Author Topic: Has anyone ever left for a client? (Read 6812 times)

barbiegirl · « **on:** 10 February 2020, 02:43:53 am »

I’ve just had a client give me a figure for the year to not work. I don’t have to live with him or have a romantic relationship with him. It’s literally come out of no where, I’ve basically retired

it sounds so crazy but he’s put his money where his mouth is every time.

Has anyone else started exclusive arrangements with clients?

Philipa · « **Reply #1 on:** 10 February 2020, 08:49:06 am »

How do you feel about entering into an exclusive arrangement with this client?

If you trust him; he is true to his word and you are both on the same page- then go for it! Clearly he enjoys providing for you, it is not crazy at all.

Have you spoken to him about his expectations from the arrangement? He says that he doesn’t expect you to live with him or be in a relationship...but are you allowed to date other men?

I’ve not had an exclusive arrangement with a client so I can’t tell you from my experience. One of my clients was in an arrangement with an escort from another country. For 2 years, he paid her an allowance but rarely got to see her. Also she didn’t want to be seen with him because of their age gap. Whilst he was happy she didn’t need to work, he often felt jealous she was seeing other men in her own country. It also got complicated because he developed real feelings for her. He didn’t communicate his expectations clearly.

ana30 · « **Reply #2 on:** 10 February 2020, 09:34:39 am »

Quote from: barbiegirl on 10 February 2020, 02:43:53 am

I’ve just had a client give me a figure for the year to not work. I don’t have to live with him or have a romantic relationship with him. It’s literally come out of no where, I’ve basically retired it sounds so crazy but he’s put his money where his mouth is every time.

Has anyone else started exclusive arrangements with clients?

He has feelings for you (otherwise why would he make you exclusive to him?) but "he doesn't expect you to get into a romantic relationship". Yeah right

If I were you I would continue seeing your regulars behind his back because a) this relationship doesn't sound like it may last very long as he's not telling you the whole truth b) He's not being fully honest, why should you?

saltysweet · « **Reply #3 on:** 10 February 2020, 09:37:21 am »

I tend to think this kind of proposal is a poisoned cup, it sounds fabulous but there's payback somewhere along the line.
It's easy for people to say the right words in the right order to make us feel comfortable. That's the bait.

No such thing as a free lunch.

Georgina Symonds thought she could walk away from her sugar daddy arrangement any time.
Christina Abbotts was paid £3,500 per sugaring gig from AW.
Didn't work out the way they planned.

barbiegirl · « **Reply #4 on:** 10 February 2020, 07:39:27 pm »

Quote from: Ana30 on 10 February 2020, 09:34:39 am

He has feelings for you (otherwise why would he make you exclusive to him?) but "he doesn't expect you to get into a romantic relationship". Yeah right If I were you I would continue seeing your regulars behind his back because a) this relationship doesn't sound like it may last very long as he's not telling you the whole truth b) He's not being fully honest, why should you?

Hey you’re absolutely right! Haven’t really gone into much detail, but of course he likes me, why on earth would someone throw a ridiculous amount of money at a prostitute to stop her from working? But I’ve clarified I don’t want any romance.

I am tempted to do what you suggested to be honest haha

barbiegirl · « **Reply #5 on:** 10 February 2020, 07:43:39 pm »

Quote from: Philipa on 10 February 2020, 08:49:06 am

How do you feel about entering into an exclusive arrangement with this client?

If you trust him; he is true to his word and you are both on the same page- then go for it! Clearly he enjoys providing for you, it is not crazy at all.

I actually feel quite positive about it, I wouldn’t do this with any client. I need to be able to get on with them and not look weird with them out in public. He’s in his 40s and is very handsome, does not do drugs or smoke so he looks well.

It’s taken a while for me to trust him, but he’s stayed true to his word every time! This has developed over a month so I feel secure and know what to expect

barbiegirl · « **Reply #6 on:** 10 February 2020, 07:46:33 pm »

Quote from: saltysweet on 10 February 2020, 09:37:21 am

Georgina Symonds thought she could walk away from her sugar daddy arrangement any time.
Christina Abbotts was paid £3,500 per sugaring gig from AW.
Didn't work out the way they planned.

I think you’re right about the payback thing. But it’s an offer I really can’t refuse it, and why not if it’s worth it in the end? Getting paid to sit on your ass isn’t bad

I’ve never heard of that, who are they? X

Philippa Joyce · « **Reply #7 on:** 10 February 2020, 10:12:40 pm »

I'm jealous, wish one of my punters would do that for me lol

northernstar · « **Reply #8 on:** 10 February 2020, 11:18:02 pm »

Never do any of that shit, not for client not for civiie!!!

Justine · « **Reply #9 on:** 10 February 2020, 11:42:41 pm »

These arrangements intrigue me. If they work and suit others then ok and I assume each one can be different to the next but I do wonder how things are agreed on. Sex once a day or on tap whenever he wants. Quickies or long exhausting sessions?

What I do know is I would run a mile (no make that 10) from this type of set up. I like this work because I have the variety of men. Sticking with just one sounds like hell to me.

JellyBean · « **Reply #10 on:** 10 February 2020, 11:51:54 pm »

Barbie

I would need to know what he expects from me, ie how many times would you need to see him weekly , for how long it is he going to pop round to yours as and when.

I did sugar daddies once out of boredom and met a nice old man and he gave me 5k every meet but that’s the only time we met, he didn’t know where I lived and I soon got bored of it...

Do you feel attracted to him at all?

Thou saying all of that I do think it’s a good arrangement and if it’s life changing even better😋

Re- Georgina Symonds and Christina Abbots - Google them adding escort.

barbiegirl · « **Reply #11 on:** 11 February 2020, 12:44:32 am »

Quote from: Justine on 10 February 2020, 11:42:41 pm

Sex once a day or on tap whenever he wants. Quickies or long exhausting sessions?

Omg I run a mile...no thank you! He’s a busy man so don’t see him a lot and when we do it’s more spending time together.

barbiegirl · « **Reply #12 on:** 11 February 2020, 12:48:12 am »

Quote from: JellyBean on 10 February 2020, 11:51:54 pm

Do you feel attracted to him at all?

Yes he’s quite handsome and looks great for his age

Jackiela · « **Reply #13 on:** 11 February 2020, 06:42:50 am »

Morning all if it's for a year have a break go for it my warning is please do not get emotionally attached to him because things can really turn nasty and you will regret it .Put him on
A friend zone not a lover and make sure he is aware of this
Because there is nothing as sweet as freedom no matter what

ana30 · « **Reply #14 on:** 11 February 2020, 09:22:15 am »

Quote from: barbiegirl on 10 February 2020, 07:39:27 pm

Hey you’re absolutely right! Haven’t really gone into much detail, but of course he likes me, why on earth would someone throw a ridiculous amount of money at a prostitute to stop her from working? But I’ve clarified I don’t want any romance.

I am tempted to do what you suggested to be honest haha

You are proving to be very naive barbie (with all my respects). He's throwing a ridiculous amount of money so he can control you, right now you seeing other guys and getting paid by them he has no control over you. Once you're financially dependent on this man he'll be able to have the control he craves over you. He has feelings for you, hence the reason, as you said "why on earth would someone throw a ridiculous amount of money at a prostitute to stop her from working? ". Once he manages to isolate you and financially control you (which is what he's after) if you don't show him head over heels lovey dovey signs of being romantically involved with him after all the money he's spent on you he will become angry and manipulative. He's buying you. There's nothing such as a "free lunch" in this world. Eventually You won't like being with such a control freak and will run away back to escorting after having lost all your regulars. Then you'll have to start from scratch again.

(I don't know of a single happy ending to a sugar daddy story)

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