This morning my favourite regular came over for an incall. He's my fav because he's not too pushy and is surprisingly good in the sack as well. So naturally I spend all week almost looking forward to it as daft as that sounds.

Anyway mid sex he asks me if I can call him 'daddy' ... wtf?! Where did that come from? totally put me off him now and never want to see him again!

Has anyone else had a regular say or do something that totally changes your view on them? I have had the odd 'I think I love you' but that one takes the piss!!

Sounds a bit weird but guys say all sorts especially during sex. I probably would have asked him about it. I dont think I would stop seeing him. I've had a lot worse.

It's a common thing on the BDSM scene, people have ageplay relationships and one might call the other Daddy/Mummy. It's not necessarily an incest fantasy, it's more nuanced than that.

Either way though, that would have been best to talk about beforehand rather than during sex!

Some people say some daft things, at inappropriate moments or without thinking.

Im sure the term daddy is becoming the new *in* word, guess he was just trying to be *in*

It's quite common for men to like being called that nothing to do with taboo roleplay or anything x

Once a guy asked me to howl like a dog  I own a dog and I refused to do it. I have never been asked to call a client daddy. How I would deal with it depends on the guy and the situation. If the client belongs to an older age group and potentially has children I will find it creepy. Also I wouldnt want to be thinking of my dad while having sex with a client.

My boyfriend has a daughter from another relationship. He is into all sorts of roleplay but after he became a dad some of his likes and language changed out of respect for his daughter.

It's no biggie mostly- it's not usually done in the sense of wanting to be your actual father.

I'd go along with it especially if he is a good client- just imagine daddy means something else.

+1

In the grand scheme of things its pretty minor unless your reeeeally uncomfy calling him daddy (and dont do any form of roleplay in your bookings) - if the latter, I dont see any harm in telling him you dont feel comfy calling him daddy. An understanding client would respect that