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Mirror

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Re: Cross dressing clients
« Reply #15 on: 28 January 2019, 06:11:22 pm »
Most of my cross dressers/sissys like humiliation so they don't mind (and want to) look silly...so to that end I have a bag with anything I have owned that has since gone crap. Stockings that have split or laddered, dresses gone bad in the wash. I'm a 14-16 so a lot of my stuff fit may of them anyway unless they are quite big, with the exception of bras because my back is small, but I have a few cast offs that I put 'half on' as in, without doing up. I also have cast off an poundland makeup. It all adds to the general silliness.

If a cross dresser actually wants to look nice they have to bring their own stuff or pay a supplement in deposit form for me to order what they want ready as I can't be expected to have any amount of man size female clothing for the odd one or two that show up intermittently, especially as these specialist items can be costly.

I kept old clothes for a while especially from my 14-16 days, but ran out of storage and it wasn't being used.

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« Reply #16 on: 28 January 2019, 06:22:16 pm »
Fair enough. I get *a lot* of cross dressers because I advertise it particularly (because I just find it such an easy service to do) and I don’t keep everything. Just enough so I’m always covered. Things get binned after a while.

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« Reply #17 on: 28 January 2019, 06:27:34 pm »
I had a few cross dressing clients but they were happy to wear my clothing and being a bbw  it wasn't an issue unless they were very skinny or they brought their own.I did have one cheeky sod enquire if I had a special cross dressing wardrobe as he didn't want to wear my stuff (but apparently happy to wear stuff that other men would have probably worn?!?)and seemed put out that I didn't have a special wardrobe with specific cross dressing clothes in!Another wanted to come to my flat already dressed,wigged and made up until I pointed out he would be walking from an NCP car park across a busy dual carriageway outside a pub and into a busy multistorey apartment block!
Other ones include crossdressers who buy you matching underwear without checking your sizing or indeed even informing you that they would be doing this or that they were even into this!

I had a guy once show up in cross dressing garb, fur coat, paisley dress make up...but bald and with trainers. He didn’t ask to show up like this, he just did. God knows if any neighbours spotted him. I was not best pleased!

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Re: Cross dressing clients
« Reply #18 on: 28 January 2019, 09:32:37 pm »
Really interesting read

Where does anyone suggest buying cross dressing clothes specially for men ?

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« Reply #19 on: 28 January 2019, 09:44:27 pm »
Really interesting read

Where does anyone suggest buying cross dressing clothes specially for men ?
Usually normal womens clothes in a wide range of sizes although I have found that the larger sizes are more popular and like Amy suggested earlier 'Birchplace' is a good resource although it can be quite expensive so it depends entirely on your budget andd if you want clothes that will last or just for occasional use.
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Re: Cross dressing clients
« Reply #20 on: 28 January 2019, 10:50:41 pm »
I have had many and nearly all have provided their own outfits.
Some, have had their own wardrobe - designer dresses, shoes, wigs, jewellery, lingerie - the whole lot!!!
Don't really have any CDs now. The most recent ones provided their own.
I prefer they tell me beforehand so am prepared - they do seem to pay a lot!



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Re: Cross dressing clients
« Reply #21 on: 29 January 2019, 10:18:19 am »
Cool thanks

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« Reply #22 on: 30 January 2019, 11:45:05 am »
I have ticked the cross dressing box on AW and totally assumed they’d bring their own items, not that I’ve had any such clients so far, is it generally the expectation we’d provide garments? I’ll take cross dressing off of thays the case as it’s not practical for me.
I took cross dressing services  off as I don't have clothing for these clients requested.
I got too many indecive callers which irritated me.

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Re: Cross dressing clients
« Reply #23 on: 04 February 2019, 07:59:35 am »
When I worked full time I had no objections to Crossdressers, just saw it as another booking.
Had requests where clients wanted to wear my own lingerie; sometimes I would, wouldn’t oblidge. Some guy trying to squeeze into a pair of my knickers wasn’t always my idea of fun! I’d always insist if clients did want to dress they done it in the privacy of my house. Again, a rather unconvincing guy in a dress and heels at my door wasn’t the best of ideas either!

Most just got off being in stockings and a belt. One particular guy asked I done his make up once which was fine as I charged for extra time!

A lot wanted to keep my stockings and panties. Again at my discretion.
Probably as I’ve touched on in the funniest bookings thread is a guy with a beard, badly fitting lingerie and stockings and badly applied lipstick getting it on with you! Trying to keep a straight face before, during and after was so difficult at times!!

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« Reply #24 on: 04 February 2019, 09:25:37 am »
When I worked full time I had no objections to Crossdressers, just saw it as another booking.
Had requests where clients wanted to wear my own lingerie; sometimes I would, wouldn’t oblidge. Some guy trying to squeeze into a pair of my knickers wasn’t always my idea of fun! I’d always insist if clients did want to dress they done it in the privacy of my house. Again, a rather unconvincing guy in a dress and heels at my door wasn’t the best of ideas either!

Most just got off being in stockings and a belt. One particular guy asked I done his make up once which was fine as I charged for extra time!

A lot wanted to keep my stockings and panties. Again at my discretion.
Probably as I’ve touched on in the funniest bookings thread is a guy with a beard, badly fitting lingerie and stockings and badly applied lipstick getting it on with you! Trying to keep a straight face before, during and after was so difficult at times!!

I've known clients who arrive wearing lingerie under their usual clothing, really turns them on so absolutely fine with me.

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Re: Cross dressing clients
« Reply #25 on: 04 February 2019, 10:27:22 am »
Probably as I’ve touched on in the funniest bookings thread is a guy with a beard, badly fitting lingerie and stockings and badly applied lipstick getting it on with you! Trying to keep a straight face before, during and after was so difficult at times!!

Ive been there as well  ;D
GG x

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Re: Cross dressing clients
« Reply #26 on: 16 December 2019, 01:02:53 pm »
I did a search but could not find this question in any threads (could have missed them but will ask here anyway)

Most of my xdressers have been fine and I quite enjoyed the meetings. Rarely do them now but one man who I see very occasionally has emailed me asking if he can arrive as a woman. He asked this before and I said it was out of the question. I explained the reason. My in call premises are such that a neighbour could easily see him knocking on my door and I am not willing to take the risk of being gossiped about etc etc.

This man has now said he does not feel he can book me again if I will not indulge him.  If he thinks I am so desperate for his one hour fee I will relent and give in then he is seriously deluded.

I won't miss his at the most twice yearly visits so he can do one.  I am asking have any of you sps said yes and let your xdresser(s) turn up in full female garb?

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Re: Cross dressing clients
« Reply #27 on: 16 December 2019, 01:08:56 pm »
Merged (I suspect the abbreviation stopped the other theads showing up :)).

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« Reply #28 on: 16 December 2019, 01:20:55 pm »
Yea I’d never be happy with a client showing up cross-dressed, just not worth the risk. I slightly think that my landlord knows what about do but seems to turn a blind eye but I would never want to push my luck. It’s rude for them to think for one appointment we would risk our security!

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Re: Cross dressing clients
« Reply #29 on: 16 December 2019, 01:40:39 pm »
Merged (I suspect the abbreviation stopped the other theads showing up :)).

Ah yes I realise that now. I had seen threads on the subject but not on my specific question.

I had forgotten that I started this thread ages ago.  ::) :)
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