My most loyal little old regular has arranged a surprise day for me. I have guessed what it is- and it is basically something he is doing completely for me, and taking a lot of time planning the whole thing. There will be no sex involved at all.
I'm certain that we all do little things for good, long term and well paying regulars to show our gratitude and treat them well- you know, not noticing when the time ticks on a bit, or making them dinner, or buying the odd bottle of wine- little things, you know, like extra customer service?!
So, my question: If he is arranging this surprise completely for my benefit, and there is no sex involved, should I suggest a social only fee to show my gratitude? (I can't help feeling that the amount I would be getting paid is ridiculously unjustifiable for just turning up and being treated and brought lunch).
We have spent social time together in the past and then come back for sex, and I have never suggested a lower fee for this because the date has revolved around him and we have eventually had sex, so as far as I am concerned these were nothing but normal, fully paid arrangements.
Does anyone else see my point, or do you think I am just going to complicate matters to the extreme for future meetings? He hasn't suggested a lower fee by the way, and can definitely afford to pay my usual fee, but just wanted to get some thoughts and see whether I had become a cold robot or whether I was going soft! xx