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randomnickname999

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Getting back to escorting - advice needed!
« on: 20 June 2018, 05:12:08 pm »
Hello everyone!

This is my first post from this account, but I'm not new to this forum. I was working as an escort 3 years ago in London and quit due to getting into relationship. Well, now relationship turned sour and I'm considering getting back on the horse.

I have few issues I want to talk about:
1. I used to be fairly popular, booked sometimes weeks in advance and had many lovely regulars. Is it worth it to create whole new "working persona" and build my reputation from scratch? I'm planning to charge higher rates, as I got fit and generally look better than back then, but I don't want ex-clients to ask me for discounts. Also, I don't want my ex to know I went back to escorting (he knows my working name).
So would you start over or acknowledge your previous alter ego?

2. I really, really, really don't want to sent pictures of my face and ID to AW and I'm extremely paranoid about outing. I know there won't be any way around it, as I'm from "high risk country". Any solutions to that? Can I get a fake ID somewhere? Or maybe there are some new websites that bring you girls a lot of business?

I'm really excited, as I loved my job and my clients. Money was great and escorting would allow me to finish my degree without stressing too much. Right now I'm working as a waitress and it's fine for the summer, but I know once uni starts I'll be exhausted and broke.
Previously I quit for relationship but also due to a burnout. But I think this time would be different, as I have many other things and goals going on in my life.

Please give me your opinions! (and I'm so happy to be posting here again  ;) )
 
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amy

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Re: Getting back to escorting - advice needed!
« Reply #1 on: 20 June 2018, 09:56:17 pm »
Welcome back! :D

I think there are two conflicting problems here - I would say definitely come back as yourself (your old clients will be thrilled to see you and you can hit the ground running to some degree), but if you're concerned abouy an ex looking for you then I think you have to assess how much effort he'd be likely to lut in to cause you problems?

How recent was the breakup and how sour? You could maybe use a variation of your old work name with a new domain name for your site, new pictures and suchlike? Bear in mind it's fairly likely you'll be spotted and identified anyway since it wasn't that long ago and ifnhe's actively looking out for you he'll find you regardless.

You don't have to show your face on AW and you can make sure your Hide Verification Photo box is ticked, but some people have been forced to show theirs - if you do a search you'll find many posts about the whole process. There's also the Where To Advertise thread at the top of this board which is always kept pretty up to date :).
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Rosesugar

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Re: Getting back to escorting - advice needed!
« Reply #2 on: 21 June 2018, 11:11:05 am »
Hi there  :)
It's great your in a position to start afresh.
Don't use your old working name to be on the safe side. Use a brand new one.
But if you know your favourite clients you could email them on aw if you still have their details
You set your rates and in faq section add that you don't apply any discounts.
Regarding verification just do the same requested paper with Aw details on and cover your face up for the time being.
. I understand why you don't want your real details sent. It's just you might get some warning from Aw to veryfy I did a fair few months later and felt pressured even though I'm from the UK.
Hope your lovely clients find you there and you don't get harassed by your ex at all.
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SunsetAlba

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Re: Getting back to escorting - advice needed!
« Reply #3 on: 21 June 2018, 11:25:53 am »
As others have said old clients will definitely come running if they spot you!!

I have changed names and my pictures were completely different but my old regs still text me saying, "Is that you?!"
They have a sixth sense lol

As for your ex hope he won't cause unnecessary stress and drama for you..
It's none of his business...
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randomnickname999

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Re: Getting back to escorting - advice needed!
« Reply #4 on: 21 June 2018, 10:20:26 pm »
Thank you ladies for your replies, I really can't wait to be back  >:D

Regarding my ex looking for me, I don't think he would ever do anything malicious towards me, but I'm pretty sure he'll come across my profile at some point and it just feels very weird knowing that he'll know I got back to this job. When I think he'd read reviews about me I cringe  :-X

So I think I'll create brand new profile and mention my old name in interview question.

I guess there is no way around sending AW pics of my passport, hopefully it won't come back to bite me in the ass in the future... I'm really worried about it.
But benefits outweigh costs I guess... And I really want to feel sexy and wanted again, I miss the freedom and good money. Believe me, low paid civvie jobs and 100x more soulcryshing than the smelliest dick.

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