There is a difference between what you are "required" to do, and what will really leave them glowing.

Well my rule with kissing is I dont do it unless they do it first (in business that is). What if the guy is like super-heterosexual, 1% bi-sexual and is just trying it out. Kissing someone who doesnt feel comfortable to kiss wont leave them glowing, well that could backfire    

I can't work out whether you had already realised this and I apologise if you had, but by "our world" I think Joey was referring to gay subculture - a "queen" is a certain type of gay guy pretty much exactly typified by your description:

yeah thats what I meant.

I've never had that problem yet, and besides. The OP was a heterosexual lady, so I shouldn't imagine she would...

You're in the U.K., Im in freakin U.S. there are so many closeted guys out here; especially on sites like craigslist that are open to the world...sooner or later you'd run into one.  

Frankly, it is sad if someone throws a hissy fit and leaves a forum for no other reason then people actually voicing an opinion.  She done a similar childish and petty thing when dealing with a major forum and directory, see a post re: Punterlink.  It is no loss to them but potentially has closed a major free advertising channel to her.  Do not try and insinuate that I scared her off for mainly answering a post ? she was trying to spite her face by cutting of her nose.  Of course, we all off have differing experiences and opinions.  That is a nature of a forum even in the oldest sense of the word it implies an exchange of views!

The OP did not say she did not like kissing full stop but only felt like it with the most attractive clients.  We were all trying to explain the reality of this job ? if the gent is clean and respectful ? you ought to give the same service to him then the next drop dead gorgeous man otherwise you are probably not cut out for this work.

You may not get asked to kiss very often but in the UK for female escorts in a certain pay bracket in particular, most gents expect kissing from an escort.  This is ultimately what GFE is about.  I do not speak from a sole perspective but echo the opinions voiced by many gents on a number of forums who complain constantly about exactly the kind of attitude the OP showed.  Why do I need to concede she felt battered when we were trying to respond to her post?  She certainly can stand up for herself judging by some of her abrasive posts.  This is a young lady who likes to get her own way and it is her decision to ban herself.

And please, do try and actually read and digest what other people say before wading in with your usual melodramatic posts.  I said none of the things you implied specifically about kissing or not kissing!  I was referring to an overall attitude towards less than perfect good-looking clients!  There are so many beautiful stunning ladies in the UK so relying on your looks alone could seriously affect your business.  Unless guys have a fetish for humiliation, they want an escort that puts them at ease and is warm and passionate.  The stance of maybe kissing if they book an overnight but maybe not if they are not attractive is unlikely to win you regulars when there are so many lovely ladies about.  And FFS I said nothing of the kind ?how dare you not kiss? blablabla.  We all said it was of course her choice but she asked the question and we answered!  

And trust me ? I am not offended by a young possibly insecure lady.  She however was rude to most ladies on this forum with her overall comments that more or less stated that she was young and had model looks hence did not operate on the same strata as the rest of us.  But I am at an age where I am happy with myself and besides no longer worrying about schoolyard kind of taunts, I really do not feel any jealousy towards someone gorgeous looking.  The irony is that her and I actually charge similar kind of prices despite me being obviously not a ?VIP Klassy Kortesan? and I do get repeat business.  What I do works for me so I would not dream about imposing my way of thinking on others.  But trust me there are some universal facts.  Someone who markets herself as a GFE will be expected to be warm and friendly and for the great great majority of gents that means a lady that kisses!            

Well thankyou for explaining that in more detail and that makes sense. Whats expected from 1 market may or may not be mandatory in another. In your case, you are certainly right (need I say it). I also didnt realize you 2 had it out on another forum either.

Oh and by the way...I wasnt implying you said what I wrote...I was just suggesting the tone to be as of that. By all means, you should recognize my exaggerative wording by now LOL. But you're right, all what you've said about the situation makes sense.