I had a guy book in, waffled on a bit with several sentences about wanting a nice satisfying booking, oral, boob play and mentioned about a nice natural experience plus is my fee all inclusive etc.
Did not think much of it until in the booking i get the condom for sex and he said oh i mentioned the natural experience in my message can we do that or do you not like me enough for that?
I said i had no idea you wanted bareback/ unprotected intercourse, if i had known that was your meaning i would have told you it's a big fat NO as not something i offer. He was polite and no problem as a client he never pushed it but obviously a bit of a shock he said he booked a woman previously that does it and uses that phrase and i also remember about 6 weeks ago getting a email from somebody else saying he was divorced looking for a regular woman who likes what he likes and he too mentioned about a " proper natural experience" i ignored him anyway as he seemed annoying i thought he came across as a boundary pusher but it makes me think this is a phrase being used by some clients and some sex workers.
Has anyone else come across this phrase of "natural" rather then them just saying i want bareback?
Wanting to warn other sex workers incase this phrase is becoming a normal word for bareback and the worry if somebody thinks they are getting this service and without notice they just put themselves inside you thinking it's perfectly ok.
The guy who booked me said sorry must be a misunderstanding and like i said he was not horrible or rude and he behaved in the booking but it has made me realise how careful i need to be and maybe other workers if some men not saying unprotected intercourse or bareback and will try to guilt trip any vulnerable women into doing it as they already paid and are both naked in the booking and they are made to feel it's there mistake so just do it to get the client out with no argument happening.