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Is anyone else not feeing the crunch?
« on: 16 September 2008, 02:42:28 pm »
There's a lot of talk here of times being bad and I'm sorry if this sounds insensitive, but I'm not experiencing that and I wonder if I'm the only one.

When doom started hitting the news earlier this year I noticed a drop, but business picked up soon after and I'm doing quite well. It's not that my clients are rich enough that ?300 doesn't matter much to them, most do need to watch what they're spending. It could be that I've never had or wanted a lot of bookings; two a week is all I need to keep building my savings. Still, I'm working more, not less. It's odd.

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Re: Is anyone else not feeing the crunch?
« Reply #1 on: 16 September 2008, 03:10:08 pm »
I think it's because you've been around for a while. Imo being established helps, especially if you have reviews. I was very suprised when business was as normal this summer. In fact, compared to last year both July and August was busier for me this year. I did feel it during the World Cup in June, though. I don't mind saying business then was crap. But since then I've been steady. Like yourself, I only see two to three a week and that suits me fine. I've made a couple of changes. I lowered my prices by a tenner, and added an extra gallery, and that seems to have done the trick. Being a Black BBW, I'm a niche within a niche. I'm not everybody's cuppa tea so I try my hardest to keep my advertising going to those that I know I appeal to. But then again I see that as standing out, so hopefully I get noticed a bit more. I then provide what I think is a good service, and hopefully they keep coming back.

But saying that, I have noticed subtle differences in working. I don't get as many email enquiries now. They're mostly phone calls and same day bookings have increased. So it feels kind of last minute. And as I said I have to work harder to keep my advertising going. And even though the bookings are the same, I have definitely got less enquiries.

I do feel for ladies just coming into the business now. There's definitely a lot more internet-based escorts now than back when I first started. There's a lot more of us to choose from. I don't just notice a difference since the credit crunch. The difference has been apparent in the last couple of years.
It definitely isn't the same as it was 5-6 years ago.

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Re: Is anyone else not feeing the crunch?
« Reply #2 on: 17 September 2008, 10:29:42 am »
Can you hear me wailing from over here?
Yeah, pass some of those guys my way please, go on, just a couple....

I am happy your doing well and no, your not insensitive to say so!
You have obviously worked hard for your success and that is your key to getting through this tough time.

I think that all the talk about the credit crunch is doing more harm than the actual credit crunch itself! It's all getting on my pip. It's all that is on the news and all that we hear about all day long. It's depressing everybody.
I tell you though, when I go out to get some shopping, I don't see shoppers staying away from out of town centres in their droves, it's still as hard to park up and people are still out spending money or putting things on their cards.

Perhaps it's the whole way escorts have been potrayed over the last 2 years that is the reason there is an influx of them on the internet now (says she the new person!) If you go into a book shop there are books abound that are 'fiction' about escorts and they are on bestsellers lists, so  really, it states the obvious that more and more women will give it a shot. They are all reading about it and anybody that ever entertained the idea of doing something like this will read those books and give it a try I guess. It seems to be the new in thing for now, until the publishers move on to another genre to make popular and things settle down.
There is a small backlash beginning against Billie Piper and that programme on Tv though. It's just whispers right now but I have read a few articles that are no longer neutral about her or her role, they are starting to become rather testy about the whole thing. Who knows if it will go anyplace but the programme is not getting the big thumbs up it did the first time around and Billy Piper is catching a lot of flack for it, which is unfair really as she is an actress after all.
And the whole new term for older ladies, the MILF has had an effect I think. Suddenly women that didn't think they could before are now thinking they can?
Demand and supply I guess. There are so many to choose from. I was surprised when I realised how many women actually did this.
Yes, I am the new person that is struggling. It's tough but there you go, nothing was ever going to be easy.
I hope you carry on getting the success you are currently getting Anika as if you think of this in a term of a business, then you have put in the work and should be successful. A successful business is meant to carry you through tough economic times. Just don't quote American Banks to me after I post this, please!
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Re: Is anyone else not feeing the crunch?
« Reply #3 on: 17 September 2008, 12:24:33 pm »
Joanna,

I suppose everybody has different needs on how much they need to work a booking a week will do I had 4 offers this week excluding sunday 2 of which I said no as I can't do sunday, monday, tuesday, today and tomorrow bloody hell I am not a machine.

Maybe its where people are listed who knows - what are you listed on Jo?

I find punterlink is good for me but wording is importnat on directories. Also I found that as I advertise in brum theres abolutely loads - the client said last night he can't remember how he picked me great lol. If you advertise somewhere very busy try somewhere quiet although doing incalls is different as you can't say southhampton when its northhampton!

Hows your website doing have you got google analytics? Its helps to see which is best for referral etc etc.

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Re: Is anyone else not feeing the crunch?
« Reply #4 on: 17 September 2008, 03:03:08 pm »
Thank goodness for the regulars is all I can say.

Sure I have had some newbies but have noticed it has quietened down a little although not drastic for me yet.

Sorry to the newbies on here, but I think once you do get some regulars under your belt then you will be sailing through the quiet times.

It is a matter of keeping your site up to date and on directories - also if on aw - try to build up some feedback rating as I believe that surely helps - potential clients love to read reviews and feedback.  So ask punters to book via the site if you are on it and then you can start to build up feedback.  It also could mean that if searches are made based upon feedback rating then you will come up higher clearly the higher feedback you have.

For anyone new in this business and in most businesses it is slow at first but soon you will see the increase.  You just have to hang on in there.

Also time of the month (LOL not for us - for the guys) has a bearing as most people get paid at the end so you may notice a trend that beginning or end of month is busiest, but seriously I dont notice any of this.

Another factor - has football season recently started?  Hence my Saturdays are quiet now (just as well because am not keen on weekend working anyway).

It is difficult as I am happy to say I am still busy but without my regulars then I would feel the pinch, so my advice is treat every new client like a King as you want them to come back!!!!

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Re: Is anyone else not feeing the crunch?
« Reply #5 on: 17 September 2008, 05:20:10 pm »
I did! I did! And he is coming back on Saturday! Honestly, I can do it right when I get the opportunity!  ;D

I don't know what else to say really, I am on lots of listings I just seem to get the oddballs on the phone, the ones that want it in half an hour's time and it's about 5pm. Out of the question. The ones that want to talk it not do it. I hang up. The ones that withhold their numbers.
The ones that text with stupid comments. My phone is getting plenty of action it's just the action is from plain old strange people.
Dare I even be thinking it but I am thinking of joining an agency now. Hoo-ha. I didn't really want to.
Isabella, in answer to your question. I am the only independent in Swansea with my own site that comes up when you put in a search. I am third from the top on the first page. You would think that would mean work, it however perhaps reflects the area I live in, that being, there is little call for it here. Who knows?
I bump my profile all the time.
I had a few what I would call normal guys mail me from AW but I never heard from them after the first initial mail.
I have had scores of other mails that are not worth the effort as frankly, they are crude and never really about a booking in the first place.
The less I get, the more determined I become though.
Jo
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Re: Is anyone else not feeing the crunch?
« Reply #6 on: 17 September 2008, 06:13:07 pm »
Why don't you shop around and look at places near where your advertised and see how many come up. If its close to where you are you could try that but your doing incall aren't you so it gets a little tricky.

Maybe wait until christmas probably pick up with people and their wallets coming out.

You have a website don't you is it striking first page? I haven't seen I don't think lol.

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Re: Is anyone else not feeing the crunch?
« Reply #7 on: 17 September 2008, 09:02:19 pm »
I'm sorry Isabella, I don't understand what you mean here??
Shop around for what?
Do you mean agencies?
I have done all that if that is what you meant. I did all the necessary research into the area and what was about before I got started off  ;)

I don't understand the incall being tricky point either??

I will get onto a few forums tomorrow I am not a big forum user though. I like this one as it's very friendly and the advice is brilliant and it's small enough for my wee brain to cope with!! It's the first place I arrived at when attempting to sort myself out here so I stuck around. I have dipped into a couple of others but not stuck around really. The big ones make me feel slightly like I wish to hide under the desk!
Too busy and too much to take in.
I am stuck in tomorrow all day waiting on a couple of deliveries so I shall be contacting agencies then.

I should think at Christmas there would be less cash to spare on an escort. Given the fact that most of these guys do have families and will be getting squeezed for the gifts!
I am not prepared to adopt the mentality of wait till Christmas as I am too determined to make a success of things now. I have a lot of ground work to do here to advertise myself and I am aware of it.
As for my website. Yes, it is good and it's the only one that comes up really for the area.
I have a good lady that got it all up and running for me, pushing me in every way she can. I am sure it will all come good. In fact, this shall be my last have a moan post as from tomorrow I will adopt the moaning gets you no place, it's time to get your head down and work (blimey - Freudian slip or what!)
Goodnight.
Jo

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Re: Is anyone else not feeing the crunch?
« Reply #8 on: 17 September 2008, 09:11:58 pm »
Sorry what I meant is I am listed in brum there is loads of escorts that come up and so I might be higher in the list if i listed say under west mids. You suggested as there isn't many escorts in swansea then perhaps theres less of a demand then you could try advertising somewhere a bit more popular is that understandable but not too far though.

Also if you did incalls and said I am advertised somewhere else than swansea to get more bookings then they would expect you to be based there outcall it doesn't matter.

Oh I don't know one of my clients suggested this to me thats all.

Yes I think a positive mental attitude is the way to go lol - good luck.

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Re: Is anyone else not feeing the crunch?
« Reply #9 on: 17 September 2008, 09:28:22 pm »
i wonder if all the sites where people can meet for free sex with eachother has an effect on the business? After all, why pay for something you can get for free? What do you guys think?
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« Reply #10 on: 17 September 2008, 10:10:48 pm »
True thats a good point but the question is would you get a beautiful woman all by yourself for quality time??

Its hard to answer some punters may like choosing an amazingly looking woman which to be honest would they give free sex see I don't think they would so maybe its quality rather than free sex who knows.

Although it doesn't help with the current climate does it really.

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Re: Is anyone else not feeing the crunch?
« Reply #11 on: 17 September 2008, 11:05:33 pm »
I think some of the men that go on Adult Friend Finder, and all the "Sugar Daddie" websites do want a freebie,but i think they are too tight to pay for an escort! A lot of the Sugar Daddie brigade are fakers, no money, up there own arses !, they think they are "too good looking and successfull " to pay!! bunch of tossers if you ask me !

Friend Finder is more mutual " clandestine, relationships!" for want of a better word -on line swingers

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Re: Is anyone else not feeing the crunch?
« Reply #12 on: 17 September 2008, 11:36:33 pm »
Nah lil diamond were to good for em lol haha! They may feel threatened by a pro who knows.

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« Reply #13 on: 18 September 2008, 12:51:16 am »
Just to add aquick point to the AFF thing.  I know a guy who is registered on there.  Hes a good looking chap, own hair, teeth, wealthy.  i ask him about it all the time (im fascinated by it) and he said that its a myth you can go on there and get a lady by the end of the evening (maybe easier if your in London, Manchester etc).  He still has to do the email chat thing for a while and he says there are alot of women on there who are time wasters.  they just like getting the cam out to show a bit of fruit working (his term not mine...).  he likes the chase so it suits him.  he knows guys who use escorts and they use them because they simply dont have the time or the inclination to put the time in to chatting women up and playing the will she wont she game.  I get the impression from him that its all advertised as a 'get it tonight for free' kind of thing but the reality can be very different.  Bless him he's been waiting for 4 months for a free 3some with 2 girls but he wont give up hope lol

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Re: Is anyone else not feeing the crunch?
« Reply #14 on: 18 September 2008, 01:16:57 am »
i wonder if all the sites where people can meet for free sex with eachother has an effect on the business? After all, why pay for something you can get for free? What do you guys think?

Not at all! Those sites all advertise to men, with pictures of young attractive women. Do you think that's because they have a surplus of young attractive women who want to have casual sex with men for free? Of course not, it's because the idea appeals to more men than women, so marketing towards men is the best way for the sites to bring in revenue.