Hi there everyone
I don't whether this post will be appreciated or not by all of you because I'm not an escort but I felt I had to post this!
So I came accross this forum by accident when I was casually browsing the internet looking for information about becoming a male escort. There are a couple of things I want to mention.
Firstly, believe it or not, I have a business I'm working for a good friend and now starting to take over and run in the Nottingham area. The business involves basically taking shy, somewhat socially uncalibrated and introverted people out into bars or perhaps sometimes fun guys that want more choice in their life and helping them to meet and date woman. also a few techniques (not pickup lines) and a bit of social science as to how to make things work in your favour. It gets quite in depth I don't want to bore you all with the details, at least yet anyway.
I have my female friends come out with me sometimes and 'pivot' for me. This basically means to talk to the guy and be nice if he's getting nervous or anxious and putting him at ease. It also means socialising with their friends and perhaps.... making him look better to the other girls (C'mon girls you know thats seeing a guy with attractive girls around him sparks your interest perhaps a little bit). Basically, if you've you've ever heard of a wingman, we require a wingwoman.
The reason I mention this here is, I have to say that I am really impressed by the quality of woman on here. As in, the stereotypical image of an escort isn't usually brillitant. However, looking on this website, I'm finding that a lot of you guys come accross as very self confident and empowered whilst also open minded and accepting.
I think that woman get a really hard time in society. A confident woman who enjoys sex and exercises choice and power over her life somehow has no self respect!?!?!?!? I meet and date a lot of woman in my line of work (perk of the job
) and I find that a lot of outwardly confident, sometimes snooty, woman deep down are confused and very insecure. They sometimes feel guilt for desiring sex which seems crazy to me as it's one of the most natural things somebody can want.
Woman are actually very sexual beings but i feel sorry for them because they are often respressed and ostrasized by society. Bombarded my media telling them they should be size zero, wear the best clothes act in certain ways before they can feel good about themselves.
The only acceptable way in society sometimes for a woman to enjoy regular sex is to be a contract whore..... i.e. a wife. I'm not saying I have any disrespect for long term relationships but I just don't think people get into them for the right reasons.
As for you guys, you're happy with your sexuality, and are happy and comfortable with the fact that you enjoy sex. Also getting paid for it?? To me that shows that you hold yourself in high respect and also follow life by your own rules without letting outdated social models dictate to you what and what isn't acceptable. I have a philosophy about this and the history of why things are like this but I won't go into them now
.
Anyway I just wanted to say that it's really refreshing to be seeng this, I wish there were more self empowered girls like you guys in the bars where I live. I sometimes feel like I'm on a personal crusade for the sexual liberation of woman sometimes.
Anyway back to my original point, I am looking for girls to perhaps work for me in the future. It probably won't pay as greatly as what you get payed now (I have only vague ideas on pay rates for escorts) but it certainly would be a fair bit considering all you're going to do is go to bars and have fun with me and help a few nice guys get dates and improve their love lives here and there. Full training on the theory behind what we teach and the social dynamics of whats happening and how to be a pivot would be provided.
I hope you all don't mind that I'm posting on here considering I'm not an escort. From what I understand it's near impossible for a guy to become one right???
Let me know if any of you live around the midlands area and would possibly be interested in working for us in the future (I know this sounds like a crazy job but trust me it's for real).
If you are interested, I'm looking for attractive girls that are confident, kind, understanding, fun, intelligent and also needing to have a certain degree of social intuition to hold court in social situations. Being able to make other girls a little bit jealous is always a plus too
. I'm sure you deal with 'wierd' people sometimes in your lines of work so I doubt the decent people skills thing will apply to you.