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Ana66

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Re: Has a client ever offered you a “life changing” opportunity ?
« Reply #15 on: 21 March 2022, 07:15:27 pm »
Thank you for your advice everyone, it's always very helpful to know what you all are thinking as most of you probably have a lot more experience than I do.

I agree that people who genuinely have money never brag about it. I also kept thinking about what kind of proposal he could offer me but yes other than pimping me out with his "rich" friends, or proposing to be his submissive PA (lol), I really can't think about anything other than that (especially when the guy has only seen me twice in total).
He is a clever guy for sure and he probably identified my vulnerability to try taking advantage of me.

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Re: Has a client ever offered you a “life changing” opportunity ?
« Reply #16 on: 22 March 2022, 12:54:13 am »
Please dont believe any client that is not willing to Pay for your time,especially if he is as rich as he claims. I've had several clients ask me out on dates but never willing to pay.They just want to hang out with you(for free) and a lot of them will make up stories to get that.

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Re: Has a client ever offered you a “life changing” opportunity ?
« Reply #17 on: 22 March 2022, 08:01:02 am »
I had a guy, 1st time seeing him, who said he was a millionaire. Didn't believe him. 3 months later he asks for another booking, and asks if I do a regular discount..... I declined offering him a discount.

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Re: Has a client ever offered you a “life changing” opportunity ?
« Reply #18 on: 22 March 2022, 08:04:35 am »
I had a guy, 1st time seeing him, who said he was a millionaire. Didn't believe him. 3 months later he asks for another booking, and asks if I do a regular discount..... I declined offering him a discount.

Ha ha ha! What an idiot!
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KirstyKiss

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Re: Has a client ever offered you a “life changing” opportunity ?
« Reply #19 on: 22 March 2022, 09:34:02 am »
As soon as he said, 'He had something to offer me,' he'd have been blocked.

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Re: Has a client ever offered you a “life changing” opportunity ?
« Reply #20 on: 22 March 2022, 08:08:47 pm »
You haven't lost anything as there wasn't anything to lose in the first place, the guy was a complete tw or haggling to be your pimp at the least.  Even if there was genuinely an offer it definitely wouldn't have been live changing, at least not in a good way.

This 100%

If he actually had something to offer you and was that interested in investing in you he would have been happy to sit down for half an hour of his booking time and talked to you about it there and then.

Hes a  chancer

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Re: Has a client ever offered you a “life changing” opportunity ?
« Reply #21 on: 23 March 2022, 01:41:29 pm »
I’ve had clients say they want a sugar baby type relationship but then baulk when I decline going to dinner unless they pay me. If he was a wealthy as he said and also valued you as a person (and business woman!) he wouldn’t have minded about the fee at all.

As other people have said, the real wealthy people don’t need to resort to tricks to get what they want. Some of my favourite clients are small business owners as they treat me like a fellow business owner. They don’t cancel (and if they have on the rare occasion, they offer to compensate), they turn up on time and leave on time or five minutes early. This guy just thinks dinner should be a given because he’s offering a *wonderful* opportunity. One I suspect would result in you having sex with him at a very discounted price.

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Re: Has a client ever offered you a “life changing” opportunity ?
« Reply #22 on: 25 March 2022, 01:50:14 am »
I did have clients (from sugar baby arrangements rather than escorts) offering me "opportunities" to work for them (as in non-sexual work) so this can definitely happen, I wouldn't say any of them were life changing, I have just seen them as results of non conventional working, but they told me about them while we were meeting as usual, I wouldn't go for anyone who tries to bend the rules of the previously agreed arrangement we have in place.. If he was genuine about it he would've told you during one of your bookings I think.

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Re: Has a client ever offered you a “life changing” opportunity ?
« Reply #23 on: 25 March 2022, 06:28:53 am »
As soon as he said, 'He had something to offer me,' he'd have been blocked.

Me too.
 I don't have Netflix, but I'll bet there are a few would be Lotharios out there who took note and are trying their hand at it.
I despair of some of the Romance scams I hear about.
Guy (usually) meets woman, guy asks for money. Woman gives her life savings.. then blames her Bank for allowing this  ::)

You can't save some people from themselves.

Justine

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Re: Has a client ever offered you a “life changing” opportunity ?
« Reply #24 on: 25 March 2022, 08:50:28 am »
Ana you called this con mans bluff he though he could get your time for free, he too has watched Tinder Swindler I bet and thought he would give it a go.
There’s a saying, if something sounds too good to be true, it probably is!
Take care

Because of this mention of the Tinder Swindler I finally watched it the other night. It's long! I watched in 2 halves but found it shocking in that the ladies were completely taken in by this man and many others out there have been duped by a handsome face and glamorous lifestyle opportunites.

As for myself I like to think that all my clients have clubbed together to change my life and thank you guys (tongue in cheek of course) because without their money I may still be plodding along trying to balance my books and live on a very average income.  Any one man saying he can change my life would get laughed at by me and I have had one or two strongly hint that I was so special to them that they could steer me to riches beyond my dreams.

Bollocks!

Lady Frog

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Re: Has a client ever offered you a “life changing” opportunity ?
« Reply #25 on: 25 March 2022, 04:52:13 pm »
As for myself I like to think that all my clients have clubbed together to change my life and thank you guys (tongue in cheek of course)

Love this  8)
A woman, especially, if she have the misfortune of knowing anything, should conceal it as well as she can. - Jane Austen

Luvmylips

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Re: Has a client ever offered you a “life changing” opportunity ?
« Reply #26 on: 26 March 2022, 07:13:56 am »

 ...........................  After my second booking with him, he asked me out because “he has something to offer me” (it’s not something material, I would rather think about a job opportunity, or the opportunity to participate to private parties with high profile people, or something that could give me some “opportunities” in life), that’s why he asked me out in a nice restaurant this week.   Therefore, I told him that I would be very happy to have a lunch with him and that I was charging x amount per hour for social time. He then replied that he will give this a miss as “he mainly wanted to take me out so he could ask me if I’d be interested in something he was going to offer” and then said “have a good day and all the best for the future” (he will probably not come back to see me)

What do you think ? I feel frustrated now as I feel I’ve potentially missed an opportunity to change my life or even to potentially make a lot of money  :o I think I should have been for lunch with him for free....in the end even if the outcome was not positive I would have just “lost” 2h of my life.

Ps. I’ve asked a couple of close people of mine about this situation and they said that “he is a con, don’t bother, nothing is free is life or ask him payment for your time as a normal booking, I was initially planning to go to see him for free)

He has nothing to offer you that could not have been offered in a paid booking.  He wants free sex.  And on top of it, he's not only a con man. He's a thief - a time stealer.  He's played the game before and he has practiced the art of manipulation so well because you feel guilty for not meeting him for "free".   He dangled the carrot and hoped you would bite....

Any time a client asks to meet a sex worker for free, he's a time stealer.  He booked you twice and I presume he paid your fee. He knows you charge for your time and you sell the pleasure of your company.  So he goes and asks you to meet him for free to "discuss" a life changing proposition that he could discuss in an hour's booking in your home......  block and delete or if you choose to see him again, ensure you get your money for each booking.   
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Re: Has a client ever offered you a “life changing” opportunity ?
« Reply #27 on: 26 March 2022, 03:40:17 pm »
This gives major grooming/pimp vibes

Ana66

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Re: Has a client ever offered you a “life changing” opportunity ?
« Reply #28 on: 27 March 2022, 12:33:26 pm »
Luvmylips, I completely agree with you, I was stupid to fall for that, when I look back at it I roll my eyes back aha. And about what MissTDI said, I totally agree as well, I think his idea behind "his proposal" was definitely some kind of grooming/pimping or something even more sinister than that. It seems that this industry is full of people like this and when you think about it, it's quite scary to be honest.  :( :(