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shoe-addict99

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need advice-horrible nosey neighbours
« on: 12 July 2014, 10:44:41 am »
now ive been working from home for the past 3 years
always got on with my neighbours,ive never been a pest always been discreet

now ive got new next door neighbours very much curtain twitchers
but they cant really see much as i get my gents to come round the back where it has a very high fence

anyway this morning i was sit in my back garden minding my own business
when i heard the husband say 'im sick of living next door to a bothel'

'we shall see if the police want to prosecute after they see my recordings'

i didnt say anything just sat to see if anything was said nothing else just alot of whispering!!

im now paranoid and scared,i know im doing nothing ilegal

help xxx

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« Reply #1 on: 12 July 2014, 11:25:36 am »
Hi SA, Sorry to hear you are in this predicament.

No you are not doing anything illegal prossying.  You dont say if you live in a Council House/Local Authority House or Private Let. 

As you say you were sitting in the garden I am assuming it is a "house" with an upstairs where your neighbour can go and "make his recordings".  You cant exactly have a fence high enough to hide them if someone is watching for them.  Have you noticed if they fitted a security system at their house since they arrived.

Your "let agreement" will more likely than not state in some form or other that you cannot "run a business" from your home which is where things sorta fall apart.

It all depends just how far the next door neighbour decides to take it.  They cant prosecute you for being a prostitute but there is more than that involved here.

As nothing else was said and all else was whispering, Im sure they knew you were there and perhaps waiting for a reaction but that is just assumption and we all know what happens to people who assume things .... and we get paranoid.

I hope it all goes well for you.  Let us know of any further developments.  May be time for a move and maybe that is what neighbour
is hoping for.

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shoe-addict99

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Re: need advice-horrible nosey neighbours
« Reply #2 on: 12 July 2014, 11:32:29 am »
i privately rent from a family friend

i have lived here 10years so no way am i moving !!

what angle could my neighbours complain? as do not disturb the peace and dont have one guy in then another out

ive just had a look and no sign of an outside camera unless hes recording from inside the upstairs window

and i thought if u have cctv to which i have you are only allowed to record your own property otherwise its ilegal

im now on tenderhooks !
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« Reply #3 on: 12 July 2014, 11:35:42 am »
Do you mean you are renting from a friend ("rent to" makes it sound as if it's your house and you rent it to them not from them).

Sounds as if they are just trying to make something out of a few observations, and see what your reaction is. So long as you work alone, and are causing no nuisance there should be no action the police can take.

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« Reply #4 on: 12 July 2014, 11:37:47 am »
sorry a family friend is my landlord

i do want to say something to them but my family says it makes me look guilty


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« Reply #5 on: 12 July 2014, 11:58:20 am »
I think your family is right and while you dont say anything they will never know for sure if you heard anything  over the wall/hedge.

What age are the neighbours?  Do they have children?  Do you have children? 

AFAIK you ARE only allowed to film you own property.  I really dont know what they can gain by going to police but im not them and im not police either.

Its not a nice situation i agree.  I would just work on discreetly and see what happens.  After all, your home IS NOT a brothel if you are the only one working from there.

Do you ever have girlfriends round to keep you company while working/visiting and could be mistaken for other WGs working from your property.  So many different things to think about sadly.

But bear in mind that you ARE being watched, of that there is no doubt now.

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« Reply #6 on: 12 July 2014, 12:22:31 pm »
i live alone,have no children

no family,friends visit's as they dont like to intterupt so where they have got brothel from i dont know

they are in their 40's dont work!! and have teenage children

if i was loud,abusive played loud music and guys were coming and going every minute of the day and late at night

i could understand but only see 2 guys in a day with massive gaps inetween

paranoia takes over and allsorts of things go through your mind

i did read on here about a wg where police turned up at hers with a print out of her profile

and more or less told her to stop

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« Reply #7 on: 12 July 2014, 12:29:31 pm »
Could they perhaps be able to hear sex noises or your conversations with clients through the wall when you're in the bedroom. Years ago I once got a talking to by a neighbour who said he could hear me discussing bookings with clients and then having sex with them whenever he was in his bathroom every evening

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Re: need advice-horrible nosey neighbours
« Reply #8 on: 12 July 2014, 12:32:14 pm »
could be,but i have a radio on in the background


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Re: need advice-horrible nosey neighbours
« Reply #9 on: 12 July 2014, 12:49:12 pm »
Its amazing how many giveaway signs there are when we get started isnt there?  Not helping you though OP.

What is at other side of bedroom wall?  Adjoining walls? 

When it comes to police visiting I think it is just down to how they are in your area.  In Scotland they are SOOOO intolerant its not real but could be different in your area.

Just be aware of noises in next few days and see what happens.
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« Reply #10 on: 12 July 2014, 01:08:36 pm »
they are rather lenient here,but has been some raids in norwich but they were brothels

just gonna see what happens over the next few days

they might of just said it hoping to scare me off

i could be a raging nympho who meets guys on dating sites etc lol


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Re: need advice-horrible nosey neighbours
« Reply #11 on: 12 July 2014, 01:10:02 pm »
there is adjourning wall but my bed is in the middle of the room

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« Reply #12 on: 12 July 2014, 01:31:51 pm »
You are doing nothing wrong, you are breaking no laws so the police wouldn't be interested in what you do, you are discrete in the extreme by the sounds of things so dont worry. The only thing i can see that might be a problem is they could talk about you to the others neighbours etc and spread the word you are a WG BUT they dont pay your rent so you dont need their approval. Once are working alone and your landlord is OK as you have no children I can't see the problem, carry on just how you are.

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« Reply #13 on: 12 July 2014, 02:59:54 pm »
No, gosh what rude people. It is illegal to film without consent. Especially as the content of the film sounds like he captured you bonking or something :S. If anything he could get in trouble, but you are fine, dandy & legal. Maybe they can hear you but if it gets brought up say it would have been nice that you would have came to me first, you feel attacked & know that they have unlawful filming of you. Some people flat out don't know it is legal so you've got nothing to worry about apart from narrow minded neighbours.

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« Reply #14 on: 12 July 2014, 04:33:04 pm »
im going to wait and see if i see them in person

and if anything is said to my face,i have the full backing of my family who support what i do

just pisses me off these small minded biggots who know nothing

im not harming anyone it would be different if i was having an orgy in my back garden for all to see