Author Topic: Getting married with a punter (Read 7723 times)

MIA_SG · « **Reply #45 on:** 26 February 2018, 02:43:07 pm »

My boyfriend is an ex client.

I often forget about how we met actually.

Plus I slept over. We had sex. I came, he didnt. Didn't do most(if any )of the things he'd booked me for. Didn't want him to think that he could get away with not paying me just because he's sizzling hot, we liked each other and had had sex (I'm only a bj wg) , so I took the money from his pocket the next morning whilst he was half asleep.

He wasn't too happy about that.

We've been together ever since. And on Valentines day, after much debate he admitted that he had had no intention of paying me on that morning.

F*ing cheapskate punter.
He's a great boyfriend though. He is actually REALLY turned on by my escorting and gets off on it BIG TIME.

I'm pretty happy. We found it difficult to figure out our acceptable "norms" and limits at the beginning, but now we're good.

I would marry him.
Yes.

Meetingdiversity · « **Reply #46 on:** 04 March 2018, 01:06:38 pm »

I am worth more than to date let alone marry a guy who pays for sex. There are plenty who don't too. I wouldn't settle for scrappings as a bf.

I know some others wouldn't date clients for various reasons before the trumpet is blown lol.

VoluptuousCurves · « **Reply #47 on:** 04 March 2018, 06:38:57 pm »

Gonna be honest Mia, that sounds like a great fuck buddy but a crap relationship potential.

Kay · « **Reply #48 on:** 04 March 2018, 09:45:02 pm »

Quote from: Meetingdiversity on 04 March 2018, 01:06:38 pm

I am worth more than to date let alone marry a guy who pays for sex. There are plenty who don't too. I wouldn't settle for scrappings as a bf.

I know some others wouldn't date clients for various reasons before the trumpet is blown lol.

Just bear in mind how many men will think badly of you for being a prostitute - I would have thought you'd be a little more understanding about why some men pay for sex... Wouldn't it be better if we were all less judgemental?

Kanzaki · « **Reply #49 on:** 04 March 2018, 10:54:42 pm »

Quote from: Kay on 04 March 2018, 09:45:02 pm

Just bear in mind how many men will think badly of you for being a prostitute - I would have thought you'd be a little more understanding about why some men pay for sex... Wouldn't it be better if we were all less judgemental?

I found this society so hypocrite...imagine how hard it will be to hide such a secret to a future husband, you might as well marry a client, if the feeling goes well etc... I see nothing wrong with paying for a prostitute or being one, what I found wrong is men who are ? blocked ? in a horrible relation where they are unhappy. Or, what I found wrong is girls being forced prostitute and men complaining service was shit! Other than that, I am scared everyday that people find out and judge me for MY choice. Before, I used to have an active life where men ? promised stability, and serious relation ? when in fact it was free sex and easy target ? in their point of view ?, I have been used, I was na?ve..
Today, I feel in control, desired, and saving money for my future, so if a great man cross my life, why not, I am still thinking of the consequence though...imagine it doesn?t go well! What are the consequence going to be, can you trust?

Meetingdiversity · « **Reply #50 on:** 05 March 2018, 01:05:47 pm »

Quote from: Kay on 04 March 2018, 09:45:02 pm

Just bear in mind how many men will think badly of you for being a prostitute - I would have thought you'd be a little more understanding about why some men pay for sex... Wouldn't it be better if we were all less judgemental?

I don't need to worry about what others think especially clients. I can't please everyone nor try to. Thanks though for your participation. Xx

Rosesugar · « **Reply #51 on:** 05 March 2018, 10:04:18 pm »

Quote from: Meetingdiversity on 05 March 2018, 01:05:47 pm

I don't need to worry about what others think especially clients. I can't please everyone nor try to. Thanks though for your participation. Xx

Thankyou agree xx

MIA_SG · « **Reply #52 on:** 05 March 2018, 11:01:32 pm »

Quote from: VoluptuousCurves on 04 March 2018, 06:38:57 pm

Gonna be honest Mia, that sounds like a great fuck buddy but a crap relationship potential.

It does sound bad lol. I just reread myself. I should have gone further into details about the dynamics of our relationship.

But, although our beginnings were rocky at best where we really were fuckbuddies. Its different now. We're at family meeting / friend introducing stage now(on his side, id like a bit more time). And tbh I'm more open and honest than I used to be, where I used to think he only wanted me for a "free service". He's proved it isn't that and that he genuinly likes my sexually free spririt. And also, I'm a but of a nightmare to deal with. So hats off to him for sticking around through my moody ups and downs. And being there for me when I needed support the most with the loss of a family member. He didn't have to.

Him being turned on by my slutty ways is just the cherry on top of the cake to me.

Anyway. We shall see. Only time will tell.

GG · « **Reply #53 on:** 05 March 2018, 11:06:45 pm »

Quote from: Kay on 04 March 2018, 09:45:02 pm

Just bear in mind how many men will think badly of you for being a prostitute - I would have thought you'd be a little more understanding about why some men pay for sex... Wouldn't it be better if we were all less judgemental?

Well said Kay, Give me a man who pays for sex because he hasnt got time to deal with relationships over a boy who claims he wants a relationship when in reality all he wants is a cheap fuck any day.
I will take honesty over lies all day long!! X

ana30 · « **Reply #54 on:** 05 March 2018, 11:08:14 pm »

Quote from: MIA_SG on 05 March 2018, 11:01:32 pm

It does sound bad lol. I just reread myself. I should have gone further into details about the dynamics of our relationship.

But, although our beginnings were rocky at best where we really were fuckbuddies. Its different now. We're at family meeting / friend introducing stage now(on his side, id like a bit more time). And tbh I'm more open and honest than I used to be, where I used to think he only wanted me for a "free service". He's proved it isn't that and that he genuinly likes my sexually free spririt. And also, I'm a but of a nightmare to deal with. So hats off to him for sticking around through my moody ups and downs. And being there for me when I needed support the most with the loss of a family member. He didn't have to.

Him being turned on by my slutty ways is just the cherry on top of the cake to me.

Anyway. We shall see. Only time will tell.

Hey, if he's a supportive decent guy and makes you happy who are we to judge? good for you girl!

Phoenix · « **Reply #55 on:** 06 March 2018, 06:39:41 pm »

Quote from: Ana30 on 05 March 2018, 11:08:14 pm

Hey, if he's a supportive decent guy and makes you happy who are we to judge? good for you girl!

I just couldn't get over the fact he had no intention of paying Mia the following morning ( after specifically booking her for her services )
For me, that's not just cheapskate, that's a thief $:-\$

MIA_SG · « **Reply #56 on:** 06 March 2018, 06:51:25 pm »

Quote from: Phoenix on 06 March 2018, 06:39:41 pm

I just couldn't get over the fact he had no intention of paying Mia the following morning ( after specifically booking her for her services )
For me, that's not just cheapskate, that's a thief $:-\$

I agree with that. But at the same time, i took it from his pockets anyway.
But I agree

GG · « **Reply #57 on:** 06 March 2018, 09:56:36 pm »

Quote from: MIA_SG on 06 March 2018, 06:51:25 pm

I agree with that. But at the same time, i took it from his pockets anyway.
But I agree

If thats how the relationship started it doesnt bode well for the future

ana30 · « **Reply #58 on:** 06 March 2018, 10:09:09 pm »

Quote from: Phoenix on 06 March 2018, 06:39:41 pm

I just couldn't get over the fact he had no intention of paying Mia the following morning ( after specifically booking her for her services )
For me, that's not just cheapskate, that's a thief $:-\$

Yes, I agree, that's a weird one

However... She seems to be happy (?) and that's what matters after all , right? :-)

MIA_SG · « **Reply #59 on:** 06 March 2018, 10:41:49 pm »

Quote from: Ana30 on 06 March 2018, 10:09:09 pm

Yes, I agree, that's a weird one

However... She seems to be happy (?) and that's what matters after all , right? :-)

Quote from: gina g on 06 March 2018, 09:56:36 pm

If thats how the relationship started it doesnt bode well for the future

Haha. An awkward start indeed and weird. The worse was never being 100% sure right at the beginning whether he was just after freebies. So he would invite me to do completely non sexual activities together to prove he was legit.

But we laugh it off today. He's a joker so I think he's just trying to wind me up with the "i had no intention of paying you. I didnt even cum " line. Because he did have the cash in his pocket, in an envelope with my name on it.

My best and worse client ever haha. We're good though. The pbs we have now are mainly down to the fact that Im messy af and He's a neat freak.

Anyway. Just to say that it can happen. Although we're not married. Just an odd couple of 1 & 1/2 years.

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