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English Green

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I had a guy book in, waffled on a bit with several sentences about wanting a nice satisfying booking, oral, boob play and mentioned about a nice natural experience plus is my fee all inclusive etc.

Did not think much of it until in the booking i get the condom for sex and he said oh i mentioned the natural experience in my message can we do that or do you not like me enough for that?

I said i had no idea you wanted bareback/ unprotected intercourse, if i had known that was your meaning i would have told you it's a big fat NO as not something i offer. He was polite and no problem as a client he never pushed it but obviously a bit of a shock he said he booked a woman previously that does it and uses that phrase and i also remember about 6 weeks ago getting a email from somebody else saying he was divorced looking for a regular woman who likes what he likes and he too mentioned about a " proper natural experience" i ignored him anyway as he seemed annoying i thought he came across as a boundary pusher but it makes me think this is a phrase being used by some clients and some sex workers.

Has anyone else come across this phrase of "natural" rather then them just saying i want bareback?

Wanting to warn other sex workers incase this phrase is becoming a normal word for bareback and the worry if somebody thinks they are getting this service and without notice they just put themselves inside you thinking it's perfectly ok.

The guy who booked me said sorry must be a misunderstanding and like i said he was not horrible or rude and he behaved in the booking but it has made me realise how careful i need to be and maybe other workers if some men not saying unprotected intercourse or bareback and will try to guilt trip any vulnerable women into doing it as they already paid and are both naked in  the booking and they are made to feel it's there mistake so just do it to get the client out with no argument happening.




 

thickthighs

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Re: Has anybody had clients disguising bareback with other terms?
« Reply #1 on: 14 June 2022, 05:23:23 pm »
I’ve seen it quite often lately in reverse bookings referred to as a natural experience. Glad it didn’t turn nasty,  but still very deceitful for the reasons you mentioned.

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Re: Has anybody had clients disguising bareback with other terms?
« Reply #2 on: 14 June 2022, 05:49:31 pm »
Yes I have encountered this term, and I call it out when I do. I explain I do not want to see him, cannot accept his booking because he is asking for unprotected intercourse. Too big a risk.

English Green

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Re: Has anybody had clients disguising bareback with other terms?
« Reply #3 on: 14 June 2022, 05:53:43 pm »
Yes I have encountered this term, and I call it out when I do. I explain I do not want to see him, cannot accept his booking because he is asking for unprotected intercourse. Too big a risk.

At the time i thought he meant a relaxed down to earth experience as it never stood out to me in between his other waffling. He said he only used the term because he says sex workers are using it and thought it was how we liked it said. There might be some truth in this as a previous email worded it the same.

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Re: Has anybody had clients disguising bareback with other terms?
« Reply #4 on: 14 June 2022, 06:06:56 pm »
I have come across this term before and it's an immediate block - I have also seen guys making a point of saying 'I'm Clean' instead of saying they are after bareback

thickthighs

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Re: Has anybody had clients disguising bareback with other terms?
« Reply #5 on: 14 June 2022, 06:26:40 pm »
I’m clean or I’m married  :FF

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Re: Has anybody had clients disguising bareback with other terms?
« Reply #6 on: 14 June 2022, 06:50:51 pm »
Yes, I'm aware of natural as a euphemism for bareback, ditto 'raw'.
"There is no sin except stupidity" - Oscar Wilde

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Re: Has anybody had clients disguising bareback with other terms?
« Reply #7 on: 14 June 2022, 06:51:57 pm »
Yes, 'natural' used for a few years  in clients ads for reverse bookings in aw. I read them for a laff  ;)

Also naural is used in peasky aw unsolicited emails from tosspots..

Aw was originally created as a specialised bareback directory. The other various sexual services just hid that.... a bit like camaflauge.

« Last Edit: 15 June 2022, 11:56:41 am by saltysweet »

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Re: Has anybody had clients disguising bareback with other terms?
« Reply #8 on: 14 June 2022, 08:40:10 pm »
Was this guy who tht email from Leicester ??

English Green

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Re: Has anybody had clients disguising bareback with other terms?
« Reply #9 on: 14 June 2022, 09:15:10 pm »
Was this guy who tht email from Leicester ??

The guy that emailed 6 weeks before cannot remember the location but possibly East or West Midlands but i never saw him or was interested in his message about being divorced etc.  Lol

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Re: Has anybody had clients disguising bareback with other terms?
« Reply #10 on: 14 June 2022, 09:26:45 pm »
The guy that emailed 6 weeks before cannot remember the location but possibly East or West Midlands but i never saw him or was interested in his message about being divorced etc.  Lol
I think he’s the one as he used the same phase “ natural “ I thought it was weird and I never replied back

English Green

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Re: Has anybody had clients disguising bareback with other terms?
« Reply #11 on: 14 June 2022, 10:21:26 pm »
I think he’s the one as he used the same phase “ natural “ I thought it was weird and I never replied back

Yes least i will not be caught out by anybody else saying " natural experience" or " natural service"

Maybe some women are using it as code words but surely easier to say i offer bareback or unprotected intercourse.

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Re: Has anybody had clients disguising bareback with other terms?
« Reply #12 on: 15 June 2022, 06:43:25 am »
Not happened to me in a booking but I said no to one guy that gave me the creeps on the phone, he was asking for a natural experience including bare legs. I'd not heard the term before but my gut was telling me no. When I checked the app after putting phone down he had a number of warnings for either asking for BB or stealthing 😖

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Re: Has anybody had clients disguising bareback with other terms?
« Reply #13 on: 15 June 2022, 10:37:41 am »
I know this term but never had anybody mentioning that in order to get bareback sex (as far as I remember). I know some clients also use the term "natural blowjob" for OWO.
 
However, I've had the usual "are you clean?" or also someone asked me if I could provide a recent STI test and in both cases I didn't follow up as these could be terms that are hiding a bareback intention.
« Last Edit: 15 June 2022, 10:39:55 am by Ana66 »

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Re: Has anybody had clients disguising bareback with other terms?
« Reply #14 on: 15 June 2022, 11:17:41 am »
Yes, I’ve heard about this being used as code for unprotected penetration. A ‘real’ or ‘true’ GFE can also be used similarly.

I actually use the word ‘natural’ on my website. This thread has prompted me to remove it.

Recently I have had a few ask about how often I get tested etc during their initial enquiry. I decline these outright as I am certain they’re only asking because there’s a huge probability they will either tamper with the condom or remove it completely.