Hello and thank you to anyone who has any advice

I was contacted almost 2 years ago by a local escort who asked if i would be happy to do FFM meets with her as some of her regulars had been asking for this. We met and she seemed ok so i wet with it but in almost 2 years we have only done 1 meet with her regulars.

I advertise locally on AW she advertises in the channel islands where she tours but does not advertise locally as she does not want to be outed so her reach locally is poor I have for the last two years been giving her number to men who contact me if I am unable to do the meet.

I have also been to the channel islands with her and shared the cost when we got there it was a one bedroom apartment she had booked and she had booked a lot of her regulars in the 5 days we were there so i only did one solo booking there and two duo's in the five days she had a lot of bookings in the apartment while we were there. We shared costs 50/50

I have also passed her number onto my regulars when i have been on holiday and have not issues with her meeting with them as i am sure if they feel the need and i am not available then they will go somewhere else so felt it might as well have been her.

I now come to what has made me reconsider the way i am looking at things as one of her regulars has started to visit me after getting my number from AW and she is not happy he told me that he asked her for my number when she was touring Jersey and she had refused to give him it. I have also been told by a regular of mine that she has tried to put him of visiting me by telling him she is a lot more flexible than me for appointments (probably true) and that she will always try to accommodate a booking. She also massively undercut me on a overnight booking i had planned about a year ago after she kept a message on AW from the man when i had passed her detail  onto him when I could not meet him earlier in the year

She is now upset at me as i have said that I am not willing to pass her details to anyone who contacts me for a meet as she is not prepared to do the same for me. Am I expecting too much I think i was being fair in passing her detail on but would expect the same from her or am i wrong in this

I welcome your thoughts on this

Lose her, I have a friend in Wolves who I would gladly give any new enquiry her details if they are nearer to her than me BUT its a two way street and she isn't playing fair.

Thank you ladies I was thinking I might be misreading the situation but I am reassured that I am not after your speedy replies it seems daft to bite the hand that feeds you as she does not advertise locally and has very few regulars from years gone by and she has been a sw for 20+ years

Without wanting to sound hard it is every woman for herself in this job. Too many so called friends who turn out to be only interested in themselves and their loyalty is very thin.  I do not pass numbers on to men who ask me if I know someone they can see if I am busy. I am not going to give other wgs the chance to take work away from me.

I will happily do duos with other wgs I know well and generate business for each other that way but I've never been into all this passing other wgs numbers on if I am busy and as far as I know it's not something my duos mates do for me.
I find it cheeky if clients ask me for other ladies numbers as well.These clients are more than able to sort themselves out a plan b or another sex worker to go see and it almost feels like helping to set up a booking for them without the cut an actual madam would get.
I am in no means competitive but I don't expect to get other wgs work and I don't expect them to get work for me.
After all you don't get customers ringing up npower and been given British Gases number if they can't come to a deal with the latter company.
I think in most business the rule of thumb should be don't fuck anyone else over but unless you come to a mutual deal that benefits all parties, just look after your own business.

I will happily do duos with other wgs I know well and generate business for each other that way but I've never been into all this passing other wgs numbers on if I am busy and as far as I know it's not something my duos mates do for me.
I find it cheeky if clients ask me for other ladies numbers as well.These clients are more than able to sort themselves out a plan b or another sex worker to go see and it almost feels like helping to set up a booking for them without the cut an actual madam would get.
I am in no means competitive but I don't expect to get other wgs work and I don't expect them to get work for me.
After all you don't get customers ringing up npower and been given British Gases number if they can't come to a deal with the latter company.
I think in most business the rule of thumb should be don't fuck anyone else over but unless you come to a mutual deal that benefits all parties, just look after your own business.

Same here, its annoying when clients ask if I can 'recommend' or pass on numbers of other escorts. I just say no I'm not an escort agency look on adultworkcom there's hundreds on there to choose from!

I'd cut her loose, it's not my job along side SW to help another SW get leads...

Ok I may be being unfair but i have started to give her the odd one now who is good but give her name to every time waster who contact me and is in my phone but I do not feel bad about it I feel it is Karma but i May just be being a bitch