But the only thing I'm scared that if I work and live in the same place is if a malicious guy who has bad intentions would "force"me to show him around to steal stuff or something like that.
I think this is a pretty ridiculous thing to be worrying about given it is highly unlikely to happen - if you’re hosting incalls, it is your responsibility to take control the moment a client steps foot into your space. If a client tries this, assert yourself and say no before showing the client door. You don’t even need to make a big deal out of it, just say those rooms are of no interest before grabbing his hand and taking him to the room you’re working from.
I'll rethink about providing outcalls but to hotels only
When I first started doing outcalls, I did visit client’s houses but the lack of security in terms of CCTV footage of me being there really bothered me. Also, I just never felt I was totally in control given I was on the client’s territory. Once I decided only to make outcalls to central London hotels, I’ve felt much happier. Firstly, all clients must give their real names and provide a copy of the hotel reservation. I always insist we meet in the bar, restaurant or other public space as I know this was be caught on CCTV so should anything happen, there will be a record that that particular person was the last person I was seen with.
I know this isn’t 100% but in my experience, particularly since I only see clients who contact me via my website, I’ve had pretty much zero issue with outcalls to hotels or clients for that matter. None of my clients have posed any issues whatsoever and I rarely even used to check here or CE for reports as they’re so willing to ensure I’m comfortable in seeing them that they provide whatever screening information I need.
Lastly, and not se work related, but using Deliveroo to order supermarket shopping is stupid, just go the supermarket yourself or else order directly from the supermarket online!
PS. Feel free to drop me a line anytime if you’re feeling a bit overwhelmed by it all