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sweetshycanada

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how much to charge for an overnight
« on: 17 November 2016, 03:24:52 pm »
I'm still really new to escorting, about 5 months now, and so far so good but there is a lot I don't know and I don't know any other escorts, so sometimes it's hard.

I've got someone asking about an overnight, but I have no idea what that usually entails or how much to charge. How long is an overnight normally? And is there any actual sleep involved lol? Or is it like 12hrs active play. Additionally it's to be half gfe half serious bdsm with me subbing. In my ads it's theres an extra fee for excessive bruising, which he wants to take advantage of, so I can probably count on not being able to work for a day or two after. My hourly fee is 150 in gbp. Any info suggestions or such are much appreciated :)

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #1 on: 17 November 2016, 03:29:15 pm »
What would you normally expect to earn in one day? I'd charge him for 2 days worth of typical earnings, plus 8x your hourly BDSM rate.
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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #2 on: 17 November 2016, 04:53:56 pm »
I too often wondered about how to arrange an overnighter, from what time till 8/9am etc? I'm considering ?600.

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #3 on: 17 November 2016, 06:15:05 pm »
I do a lot of overnights as I market myself for these and have never really minded them like some do
I charge 800 from 8 til 8am, sleeping between 2-6am usually
For regulars this goes down to 650 and usually go for dinner
It does leave you sleep deprived, you don't really relax like in your own bed, so you need to factor in recovery time
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p.s. it's rare anyone will want to play all night long for 12 hours, they like to think they do but i've never come across any man who can manage it
 but I would make it clear you will need some rest on your ads and mention a sexy wake up call
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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #4 on: 17 November 2016, 06:20:26 pm »
I've taken overnights off for now as don't really have the time for them just now, but I charged ?800 as well usually finishing about 8am or 9am.

Luciexx

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #5 on: 17 November 2016, 08:23:35 pm »
Ver useful information on this useful thread.  Since I don't safer from a boyfriend, I might cope ok its that ... :D

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #6 on: 17 November 2016, 08:40:58 pm »
I won't consider an overnight with anyone I haven't seen before at least once, preferably more.

I wouldn't be able to sleep. Even if he fell asleep, I'm so used to it being just me and the cat in bed that I'd probably keep waking.

That said, i did do an overnight with my boyfriend a couple months ago. I slept fine, but then we had finished about 3 bottles of wine between us :D
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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #7 on: 17 November 2016, 08:56:30 pm »
Lol..... You are getting closer aren't you?  Don't get burned! Unless you don't get attached easily.  Breaking up is hard to do or it gives you some stress for a day or two  :) :)

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #8 on: 17 November 2016, 09:59:15 pm »
Lol..... You are getting closer aren't you?  Don't get burned! Unless you don't get attached easily.  Breaking up is hard to do or it gives you some stress for a day or two  :) :)

Yeah, that night I nearly caught feelings actually. He booked us a room (actually a full on suite) in a really posh hotel, took me to my favourite ever restaurant (which is not his usual style of food at all), fucked me silly, and it was just a perfect, perfect night. We drank wine on the balcony at 10pm with the sun going down over the sea and the local kids playing basketball 6 floors below us. Slept with the doors open all night and the sound of the sea, woke up to beautiful sunshine and a massive hard-on, haha  ;D

The following week I had to give my head a bit of a wobble and remind myself that a) he's not interested in anything serious/long-term, and b) I'm planning to move 250 miles away within the next year.

So enjoy it while it lasts is my motto :)

ANYWAY to get back to thread topic: also consider in your pricing whether you'll feel fit to see clients as normal the following day. I personally can't function on less than 6hrs sleep, so even if you think you'll have a rest from shagging from 2am-6pm, are you really going to be able to take bookings the next day? I couldn't, but young'uns might be able to, at 22 I frequently had ONS and then went to work on 3hrs sleep, god forbid now!
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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #9 on: 17 November 2016, 10:43:18 pm »
That's probably guilt in men deep inside .but he knows your worth.  Women tend to end up falling for a guy whilst they are in FWB Relationship.  Women tend to think there are deeper feelings even  in FWB when it's pure lust.  Men seem to look at FWB as it is.  You are brave. 

If I did my overnighter, I won't be working next day.  Not a problem.   :)

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #10 on: 17 November 2016, 11:52:53 pm »
If he is going to to put you out of actin for a day or two I would put the price up.
No you should tell him you need at least 6 hours of sleep, and it's not all play. just because he pays he has to respect you also.
Over nights are hard work, really I wouldn't do them unless i was with someone i liked and knew well.
Minimum ?1000 if not more.

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #11 on: 18 November 2016, 04:56:46 am »
I charge ?100 per hour, leaving how many hours they would like up to them. The big spenders book from 8pm-8am, including dinner date. I always stress I am more than happy to leave in the early hours for less money though - and I am. At 2am, I find myself staring at the ceiling unable to sleep and badly wanting to get dressed and leave - roads deserted, so no traffic and I can catch up on sleep to follow a normal day of work and play ( with around 800, so no hardship )  :) Rarely get booked though. Most guys book late in the hope I'll be happy to stay anyway.. Not a chance  ;)

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #12 on: 18 November 2016, 11:04:25 am »
I've always wondered what do you girls do with your cash when you do an overnight?
I would be too scared to sleep in case I woke up in the morning to an empty bed and a guy who's done a runner with my cash/belongings.

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #13 on: 18 November 2016, 11:39:23 am »
I've always wondered what do you girls do with your cash when you do an overnight?
I would be too scared to sleep in case I woke up in the morning to an empty bed and a guy who's done a runner with my cash/belongings.

My last one paid the entire fee into my bank account a few days before the booking.

Others have let me use the room safe, or I secrete it in my bag somewhere in obvious. I also take quite a but of personal detail, plus a deposit and wouldn't be afraid to chase up if I had to - yes it's a concern. I've had incall over nights during which the man has been up and down, or going out for a cigarette etc. Very stressful.

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Re: how much to charge for an overnight
« Reply #14 on: 18 November 2016, 12:49:48 pm »
If you haven't met this guy before I would really recommend you take a deposit because you'd be out of pocket if he doesn't show. I've made it a policy of mine that if it's a new client booking 2 hours plus I take a deposit, either in the form of an Amazon voucher or a 1 month subscription to my private gallery which I take off the booking if they have an AW account.

I've definitely had a few timewasters asking for overnights before.
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