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Sensualtouch

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« on: 01 March 2012, 06:35:15 pm »
I have recently starting working as a masseuse I usually book hotel rooms. However from time to time I will work from home. It would appear a very nosey neighbour has reported me and I was visited by the police. Surely what I do in the confines of my home is my business?
Visit really shock me up and don't feel I can do anything from home? Anyone else experienced this?

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« Reply #1 on: 01 March 2012, 07:43:47 pm »
I was visited by the police. Surely what I do in the confines of my home is my business?

When the Police called didn't they confirm it for you...?

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Sensualtouch

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« Reply #2 on: 01 March 2012, 09:54:27 pm »
Well indeed the police said what I do in my own home is my business but as children live in my close t least someone as brought this up they had to come and see me. I pointed out that I don't often work from home and I only see business gents who park outside my house wear a suit and come into my house. What that has got to do with a child who is at school.
Furthermore I said whispering and ideal gossip should be taken in hand as whoever made the complaint has assumed me to be doing things I am not!

The police basically said they will do nothing nothing as basically they can't. I said I would make a complaint about my neighbours opposite if they didn't stop monitoring me 24/7 that I felt the guy was a pervert and as a single girl I felt very  uncomfortable about his constant stalking if me or anyone who comes to the house.

Oooo I'm fuming really and just need to calm down.

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« Reply #3 on: 01 March 2012, 10:32:20 pm »
Bet you are.  Ah I feel for you.  I can't work from home for this very reason! Have snuck a few clients in over time but a neighbour from hell who is hated by most and opens his door when visitors arrive and lurks about lives underneath me.  I was even waiting outside for a friend to arrive once and he was too! I hope you don't feel too awkward living where you do now.  My escort friend has an Eastern european couple living across the road from her and the cheeky wife said 'I notice that there are a quite a lot of gentlemen coming to your home'.  Ironically she even had to give up her working flat due to the recession and less work and moved her kitchen and created an extra bedroom downstairs solely for work then this happens and now she has to move now anyway as she can't afford to live there. Hold your head up high and do what you feel necessary in retribution to these people x

Sensualtouch

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« Reply #4 on: 01 March 2012, 10:52:46 pm »
Thank you so much for your kind words. I will remain defiant

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« Reply #5 on: 01 March 2012, 11:58:52 pm »
Get some sort of massage certification (there's one week massage courses were you can get a diploma). Pin it in the wall of your treatment room. Next time you get a visit from the police show them your treatment room with the massage table and tell them you're a masseuse. End off.

It really pisses me off how some people scream" children!" as an excuse for their own issues. Like children give a s---t if  a guy enters or exits your apartment.
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« Reply #6 on: 02 March 2012, 12:09:15 am »
That is awful!
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« Reply #7 on: 02 March 2012, 02:01:59 am »
I wouldn't mind but the nosey f**ker has been seen by all my friends and family watching me but because he (im 99% sure it him) called the police it would look like I was getting back at him by going to police. I did however tell police of his behaviour and asked for it to be put on record. He does have form as has called police twice to report well behaved kids innocently playing on the street.

 When I started out I tried being a fs escort and did so for about 9 months I had created aw profile. I had not used it since  spring last yr as wanted to just do massage. I had not logged on to that profile since then and my profile had gone dormant.  I 90% of the time based myself out of hotels as well. Yet police had printout of this old profile saying I was still using. Told them it was clear this profile wasn't being used look at dates! I know the truth here  I have since this evening gone mental with aw and mentioned the police and now profile has finally been deleted.
Police say I should keep blinds down in house and not use my house if I can help it. Plus other stuff like making sure I'm registered for working as a masseuse with hmrc. They said will do no more but had to come and see me.I'm angry, mad and upset. I think I need to chill on Friday  and take deep breaths .

But thanks everyone for your support and kind words. Xxx

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« Reply #8 on: 02 March 2012, 03:23:19 pm »
Bless you.  I can't believe the audacity of that pathetic creep neighbour he sounds just like mine! and as for getting your profile from AW how did the police or was it the neighbour know it was you? Thats awful!  Plus all the pep talk from them.  No wonder you're livid. Just try and kick back with friends/family who truly care for you and will take your mind off things this weekend and do nice stuff to make you feel happy and better.  That sod across the road will get his come-uppance! I more than most can truly empathise with your situation. Chin up and keep smiling hun  :) :) xx

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« Reply #9 on: 02 March 2012, 07:10:06 pm »
Do you I have no idea I mean I had not logged onto the profile since may last year and I'd hidden it in some backwater area of the uk. I mean my profile had no face pics at all. I have 2 theories one being I don't know of any other profiles in my town however I think my second theory is more than likely to be how there found out. You can pm me for more info.

Needless to say I will be very wary of people going forward.  It's very sad if that's how people get their kicks. So now it's kick back pamper time for me and a weekend off to chill before Monday.

Thanks everyone for all your kind words it's much appreciated. xxx

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« Reply #10 on: 02 March 2012, 07:39:15 pm »
Me thinks your creepy neighbour was the one who reported your AW profile. Sounds like he  doesn't have much of a life and spends too many hours time looking at AW. Otherwise it makes no sense that the police would come up with THAT.
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