Author Topic: Is this client screwing with me? (Read 4409 times)

TanyaSin · « **on:** 25 October 2013, 12:32:30 am »

I was meant to meet my first client tonight.

I bailed. Ran home in tears thinking about what my mum would say.

Turned out I needn't have worried - he's bailed too because the cash machine declined his card.

BUT he wants me to come over anyway because he has a business proposition for me?

He wants us to shoot porn together (no faces, appaz), and he has a flat he's willing to let me use, free of charge!?

Oh, and apparently I'm making dangerous blunders about myself on adultwork, but he'll advise me on how to keep myself safe if I come over right now.

Goes by "Jamie Cambridge" on adultwork - all the feedback about him on there is really positive

Real name (because he was daft enough to talk to me through his fb profile) is [removed].

Apparently, if I don't see him tonight/tomorrow, it means I don't care about the flat and he'll give it to someone else.

He also won't discuss this shit via email, Skype or phone - NOPE, it has to be irl, either tonight or tomorrow.

...

I don't know what to make of it bc all his feedback from escorts was good. But this still doesn't feel right.

(also, can some/any of you check me out on aw and tell me if I *am* making dangerous blunders?)

amy · « **Reply #1 on:** 25 October 2013, 12:38:03 am »

Well he's invited you over (despite being unwilling to pay your fees) and has asked for you to not only have sex with him for free, but to be filmed doing so. How much more do you need to go on than that?

Classic newbie hunter, and the only useful purpose he serves is to prove to us that Adultwork feedback isn't worth a tin shit.

happyhappyjoyjoy · « **Reply #2 on:** 25 October 2013, 12:39:08 am »

I was just about to say the same. Classic newbie hunter. When I started I got tonnes of this. I will look at your profile honey xx

Lady_Lust_XXX · « **Reply #3 on:** 25 October 2013, 12:39:48 am »

Don't go anywhere near this guy !!!!

He is trying emotional blackmail and possibly senses your desperation for money.

And just because he has contacted you via a Facebook account, that doesn't mean it is his real name. You can open a Facebook account under any name as many on here know.

Stay clear honey for your own safety.

Others will be along soon to explain other dangers of this guy.

Be very very careful.

happyhappyjoyjoy · « **Reply #4 on:** 25 October 2013, 12:41:10 am »

pm me your profile always happy to give advice.

Pink~Princess · « **Reply #5 on:** 25 October 2013, 12:43:15 am »

Are you seriously considering this? For one I'd tell him to DO ONE and mind his own fucking business.

If you need any help or advice on your profile then that's what we're here for on this site, we know what we're talking about and we can help you without an ulterior motive.

Weather he has good feedback or not means absolutely nothing, you have to go with your gut. I had a guy email me just there asking me if him and his friend can spit roast me, now my profile is crystal clear that I am not into anything like that yet the guys feedback was all positive, girls saying how good it felt to have 2 cocks at once etc etc etc so the point I am trying to make is that his feedback might be good cause other girls might be happy with him and his shit but that doesn't mean to say you will be.

I would avoid this like the plague.

You worry about your mum finding out you are an escort yet you consider doing porn? Its madness, she is far more likely to find out about porn.

The fact you have started this thread shows that you have your own gut feeling, go with it, you have a gut feeling for a reason.

xx

Pink~Princess · « **Reply #6 on:** 25 October 2013, 12:45:46 am »

And yes as the other ladies have said this is very typical of a new escort on the scene, there cretins prey on the newbies for they're own perverted gain. AVOID, AVOID, AVOID!

xx

happyhappyjoyjoy · « **Reply #7 on:** 25 October 2013, 12:51:58 am »

When I first started I nearly fell for this kind of crap. There was one guy offering his room and to do picture. Although lovely and charming on the phone I looked at his photos that he has taken for other people and they were all rubbish pics of him getting his willy seen too. I did um and ar because he sounded nice but then I pulled myself together and realised that I would've been exploited by him whether he was nice about it or not and I did not quit my crappy job to get exploited and I was going to do everything for myself.

You are going to get these types of emails for about a month before they move on to the other noobs just grin and bear it for now xxx

TanyaSin · « **Reply #8 on:** 25 October 2013, 12:53:18 am »

Okay people seriously, now he's tracked my down to my REAL LIFE personal fb, which means he knows which uni I go and where I live in terms of accommodation...

He won't tell me how he got that info unless I meet him. O_O

What the fuck do I do?

NB: All his feedback from escorts on AW is really positive. Like ten different women have said he's really nice.

Pink~Princess · « **Reply #9 on:** 25 October 2013, 12:57:05 am »

And how the hell did he track you down on facebook in your personal life? What information or link did you give him to track you down?

Is he just saying that or has he gave you facts like your real name and which uni you actually go to?

xx

TanyaSin · « **Reply #10 on:** 25 October 2013, 01:00:51 am »

He won't tell me how he found it, but he's messaging me on my real facebook right now.

My SW and real profiles are totally different (and not linked) - my SW profile says I'm a year older and in a different city

Idk what the fuck's happening, unless he's secretly Anonymous or some shit...

TanyaSin · « **Reply #11 on:** 25 October 2013, 01:01:59 am »

Told him I was going to sleep on it.

He said if I know what's good for me, I'll meet him before I see another client...

O_O

Bit freaky

cassxxie · « **Reply #12 on:** 25 October 2013, 01:18:12 am »

Honestly hun please just IGNORE this guy!! He is obviously some kind of messed up creep who just wants to get freebies and scare you!

Block him on your profile and block him on fb and also on fb make sure your privacy settings are set to friends only so that he cant contact anyone you know. If he makes a new profile on fb just block it again he will soon give up seeing as theres newbies on aw every week.

It doesnt matter if he has good feedback this guy is trying to intimidate and scare you into meeting him just so he can have sex etc with you for free..

Iv had a guy try this when i was new he even found my fb page i was realy worried but in the end i just ignored him and he went away.

amy · « **Reply #13 on:** 25 October 2013, 01:22:56 am »

Quote from: TanyaSin on 25 October 2013, 01:01:59 am

Told him I was going to sleep on it.

He said if I know what's good for me, I'll meet him before I see another client...

O_O

Bit freaky

Well that was good of him, because you now have evidence of him threatening to blackmail you, and the police very much enjoy dealing with scum like this. Make sure you keep it, do whatever you need to do to Facebook (and the list of reasons not to use it gets ever longer, which is why I don't and never have) and ignore him - if needs be inform him that you'll be passing it on to the law if he doesn't leave you alone.

I can't help with O_O because I don't know what it stands for - am I missing something?

happyhappyjoyjoy · « **Reply #14 on:** 25 October 2013, 01:32:25 am »

O_O is a face

<('-'<) is a hug which I'm giving to tanya

See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

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