First off, don't believe it will actually happen until you have some cash in your hand. How many people pay thousands to spend a long time with someone they've never met and may actually loathe in person?

Second, while what you charge is entirely up to you, if he knows you charge $6k for 14 hours, he would be getting a bargain paying $10k for 36ish hours. Long bookings are haaard work, but if you're happy with $10k, go for it.

When you tell him, ask for a deposit...

First off, don't believe it will actually happen until you have some cash in your hand. How many people pay thousands to spend a long time with someone they've never met and may actually loathe in person?

Second, while what you charge is entirely up to you, if he knows you charge $6k for 14 hours, he would be getting a bargain paying $10k for 36ish hours. Long bookings are haaard work, but if you're happy with $10k, go for it.

When you tell him, ask for a deposit...

Thank You Very much for you Thoughts xw5,

i will have this in mind,
i have to reply his email in a few hours,
i will hold for more opinions, and suggestions on how to deal

And yes its my first time in this sooo long with my client
i feel a bit anccious.
But for the earnings i will do the best i can,
my best efforts to make him have a great time, and myself aswell.


Thank you again xw5,
have a wonderful day

BellaBelle

Quote from: Strawberry on 14 December 2012, 04:11:45 pm

I'm wondering if this is one of those Nigerian scam emails.

Dear Strawberry

i think is not
whilst he contacted me through my site
he set ed an appointment w me through there,
and then we start dealing with the Encounter and hes coming to the country through emails.


Of course if you have some suggestions on dealing with a new client,
first time in my country would be wonderful .

Thank you Strawberry,

Have a wonderful day,

BellaBelle

Yep this is how they work now, they email saying they've seen you on such and such genuine directory, or even book through your own site.

The scam is they'll require a long booking, agree to pay plenty of money but then forward a bankers draft. This draft will be for far more than the actual fee, and they'll ask you to send the difference back.

Or he could be genuine, it was reference to being an engineer and the long booking which had my antennae twitching. He isn't called Henry by any chance?

Get a deposit. He's asking you to dedicate three days (you'll need to catch up on sleep on Monday) so 'obviously' you need a deposit.

Either he'll pay, in which case yippee, or he won't, in which case you can ignore him and he'll move on to the next potential victim.

You could also ask for the online login details for his flight - 'you need to know who he is for security'.

Get a deposit. He's asking you to dedicate three days (you'll need to catch up on sleep on Monday) so 'obviously' you need a deposit.

Either he'll pay, in which case yippee, or he won't, in which case you can ignore him and he'll move on to the next potential victim.

You could also ask for the on line login details for his flight - 'you need to know who he is for security'.

Thank you xw5,

i did sent the email telling the gift fee is for the 10k

now how is the deposit thing?
i dont have a bank account..
and hes coming from new your, as he said.

what do you suggest me?

Thank you vmuch for your reply xw5

Screams of a TW to me also, sorry! I know there are some men who want to book a girl for a weekend without meeting them beforehand, but more often than not it doesn't happen, unless they want to scam you/stand you up/waste your time...

You could get a prepaid credit card for a deposit, it's not clear how much notice you have got (the more notice, the more likely to be a TW I'm guessing! Wank fodder!) but that is an option. I would certainly seek for an immediate deposit of at least 25% in advance, no further communication until that's received.

To be honest if you're having personal problems at home I can only see this ending in tears for you one way or another, I would never entertain such a booking with a regular never mind a new client! Your emotions are going to be pretty fraught and are really such a good actress to get through that length of time?

Dear Diana Thank you for your reply,

You probably are rite.
I just got a en email from him, telling me donation its very high, so hell reconsider may to have less time, i suggest him to go to my site and read about possibilities and each one has its own fee.

Then he told me maybe i could convince him by telling him possibilities to do in that time,
i copy paste some of the info of my site , making a whole package so he could have an idea of possibilities, this never talking about sex, but with activities, like dine, bath tub, etc.


I reply him as he request to quickly as he was gonna leave in a couple of hours.

and at the end, state that he really wanted to meet me, very much in person,

Maybe hes not a false thing?

i have no idea,

anyways,

on the thing that having this situation with my boyf, getting a client after 5 month of non having,
You have rite,
i think ed about it and i could have tears, but i will do my best and i know i will,
cause the thing BoyF made, was like a arrow to the heart, but will make me strong, and be more cold?
I dk,
Maybe taking this client will help me to not think on what he did,
our situation, and focus only to be better on this career i choose as a companion, and get better at it each time i get a client, I'm pretty new to the business, I'm learning still.
and very young as well.


Thank you for your attention Diana,

take care

Love

Bella

OP while you are waiting for this guy to get back to you I would investigate a way of being able to take deposits. 

This guy, will more than likely mess you around if he thinks he can hold off paying you till you meet (if that really is whats going to happen).  Can you not open a bank account or get a friend to take the payment for you in their account (obviously someone who knows what you do and you can totally trust) then at least you can bluff re deposit and if he is not forthcoming at least you are forewarned that he is a timewaster.