He said to me something like if you are finding work slow then you could do with an extra 650. I would normally charge 900 for an outcall overnight so I am losing 250.

Red flag right there. If he somehow knows that work is slow and genuinely wants to help you out he would offer MORE than your normal rate, not less.
He is a chancer trying to manipulate you. Very bad sign. Please don't be pushed into doing something you don't want to do. You'll only feel cheated about it later.

Hi Kendall,

Yes I agree with you. He is not the most talkative guy in the world. He said to me something like if you are finding work slow then you could do with an extra 650. I would normally charge 900 for an outcall overnight so I am losing 250. I have done an overnight with him before and he paid me much more than 650 and he also woke me up around 5 in the morning as he felt horny and wanted sex and I felt knackered the next day. I happened to be on tour at the time and I had to spend some of the day sleeping as I was really knackered. He said to me that he knows girls that do an overnight for 650 and thats what he offered me, I said well I dont know any that do it for that and I believe I am worth more.

He sounds like an entitled piece of shit, tell him to take his ?650 and go bore another girl for 15 hours

Quote from: Amy1984 on 02 March 2016, 05:56:44 pm

He said to me something like if you are finding work slow then you could do with an extra 650. I would normally charge 900 for an outcall overnight so I am losing 250.

Red flag right there. If he somehow knows that work is slow and genuinely wants to help you out he would offer MORE than your normal rate, not less.
He is a chancer trying to manipulate you. Very bad sign. Please don't be pushed into doing something you don't want to do. You'll only feel cheated about it later.

Yep my thoughts too.

Quote from: Nova on 02 March 2016, 06:57:29 pm

Red flag right there. If he somehow knows that work is slow and genuinely wants to help you out he would offer MORE than your normal rate, not less.
He is a chancer trying to manipulate you. Very bad sign. Please don't be pushed into doing something you don't want to do. You'll only feel cheated about it later.

Yep my thoughts too.

And mine. I don't do overnights, but regardless of actual figures if somebody decided that he'd offer me a fraction of my usual fee and simultaneously expect me to work more hours for it (and what sort of overnight starts at 5pm and doesn't factor a proper meal in 15 hours?) I wouldn't just be turning him down, I'd be blocking his number.

If there are lots of people happy to do these hours for this rate, I'd very nicely encourage him to book one of them instead. If you really want the money I'd go with the posters who suggested renegotiating the time and leaving at the end of the evening, but watch any drinks you have like a hawk. There was a twat around a few years ago who used to book for 2 or three hours and add extra alcohol to drinks so the women he'd booked couldn't drive back and were stranded (and naturally 'had to' stay over ).

I was surprised yesterday to notice a local agency I worked for 6yrs ago still charging 650 for overnights. They take a cut of ?150 so there are women out there who will work for that & less.

Depends what the guy earns but that is a lot of money when you think about it, 2/3 weeks wages for some people. A week away abroad etc. So he may not think he is taking the piss by undercutting you. 15 hours is too long though. If he's one of those sappy pestering types then there may not be sinister motives behind his price offering & some people don't see anything wrong with negotiating etc. Depends how much you want the money & if you can handle x amount of hours of time with that person.

I did an overnight several years ago & I think we only had sex 3 times over 4 hours or less & that includes the morning after. Most of it was talking so it was easy money but he wanted to stay up all night but I demanded sleep.

I think another thing to take into perspective too is how often do these long booking come around. If you can get your usual rate a couple of times a month or so then that's great.

I was surprised yesterday to notice a local agency I worked for 6yrs ago still charging 650 for overnights. They take a cut of ?150 so there are women out there who will work for that & less.

Depends what the guy earns but that is a lot of money when you think about it, 2/3 weeks wages for some people. A week away abroad etc. So he may not think he is taking the piss by undercutting you. 15 hours is too long though. If he's one of those sappy pestering types then there may not be sinister motives behind his price offering & some people don't see anything wrong with negotiating etc. Depends how much you want the money & if you can handle x amount of hours of time with that person.

I don't think anybody's denying that different people charge different rates, but the point is that even if the OP was charging 300 quid for an overnight, this bloke would be trying to get it for 200.

To not only tell her that he should pay her significantly less than her rate for significantly more hours but that she should think herself lucky to get it makes him the sort of cunt I wouldn't want to spend ten minutes with, let alone 15 hours.

Amy, if you have reached a compromise that you are happy with, that's fine. But please count the money at the start and make sure it's still in your bag when you leave!