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The Bachelor

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Anyone had this before? I met a client last night who seemingly a really nice guy. It came about as I asked him if there was anyone in the area he seen regularly (I was actually referring to escorts). He then mentioned that he doesn't and that he has to hire because no one is willing to see him because "he's too old and ugly". He then started to breakdown...and I then re-stated that I was actually referring to whether he'd had any other escorts he seen regularly (I was visiting and asked because there seems very few guys in the area). He then gave another shocker:An escort was over at his place earlier and he walked out on him!

At that point I literally almost cried myself but had to be strong enough to steer the conversation and get his mind off of it and back on me...which I did. In the end he felt good talking about it with me. It was like thrapy/escort session.

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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #1 on: 07 March 2013, 02:02:52 am »
I had a guy once who was a real nightmare to deal with for the best part of his booked time, really difficult to communicate with and frankly quite rough as well. When eventually and much to my relief I managed to make him come, he asked if he could give me a hug, I let him. He then started crying, whilst "spooning" me, and said something along the lines of "this is what I really miss, I'm so lonely". I obviously did not expect that, and almost started crying myself, which is very unusual for me! It all lasted perhaps a couple of minutes, he then apologised, thanked me for a lovely time, got dressed and left.

On a couple of occasions I have seen punters come close to crying when they talked about their deceased relatives/children/wives, but they always composed themselves promptly and switched their attention to other activities...
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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #2 on: 07 March 2013, 02:20:11 am »
I was once giving a guy a deep tissue massage to a client. He looked very stressed out when he arrived and half way though it  he started sobbing and crying  like a baby. He told me he was going through a lot of shit at work and was in the middle of a divorce (kids included). He said he had been holding sooo much stuff inside that now as he started to relax for the first time in months all the "bottled up stuff"just came out. It was very "cathartic"  but I felt so bad for him. Nice chap but never saw him again.
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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #3 on: 07 March 2013, 03:28:45 am »
Didnt it make you feel weird those times? Like wait a minute...I'm actually feeling emotion, something that sadly many clients believe we don't possess for them (reading a client forum lately). Like even though it is a business transaction doesn't mean I don't have any feelings. I guess what really touched me is he said he HAS to hire. It almost had me torn in 2. Like will he feel remorse or backlash for hiring me? And I think him being honest saying that kind of let me know that perhaps clients ARE NOT HAPPY hiring escorts and made me feel bad for being an escort while feeling bad for him.

Now get this, you're going to fall off your seat: When we went into his bedroom, he had about 10 smaller photos of himself surrounding a large photo of himself dressed in lawyer atire. I just couldn't stop staring. The guy used to be DAMN HANDSOME. Like...gorgeous. He said that was him 10 years ago.

Whenever I see stuff like that, I feel a little sympathy for the porn actors and escorts who kill themselves after a certain age. Maybe they are afraid of becoming old  :-\ We often see clients when they are fat or old, many of them were studs back in the day. (with the exception of elderly hotties and middle aged hunks we get from time to time)

Oh and here's the next kicker: he wants me to move in with him....SERIOUSLY. Like stop paying rent, move in and be taken care of. I'm tempted...I'm tired of paying rent  :(
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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #4 on: 07 March 2013, 07:34:23 am »
I had a regular a few weeks back who broke down in tears as his marriage was falling apart (which is why he'd been seeing me the past 6 months).  I really felt for him as they've not been married long and have a young child.  All I could do was hold him while he got it out of his system.  He usually contacts me every week to see if I'm free, but since then I've not heard from him.  Hopefully he's trying to sort it out, and if I don't see him again then it's going well for him. 
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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #5 on: 07 March 2013, 10:43:12 am »
I had a client burst out crying when his company credit card wouldn't work when paying after a meal we had together! It was so embarrassing! He was obviously really stressed and we managed to sort it all out and have a good time after, but I cringe every time I think about it.

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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #6 on: 11 March 2013, 08:34:12 pm »

I had a client cry when he fell off my bed and landed on the heel of my shoe. I felt awful. Like Coty I cringe every time I think of it. I felt awful! I laughed initally as well.

Other then that i've usually been the one crying. I once cried because a client wanted to cuddle me when he fell asleep. I was newly single. He felt so bad. Turned into a wine filled therapy session! I felt better after though haha! Ans then did some retail therapy when i left in the morning!  ;D

It is nice to get it all out and especially to strangers so I suppose its a compliment if they cry while with you. You've made them feel comfortable..  :)


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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #7 on: 11 March 2013, 08:40:22 pm »
I had a client burst out crying when his company credit card wouldn't work when paying after a meal we had together! It was so embarrassing! He was obviously really stressed and we managed to sort it all out and have a good time after, but I cringe every time I think about it.

Ugh...I had a client have that happen to 'us' when after the appointment he took me TV and microwave shopping :) He belonged to a small local bank and they thought it was 'fraud' since he was making a large purchase out of town at a popular retailer. I've had my credit card not allow me to make gas purchases out of state too if I used it more than twice a day.

I see alot of guys paying for stuff using credit cards, even in my personal life. I really don't get it. I have a credit card again now and I just hate carrying a balance on it, pay it off...and then have to come up with money again for it which I have trouble getting in the first place.

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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #8 on: 11 March 2013, 08:42:28 pm »

I had a client cry when he fell off my bed and landed on the heel of my shoe. I felt awful. Like Coty I cringe every time I think of it. I felt awful! I laughed initally as well.

oh dear, please don't hate me but this story actually made me cry with laughter. *goes off to sit in 'twisted bastards' corner*

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« Reply #9 on: 11 March 2013, 08:53:10 pm »
Haha! I laughed too when it happened. Continued when his little face looked up in horror and his quivering lip. The poor sod just layed on the floor with my shoe implanted in him. I felt awful. He even gave me money because he squashed them.

...yeah, I didnt see him again. Probably best for his health and pride  :-[

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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #10 on: 11 March 2013, 09:01:36 pm »
I havent actually had a client cry on me yet, but I had a guy not so long ago (quite a handsome chap) book me for two hours. The initial chat starts. Go to kiss him etc, and he stops me. I then had to "counsell" him for the next two hours regarding him paying for escorts and how he wasted over ?15000 a year on them in London. So my time was spent just lying on his bed with him talking! I offered my services, but he wasnt interested and just wanted some company for two hours.

Another guy I had the other week told me about how his sex life dried up since the birth of his kids. And wanted me to spend the majority of my time tickling his back.

I have yet to have a guy cry on me!

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« Reply #11 on: 13 March 2013, 10:22:32 pm »
I had to register to confess my scenario.

I had this guy who turned up and was seriously anxious. It was his first time with a WG and I did all I could to make him feel less nervous....offering a drink and talking etc. He started to panic and said what if his wife called my number, so explained that if a female calls my number then say this is my husbands phone. He spent 20 minutes trying to excuse cheating on his wife and was shaking like a leaf the whole time. I told him to go and we would just leave it like that, but he said no. He started to play with my tits and after a few minutes I asked if I could do things to him. He dropped his trousers and got out his erect cock, I dropped to my knees and literally just teasingly flicked the tip of his cock with my tongue and he came!!!!!! And then he started crying and cried for a good 20 minutes saying how he was a religious man and how God was going to punish him.....at which point I thought, I am screwed and going straight to hell. When he finally stopped crying I advised him to leave but had visions of him either committing suicide or getting his religious clan to chant outside my house  and tease the devil out of me.

He has tried booking me twice since then but bottles it every time. I have to admit the punt made me feel like shit and couldn't work any more that day. :D 

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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #12 on: 15 March 2013, 03:50:37 pm »
I had one where a regular booked me, then had a mini breakdown... the booking over ran and I felt to guilty to ask him to leave... in the end he only left because I had literally got dressed, had flat keys in my hand, and my b/f called and said he was coming up.

On one hand I felt really bad for him, but on the other, he used up my time and totally over stayed which he did not pay for, but how do you ask someone to leave when they are sobbing??

Not good...

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« Reply #13 on: 27 April 2016, 01:20:32 am »
omg yes! had the weirdest booking ever...

A guy booked me because he wanted to watch me fucking another a guy...a guy he choose from viva street. Got to the hotel & ask for the room number but seemed to be a bit reluctant and told me to go to the first floor... so i did.. felt so awkward just hovering around near the lifts for a good few minutes then a guy stuck his head out of the door and called for me to come in.
He was very nervous and so was I (which is unusual for me) he offered me a drink which I gladly took, he wanted to pretend to be my boyfriend & pretend to cry whilst I was being fucked...
so this guy he contacted arrived, older guy in his 60s - really friendly.. spent ages talking about the weather..very nervous... obviously never done anything like this before...so had to guide him to take his clothes off..  I literally had to do everything, gave him oral, on top doing all the work... it was like shagging a dead fish... getting really frustrated cas this guy is technically getting sex for free, he has no idea I'm an escort but 99% of my punters are a better shag than him and THEY PAY ME!
So I'm shagging a dead fish, whilst this other guy is sat in a chair at the other side of the room crying.
He's booked me for 1.5 hours, the guy finishes in about 20 mins if that?! then he leaves, I ask the punter if he wants anything as we still had an hour left, he just wanted to chat about how guilty he felt, that he made me shag an old man and that he has a wife and children, then he cried (for real) ...an hour went back... we kissed... he cried some more... he paid me for another 30 mins.. cried some more...

...I left thinking WTF?!

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Re: Had a client breakdown in tears during appointment. ever happened?
« Reply #14 on: 27 April 2016, 04:33:20 pm »
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Ah the things some people will pay for.

Not had a client cry during the booking but have at the end which I guess still counts. I'd seen him a couple of times for an hour booking and this time he wanted to do a dinner date booking which I had not done before but we worked out a 4 hour plan and what we would do and how much etc. So we had dinner it was fun and we walked back to his place since it wasn't far from where he chose to eat. Talked a bit, had some fun, booking ends and I'm getting ready to go and he starts talking about his feelings and asks me out. I of course reject him saying I enjoy our time but he's my client and he's paying me for company blah blah how things work and he just starts crying. I tried to be nice about it and gave him a hug sort of explaining it was nothing personal against him  but it was really awkward. We never had contact again after that maybe his pride was hurt and he planned this thing out to try to convince me to drop prostitution and go out with him convincing himself he can give me a better life or something based on his own assumptions.  Of all the clients who have asked me out or talked about marrying me he was probably the only one who seriously convinced himself I would say yes.