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nikki74

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how do i find where he advertised me?
« on: 13 January 2012, 03:00:05 pm »
i started working for an escort agency in july,that didnt work out well,i asked to leave and he said i could if i paid him ?650 he had paid out in advertising me everywhere. so like a prat i paid him even tho a lawyer client i had asked said he didnt have a leg to stand on if i didnt pay,but im nice and thought he was out of pocket so i paid up. he handed over all my websites to me and for a few weeks things where fine,but then he took them all back and locked me out telling me i needed to pay him another ?800 to get them back!!!!!!!!!!!!!! not a chance,i got in touch with AW and begged them to take my site down which after i proved who i was and showed them the emails he sent me they took it down but not before he tried to take ?730 off my debit card?????????? lucky i managed to stop him getting the cash,this bloke is never ending on trying to take my AW profile off me he did it not long ago but my tech guy was here and he got it back again just as quick.anyway i no he has a website with just me on it which he states i do everything (and i dont ) but his numbers on the site not mine so he text me asking if i would work for him as hes getting over 10 calls aday for me and that we were both losing out on money? if he takes his number off he wouldnt get any calls at all simple lol. i no i was advertised on a couple of sites and got in touch with them and they did take my profile off once i proved who i was ,simple but now i dont no where else he would of advertised me to see if i can get them to take them down, im only advertised on adultwork with my number and i do ok with just that site but it could be better so i want sum advice on where to advertise and where to look to see if im already on there and i dont no it. so people if you have any ideas please get in touch.

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Re: how do i find where he advertised me?
« Reply #1 on: 13 January 2012, 03:13:22 pm »
try googling you work name, age and area together. on google scrool a bit down and on the left check the option to show only results from last mont or period since he put the advertise. it's should come up clear a few results and if he did put the advertise it has to show.
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Re: how do i find where he advertised me?
« Reply #2 on: 13 January 2012, 03:19:40 pm »
Let me get this bit out of the way first... arrggghhhh!!!!!

One of the many problems in paying fraudsters is that they think 'Ah ha! I'll scam them some more'.

From what I can understand, you have an AW profile working and he has a phone ringing with cheapskates wanting anal for tuppence.  I'd call that a win, even though it's been a very costly one.

Depending on just how he did it, I'd be tempted to call the police about the attempted theft of the money and what's effectively blackmail. What with that and the probable controlling prostitution for gain, he's got a lot of reasons not to want them involved.
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Re: how do i find where he advertised me?
« Reply #3 on: 13 January 2012, 06:32:14 pm »
You can always also search for your images using tineye.

Completely agree with XW5 on the taking you for a mug, unfortunately in life there are people who if they get something from you, will try again for more. Best avoided those types.

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Re: how do i find where he advertised me?
« Reply #4 on: 13 January 2012, 06:48:46 pm »
Let me get this bit out of the way first... arrggghhhh!!!!!

One of the many problems in paying fraudsters is that they think 'Ah ha! I'll scam them some more'.

From what I can understand, you have an AW profile working and he has a phone ringing with cheapskates wanting anal for tuppence.  I'd call that a win, even though it's been a very costly one.

Depending on just how he did it, I'd be tempted to call the police about the attempted theft of the money and what's effectively blackmail. What with that and the probable controlling prostitution for gain, he's got a lot of reasons not to want them involved.

I paid him because he said he had paid a years advertising for me and why shud he be out of pocket,gullible my middle name i know,but when he then told me i could have adult work back for another ?800 or he would leave my profile there and i couldnt open another because he would report me for already haveing one,but because i couldnt work because he had took my number off AW i wasnt getting paid so i couldnt of paid him anyway,but that jus made me angry so i got in touch with AW and after proving who i was they took it down i had loads of feedback and a really good profile going but i started from scratch and now its as good as the old one. but heres where hes such a bastard he sent me an email saying it was from adultwork.com asking me to fill in a review to keep my profile on in 2012,it asked for my username and password that is the only way i can think he managed to take my profile off me again but i had someone here who was quick thinking and got it back and changed all the passwords yet again. All i want is for him to leave me alone i dont know enuff about him to go to the police,everything was done on line but i do know his bank account name and account number!" i paid him 20% of everything i earnt and for what i was answering my own emails aqnd phone, thats why i wanted out of his agency he said i was just a greedy bitch but like i said what does that make him? bastard is the only thing that springs to mind. xx

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Re: how do i find where he advertised me?
« Reply #5 on: 13 January 2012, 07:28:34 pm »
[...] but i do know his bank account name and account number! [...]

This guy has been ripping you off, trying to blackmail you (and scam you) and has been REALLY breaking the law by doing what is called "controlling prostitution for gain" (this is jail-time serious breaking the law stuff, especially now when the media is full of scary stories about pimps and traffickers and whatnot; those stories might not be based on much reality but the fact is it has resulted in a lot of police departments being extra-attentive when it comes to complaints about "controlling prostitution for gain" AKA pimping/finding clients for girls) - so basically, he's a massive stupid criminal.

With his bank details, the police could definitely track him down. It might be worth investigating making a complaint with the police about him. You might want to contact a sex work outreach group near you first, for advice on this sort of situation as you understandably don't want to make yourself vulnerable in any way (although you have NOT broken the law in ANY way by working as an escort).

He sounds horrible. If nothing else, it might be a good idea to post any information (AW nickname, other nicknames, phone number(s) etc) in the Warnings section of this forum. You never know - other girls might know about him. It sounds like he is a practiced predator of naive/new young women.

(Please also make sure you never give out account names or passwords in emails to ANYONE, and don't send money to anyone, either. You never need to do these things for legit people/companies and it's much better to come somewhere like here first and ask for advice from other people who might've been through similar stuff before going ahead with giving passwords and/or money away. We have plenty of time to help! :))

Oh! And regarding your own advertising - head over to the main site here: http://www.saafe.info/ and hover over the "Information for Escorts" menu item to see the list of topics; choose "Where to Advertise" in the Business section to find a huge article written by the famously successful ParisB - it's got tons of great ideas in it! No one directory is perfect for every escort but you can do lots of trial-and-error to find your perfect marketing areas. :D The rest of the main site has loads more info on everything to do with sex work, too, so do browse around whenever you get time.
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Re: how do i find where he advertised me?
« Reply #6 on: 13 January 2012, 07:41:59 pm »
@Emily, the agencies owners are they really persecuted or it is just a dead law?
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Re: how do i find where he advertised me?
« Reply #7 on: 13 January 2012, 09:15:42 pm »
Yes, some get convicted and all their assets seized etc.

Obviously, most do not. Police squads in this area are not big and are usually more concerned with things that generate public complaints, primarily street work and, to a lesser extent, brothels. But those who stand out as a target (big turnover but the tax people have never heard of them and/or illegal staff and/or coming to the attention of the police via another investigation and/or being in the wrong area at the wrong time) tend to get their day in court.

When we get directly elected police chiefs, I'll bet that at least one is going to go on a moral crusade against the evils of prostitution and attempt to go after all the agencies in their area.
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Re: how do i find where he advertised me?
« Reply #8 on: 16 January 2012, 08:41:59 pm »
Tell him to give you your money back or you will report him to
The Department of Homeland security (Europe) 0-11-44-207-894-0007
for raising funds and syphoning them through his bank account to Al Qauda

I didn't say this....(http://serve.mysmiley.net/innocent/innocent0009.gif)


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Re: how do i find where he advertised me?
« Reply #9 on: 17 January 2012, 12:12:02 pm »
thanks jodie that cheered me up no end rofl the blokes not worth the effect and if i think about it the more he screws about with me the more chance hes leaving some young girl alone! i did think about using the ?800 he wants to hire a private detective to find he and make his life miserable the way hes made mine but hes not worth the effort and i will keep my ?800 to pay my bills instead  ;D
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Re: how do i find where he advertised me?
« Reply #10 on: 31 January 2012, 05:27:28 pm »
 
Can you Pm me Nikki, who is this Agency Owner and what is his Agency called? Thanks