November 2017, 06:08:14 pm »
Quote from: sweetmilf on 27 November 2017, 05:59:18 pm
Sometimes, it makes me wonder if it's useful to hand out some "educational" leaflet to men/punters, who insisted on BB or attempted BB e.g. condom ripping.  If they realise that some women end up with pre-cancerous cells on the cervix which had to be lasered out thanks to the virus which had been passed on, these men begin to realise how harmful BB could well be.

They can't even read our profiles, they're not gonna read a leaflet!

There are a number of men who actually have a fetish about spreading STDs. They call it "gifting". That is one gift I hope Santa doesn't bring me!
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Re: Tips for weeding out the BB/Boundary pushers!
« Reply #20 on: 27 November 2017, 06:08:55 pm »
I think even "dirty talking" about it is wrong because they know it will make you feel uncomfortable and they clearly don't care. And then will make out like your overeacting if you call them out on it. I think the word Bareback should be made a red card!
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Re: Tips for weeding out the BB/Boundary pushers!
« Reply #21 on: 27 November 2017, 06:10:20 pm »
Quote from: VoluptuousCurves on 27 November 2017, 06:08:14 pm
They can't even read our profiles, they're not gonna read a leaflet!

There are a number of men who actually have a fetish about spreading STDs. They call it "gifting". That is one gift I hope Santa doesn't bring me!

~LOL! LOL!
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MsLadyV87

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Re: Tips for weeding out the BB/Boundary pushers!
« Reply #22 on: 27 November 2017, 09:52:33 pm »
Quote from: VoluptuousCurves on 27 November 2017, 06:08:14 pm
They can't even read our profiles, they're not gonna read a leaflet!

There are a number of men who actually have a fetish about spreading STDs. They call it "gifting". That is one gift I hope Santa doesn't bring me!

NOOOO!!! really???? surely that cant be a thing???? seriously lost all faith in mankind!! lol  ;D :-X

Gifting?? havent they heard of a chanel handbag??? lol
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Re: Tips for weeding out the BB/Boundary pushers!
« Reply #23 on: 28 November 2017, 01:16:07 am »
Quote from: Hannah_London on 26 November 2017, 11:52:52 pm
Definitely think it's sensible to not see punters who overdo the flattery....a sincere compliment fair enough but otherwise to me that is a sign they are after something and it shows they are dishonest. Plus I feel like they think I must be dumb enough to buy into their bs! !

Ditto it makes me think you are  insulting my intelligence.
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Re: Tips for weeding out the BB/Boundary pushers!
« Reply #24 on: 28 November 2017, 01:21:22 am »
Quote from: Hannah_London on 27 November 2017, 11:05:24 am
Yeah you're right. I need to get a lot tougher with these idiots. The last one tried twice and then was like "oh I wasn't going to actually go in" like I was being OTT! Even having removed the condom I'd put on him after pushing him off. Thing is I worry that if I tell them to get out and call it they will get more angry or violent.

I  would  worry about that  too if I am not working in a hotel or if an apartment and on my own.
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