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Jessiegirl

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Re: Starting tonight
« Reply #15 on: 13 February 2017, 10:46:25 pm »
Good luck hope it goes well for you.

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Re: Starting tonight
« Reply #16 on: 14 February 2017, 07:31:40 am »
Good luck you will settle into your own way of working.
I personally wear a dress the type that I would wear if I was working in an office with nice underwear or a blouse and pencil skirt and I have never had anyone say they did not like what I was wearing.
The guys are buying into a fantasy and as they can see women in Jeans on every high street I do think they want the works, dress or skirt, nice underwear, stockings or hold ups and high heels (I normally wear flats and keep these in my bag until I am in the lift or just outside the room door). I may be wrong and I do think it may depend on the age of the guy you are meeting but the 40year plus guys that are my normal punters seem to expect this type of clothing.
I hope it goes well

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Re: Starting tonight
« Reply #17 on: 14 February 2017, 07:49:40 pm »
Do the paperwork within the first 5-10 mins before he is allowed to go further than the welcome kiss.
However nervous you are, if offered any beverage, especially alcohol, be vigilant. It may be drugged, you could go over your limits etc.
Personally, I always let the guy lead, unless it has already discussed as what is expected prior to meeting.
Never do anything you don't want to, even if he complains. It's your body, your boundaries.
Nobody is ever prepared for their first client, but it's experience, good or bad you learn from it.
Baby wipes, breath freshener and touch up make up are your best friends.
Never be to desperate for money that it hinders your gut instinct and always have someone know where you are.
Enjoy yourself, a massive incentive of this job is bloody great orgasms.....and getting paid to have them 😃😃

Aqua Allegoria

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Re: Starting tonight
« Reply #18 on: 14 February 2017, 08:49:22 pm »
I used to know a full time agency lady. 4star hotels minimum. Yes to a smart pencil skirt and blouse with nice coat in the winter. Or very nice trousers with a lovely sexy top. You blend in more easily. Heels yes of course, she mostly had them in her bag and would slip them on in the lift.
Sexy dress if requested only (long coat of course). Things get more complicated summer time when you have no coat to cover your "sexiness".

But yes for her it was mostly very smart skirt/trousers look, hair up, chin up and there you go.

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Re: Starting tonight
« Reply #19 on: 14 February 2017, 08:59:01 pm »
Thanks guys
Waiting for a booking tonight . Bottled it last night and cancelled :/ .
I can't stop farting with nerves though 😂And feel like I need to poo.... I'm a lot more prepared tonight . Got a dress. Tights . Heels. Lube. Tried buying different sized condoms but boots was shit!!!!
Got a bottle of wine here ready if I do get a booking going to have a little glass (or 2 to calm my nerves)

I'll let you all know how it goes xxx

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Re: Starting tonight
« Reply #20 on: 14 February 2017, 09:05:52 pm »
I wouldn't have more than one glass, just so your reactions and judgment aren't blunted.

If you get a nervous stomach I'd take a couple of Immodium now. My first two weeks I took some before every booking!! (only did one booking a day)

Good luck, let us know how it goes
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Re: Starting tonight
« Reply #21 on: 14 February 2017, 09:26:43 pm »
Booze before a booking is not wise...ever

Aqua Allegoria

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Re: Starting tonight
« Reply #22 on: 14 February 2017, 09:33:15 pm »
Booze before a booking is not wise...ever

+ 1. Never ever mix booze and work. Believe me I love my wine and drink a lot but I will never go into a booking if I had booze first. Safety first. It's a big no no.
Have a sip if you want. Never more.

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Re: Starting tonight
« Reply #23 on: 14 February 2017, 09:44:48 pm »
Hope it all goes well Zara!

I agree on the no alcohol, its important to have all your wits about you during the booking, your safety is paramount.

To get different sized condoms (without going online) I always find most GUM clinics will give out large and regular for free... esp if you whisper to them what you do, they have always helped me out in the past. Long-term, going online and stocking up on all the different sizes is deffo the way to go! But for a quick fix, try a GUM clinic :)

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Re: Starting tonight
« Reply #24 on: 14 February 2017, 11:25:18 pm »
No bookings tonight :( must be cos it's Vday ? :/

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Re: Starting tonight
« Reply #25 on: 14 February 2017, 11:33:57 pm »
Thanks guys
Waiting for a booking tonight . Bottled it last night and cancelled :/ .
I can't stop farting with nerves though 😂And feel like I need to poo.... I'm a lot more prepared tonight . Got a dress. Tights . Heels. Lube. Tried buying different sized condoms but boots was shit!!!!
Got a bottle of wine here ready if I do get a booking going to have a little glass (or 2 to calm my nerves)

I'll let you all know how it goes xxx

Don't drink - at least not more than one small glass.
If you decide to stick at escorting, use the Freedoms shop to buy your condoms online: cheap, good service.
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Re: Starting tonight
« Reply #26 on: 14 February 2017, 11:39:32 pm »
Yes agree with Kay.. seriously no more than one small glass of wine.

It's surprising just how much a couple of drinks can affect your perception in these sorts of situations when you really need to keep your wits about you.

Good luck! You'll be great xxx

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Re: Starting tonight
« Reply #27 on: 15 February 2017, 07:15:41 am »
On my first outcall I wore a skirt suit and pretty much stood there looking like a deer caught in headlights! I'm cringing thinking about it now lol. I have no idea where I got the skirt suit from - I think I watched Secret Diary and I thought 'oh... ok'.

I tell them I dress 'normally' until I arrive and change in their bathroom so I don't draw attention to them. Normal for me is usually jeans and a hoody so... maybe not that normal. So I usually wear a normal, albeit form fitting, dress, and change into my heels in the lift. I drive usually, plus I can't walk in killer heels so unless they're into broken ankles...

If they say it's fine, they don't care what reception thinks (some men do, particularly in smaller hotels with a 'hot' reception, most men in big hotels don't care; home outcalls I find they do appreciate you not drawing the attention of their neighbours), I just wear my usual 'work type' dresses with stockings, lingerie and a long, securely buttoned up coat. I personally love when they're on high floors as it gives me time to unbutton, change shoes, fix myself...  there's nothing worse than that 'bing' and doors opening to people waiting to get in it whilst you're faffing about!

I have pretty much one go-to faithful dress that's a favourite, but I usually have about 5 circulating. Personally I have a separate wardrobe for work, and I don't see the point in buying expensive clothes because they're usually on the floor within 20 mins anyway. I have several pairs of shoes, including ones I can easily kick off if a situation is making me uncomfortable.

Primark's stockings are pretty decent for the price they are - personally I prefer H&M, but Primark usually gets everyone out of a tight spot once in their life.

You'll probably want in your bag:
- condoms (obviously)
- baby wipes
- nappy sacks (some outcalls just tell you to chuck it in their bin, it's just force of habit now for me to tidy up everything)

I also agree re not drinking. I drank before my first job and whilst I was very much your stereotypical student at the time who knocked back vodka like it was water, it probably made the situation worse for me.

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Re: Starting tonight
« Reply #28 on: 15 February 2017, 08:48:00 am »
I wear jeans to greet clients for all of my incalls and outcalls. Sometimes they're scruffy, baggy jeans with rips, holes and patches, sometimes they're tighter boot cut.  Don't wear skinny jeans, there's nothing sexy, graceful or dignified about getting those off! Or putting them back on. Hahaha. I also wear a vest, cheap h&m basic range in whatever colour... and a zip up hoodie. Hoodie comes off once inside so the client has a little bit of boob to look at. I'm super casual and comfy and that's exactly what I wear every single time unless otherwise requested. :) remember that the clients typically don't care what you're wearing anyway; it won't be on long and undressing each other is fun. Also remember that you're more sexy when you're comfortable. Clients notice if you're feeling a bit awkward because your dress is too tight/short/low cut etc. and if you're not feeling great, the booking will start off awkward because you won't be yourself :)
Just be you, do what works for you and learn as you go along. You'll be absolutely fine xxxx
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