Had a couple of experiences on Friday that have led me to wonder how you deal with clients who want to talk 'dirty' to you? Will you let them or not? do you have limits as to what you will let them say to you etc?

I personally can cope with a bit of talk along the 'ooh that feels good' line (even if it makes me cringe inside) but these 2 i saw on Friday really got my back up big style.

First client (half hour through my agency) had seemed perfectly fine up until half way through the appointment when he said to me 'so do you enjoy all the cock you get with this job then?'. Now as he was through my agency and you have to play a bit safe due to the fact they can leave you negative feedback which will then be splashed all over your profile,i replied 'that's a bit of a crude question to ask a lady'. Well he just looked utterly astonished and made 3 references during the remainder of the booking as to the fact i had called him crude.

Second client was an hours private and he started getting on my nerves as soon as we got down to business,using very explicit terminology and generally talking to me like a i was a cheap whore. Then he turned round and asked me 'so how much cock have you had today then?'
Now maybye I'm feeling burnt out at the minute but it really really infuriated me. I told him in no uncertain terms that i didn't  tolerate been spoken to in such a manner and that if he didn't refrain he would have to leave!. Well he was that astonished that he left after another 10 minutes (so i got paid for an hour and only did 20 minutes of the booking)

So what does everyone else think. Am i being over sensitive or have i got every right to object to being spoken to in that way?. I honestly cant stand it,it gets my back up so badly

I really don't know the answer to that one Colette. It gets my back up too, but I only have to tolerate it for an hour.
If it were REALLY offensive stuff, ie peado etc I would put my foot down. But otherwise I see it for what it is, a man who is having sex with a woman who wouldn't look at him twice in other circumstances. So if he feels he is putting himself a cut above by speaking to me in that manner, then I allow him his little fantasy. I draw my satisfaction from counting the money honestly.

I just don't know Cindy,theoretically you are right in saying that's its only for a short time and therefore tolerable but theres just something about being spoken to in that manner that just really sickens me and i cant even put my finger on why. It actually does make me feel cheapened and that's why i just cant tolerate it and I'm not a prude by any means (or clearly i wouldn't be an escort). Maybye its because my agencies rates are low and even lower by the time they've taken their commission off and therefore i just don't feel I'm earning enough money for it to tolerate something that gets to me so badly. Then again i make more money in my private bookings and even then i cant really deal with it. Perhaps i hate the thought that a man thinks me can try and cheapen me just because he has handed over some cash? I do find its only a certain type of man who wants to speak to you like that anyway,generally the type of guy who in real life secretly would like to think all females are cock loving whores.
Its got me somewhat stumped

You are right of course. What WG wouldnt be impressed by the sight of a middle aged willy?!! It isnt nice because you have to go through the pantomime of pretending they are great in bed when you would dearly love to tell them otherwise sometimes. That there is a little more to satisfying a woman than simply unzipping your flys?
Focus on being able to give great christmas gifts or treating your family to a holiday, it should keep things in perspective, I promise!

When they ask how many cocks you've had just say 12, or any random number.  I tell my potty mouthed clients that I hate dirty talk because I'm a woman of action.  A surprising number of them respect this! 

we want nothing more than to have loads of cock all day, because we are all really nymphomaniacs just gaging for their cocks! Ridiculous really, when you think about it, and as Cindy says, we just put up with it and count the money afterwards.
One guy got on my nerves so badly, I popped for my biggest strap on, ordered him on his knees, and started to repeat all the lude stuff he was telling me, whilst making him take it till he gagged.

Dangerous! That girl is so dangerous. Take away his Money throw away his time...  

Maybe because Im a guy, but I find dirty talk to be better than complete silence. But maybe moaning and groaning can be just as good. I've found alot of times dirty talking a guy makes them cum faster....yay! LOL

I thought you meant dirty talking over the phone. Thats just naughty. But dirty talking in person, I usually respond with yeeeah, oh yeaaah. How many? Why do these guys think I see clients every hour in this SHIT town? Chances are they are the first person of the day! (or week)  

I am with Anika. I just let them get on with it. It does not bother me at all. I imagine they can't do it at home so, it's all part of the hour with me for them.

I can not talk dirty to them though. I just can't do it like I mean it! I laugh, I can't say it like they want me to say it so I just tell them I can't do it sorry. I will laugh. It will not work out how you want it to work out!
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I am with Anika. I just let them get on with it. It does not bother me at all. I imagine they can't do it at home so, it's all part of the hour with me for them.

I can not talk dirty to them though. I just can't do it like I mean it! I laugh, I can't say it like they want me to say it so I just tell them I can't do it sorry. I will laugh. It will not work out how you want it to work out!
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Me too. I just have a hard time keeping a straight face when it's done in broad Yorkshire  .

"Laundry basket overflowing" "dusty coffee table" Is that dirty enough talk? Or do I have to leave the vaccuming for a week?!
 
Seriously though, its possible to have a spiel and switch off from it if youve worked on X-rated phone chat.