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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: Kanzaki on 14 February 2018, 10:26:17 pm
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Hello ladies,
After meeting so many great men doing escorting, I honestly think that I could possibly fall in love and marry one in this line of work rather than in my ciivy life. I am seriously considering this option if I had the occasion, as you get to know the person (intimacy), and also you meet more diverse people you wouldn't meet in your normal day life... so ladies...good or bad idea?
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Hello ladies,
After meeting so many great men doing escorting, I honestly think that I could possibly fall in love and marry one in this line of work rather than in my ciivy life. I am seriously considering this option if I had the occasion, as you get to know the person (intimacy), and also you meet more diverse people you wouldn't meet in your normal day life... so ladies...good or bad idea?
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Depends on the person you get involved with! I don't think you can generalise.
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Yeah I agree and in the same situation.
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There is ladies on here who have ended up happily with an ex client, personally I find paying for sex a repugnant trait in a potentional partner (hypocrite I know) I would expect monogamy as flawed a concept it is but it depends on what you want in a relationship
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Happy to see them as clients but certainly don't want to marry any of them.
They serve a purpose for me as I do to them
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Interestingly I met a new client yesterday who definitely had the potential to be upgraded to casual boyfriend status. He booked 2hrs and I usually want to claw my face off by the end of that long of a booking, but I was really chilled and just enjoying the conversation.
But I've already got a child and I definitely don't want a husband or live in partner. I think guys who are genuinely okay with you continuing sex work whilst in a relationship are few and far between. They definitely exist, but they are not the norm.
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Happy to see them as clients but certainly don't want to marry any of them.
They serve a purpose for me as I do to them
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What do you mean by 'great men'? What do you find great about them?
I have met many horrible people, very nasty boyfriend in the past. This escort life has give me a hope there isn?t only bad men out there, so I thought maybe it can be a good idea to date a client, or even settle down at some point, but everyone is different I suppose, worth asking what people think as I might ?dream? a little too much ;D ;D
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There is ladies on here who have ended up happily with an ex client, personally I find paying for sex a repugnant trait in a potentional partner (hypocrite I know) I would expect monogamy as flawed a concept it is but it depends on what you want in a relationship
Absolutely this.
I absolutely wouldn't get involved with anybody who I knew to be a punter. I've read enough on the punting forums about how a lot of men who visit escorts think of and treat their wives, and it repulses me. I expect monogamy, and likewise, I won't get into a relationship while I'm still an active escort, because I don't want to be with a bloke who's OK with me doing it. I know a lot of escorts do have partners and it works for them, but I couldn't cope with it I don't think. Especially not somebody I'd met in that scenario.
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There is ladies on here who have ended up happily with an ex client, personally I find paying for sex a repugnant trait in a potentional partner (hypocrite I know) I would expect monogamy as flawed a concept it is but it depends on what you want in a relationship
100%. I don't even see clients as human really, they're just another cock to me. Don't get me wrong I give them a good time; I suck their cock, listen and nod at the appropriate moment, but the second they're out the door I've forgotten them.
I couldn't mentally see them as anything else than a punter.
Makes the me feel sick at thought of shagging one for free.
(Yes I'm jaded lol)
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Regardless of the hourly rate, the intimacy we offer is cheap.
Normally people would have to spend time, make some effort to build trust and connection. It's work.
'Intimacy' during the booking feels good, gives a high but it's not real.
In my view most of the punters who habitually pay for sex are men with various issues. Or are not very self-aware to put it mildly.
On top of this it's hard to assess someone's character based on an hour or so of sex, when they will tell you all you want to hear so that you will perform for them with enthusiasm.
What I found very precious when I started escorting was that men confided in me and I could see a side of them that they wouldn't normally share. It made me understand and appreciate them more. It was a great feeling. But it's just a small piece of the puzzle.
I wouldn't look for a partner among punters as the chances of finding someone decent are very very slim but also leaves you vulnerable for manipulation by freebie-hunters and the like.
There are truly good men out there and there is hope and happiness. It's unlikely to find it with a punter though.
At the moment I'm working on my own issues and I'm not interested in having a partner.
But one day, I believe, I will stop gravitating towards harmful relationships and will meet one of those good guys who will like me for who I really am :)
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Someone who's nice as a client might not necessarily make a good boyfriend - it's a completely different dynamic.
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What do you mean by 'great men'? What do you find great about them?
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Someone who's nice as a client might not necessarily make a good boyfriend - it's a completely different dynamic.
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100%. I don't even see clients as human really, they're just another cock to me. Don't get me wrong I give them a good time; I suck their cock, listen and nod at the appropriate moment, but the second they're out the door I've forgotten them.
I couldn't mentally see them as anything else than a punter.
Makes the me feel sick at thought of shagging one for free.
(Yes I'm jaded lol)
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Happy to see them as clients but certainly don't want to marry any of them.
They serve a purpose for me as I do to them
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You could probably have written an actual post containing words and sentences the time it took to do all that quoting :).
I think the sweeping generalisations about all or most punters being X or Y is just plain odd - people who do a particular thing don't necessarily share any other personal characteristics - why would they? Some people who pay for sex are dickheads and many other are not, just as some people who like football, play computer games or make model aeroplanes are too; there's no common personal trait, just the common activity?
If we're saying that all people who buy sex are unsuitable romantic partners regardless of the situation which led to them wanting to do so are we also saying the same about people who sell it, or is the rank hypocrisy alive and kicking as ever?
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You could probably have written an actual post containing words and sentences the time it took to do all that quoting :).
I think the sweeping generalisations about all or most punters being X or Y is just plain odd - people who do a particular thing don't necessarily share any other personal characteristics - why would they? Some people who pay for sex are dickheads and many other are not, just as some people who like football, play computer games or make model aeroplanes are too; there's no common personal trait, just the common activity?
If we're saying that all people who buy sex are unsuitable romantic partners regardless of the situation which led to them wanting to do so are we also saying the same about people who sell it, or is the rank hypocrisy alive and kicking as ever?
Sex buyers certainly aren't homogenous clones.
Does it add anything to the thread if I reveal I married a client? I didn't set out specifically to find a 'client' or 'non-client' or even a husband, it all happened in it's own time, and I had a variety of relationships before, and during my sex work.
As far as I'm aware he no longer has sex with anyone else, and I only have sex with men who pay. Those are the boundaries we have arrived at together.
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I dont think clients are any better or worse than civilians to be honest. They only show us what they want to show us, just as we do with them.
They could be the nicest person as a client and then the most horrible person as a boyfriend/husband. You just never know.
I would never rule out dating a client because you just dont know who you might fall for, and I think to generalise all clients is sad, we get judged in this industry enough by outsiders who generalise all escorts whether it be as *druggies* *desperate for money* *home wreckers* *daddy issues* or similar, so why would I want to do as they have done and judge someone who pays me for sex? They are no different to the people who I walk past in the street.
Also, you never truly know what your partners past was like before you, so for those who say they would never date a client or would never date an escort wont truly know. They couldve paid or been paid for sex way before you come on the scene. Surely its best to judge people as individuals.
Ive dated a client before & nothing would stop me from doing it again. Infact it was refreshing to be able to be open about my second job (escorting).
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I can't help but looking at it from the other point of view - to a greater or lesser extent we offer clients a 'fantasy' experience where we're always nice, always agreeable, always 'up for it'. What happens in a 'real' relationship when you're not 'that girl' all the time...?
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I can't help but looking at it from the other point of view - to a greater or lesser extent we offer clients a 'fantasy' experience where we're always nice, always agreeable, always 'up for it'. What happens in a 'real' relationship when you're not 'that girl' all the time...?
That's exactly what I was thinking. When I have a booking, they don't meet the Super Cheese who eats a full bag of Kettle Chips when depressed, or the Super Cheese who's a stressed mum with every day issues. I essentially play a character, I'm an actress who stars in a private fantasy. I also think that many clients act out a role as well, for preservation purposes. When they meet me, they aren't the husband who's told his wife he's going to Asda or the dad rocking his 2 year old to sleep. It works both ways. So most of the time, neither of us are actually showing our true selves, so essentially, I don't see it as a great start to relationship.
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But you're conflating 'men who pay for sex' with 'men who habitually pay for sex' and also 'men who cheat on their wives'. I'm not, since whilst there's obvious crossovers, not all punters are married and nor are they 'habitual', however we're defining that. Plenty of cheating men don't punt, after all and I wouldn't want one of them for a partner either - maybe it's a different way of thinking in the US because of the illegality and the general puritanism in the culture?
As for statistics, they can be manipulated to prove absolutely any point anybody wants to make, as proved by the various hoary old cliches regularly pulled out the hat by the anti-prostitution lobby (the case where they 'proved' that virtually all prostitutes started working before they were eighteen by asking child prostitutes was a master stroke ::)). If I wanted to 'prove' that 90+% of men were murderers I could probably do that in next to no time if the only men I asked were inmates in a maximum security jail; it's not what you ask, it's about being very selective as to whom you ask it.
Maybe the punters I meet are just more diverse than other people's, but I doubt it. The majority of them have next to nothing in common personality-wise and I'm thankful for that or it would be a very dull going on indeed. There are plenty of pretty everyday things I would struggle to accept if I was looking for a partner, but their having paid for sex is not one of them.
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But you're conflating 'men who pay for sex' with 'men who habitually pay for sex' and also 'men who cheat on their wives'. I'm not, since whilst there's obvious crossovers, not all punters are married and nor are they 'habitual', however we're defining that. Plenty of cheating men don't punt, after all and I wouldn't want one of them for a partner either - maybe it's a different way of thinking in the US because of the illegality and the general puritanism in the culture?
As for statistics, they can be manipulated to prove absolutely any point anybody wants to make, as proved by the various hoary old cliches regularly pulled out the hat by the anti-prostitution lobby (the case where they 'proved' that virtually all prostitutes started working before they were eighteen by asking child prostitutes was a master stroke ::)). If I wanted to 'prove' that 90+% of men were murderers I could probably do that in next to no time if the only men I asked were inmates in a maximum security jail; it's not what you ask, it's about being very selective as to whom you ask it.
Maybe the punters I meet are just more diverse than other people's, but I doubt it. The majority of them have next to nothing in common personality-wise and I'm thankful for that or it would be a very dull going on indeed. There are plenty of pretty everyday things I would struggle to accept if I was looking for a partner, but their having paid for sex is not one of them.
People also have a variety of reasons for 'cheating', how about someone who's wife is constantly with other men not with them, for years? If he goes off and does his own thing whilst also supporting her financially, is that a sign of such a poor character?
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People also have a variety of reasons for 'cheating', how about someone who's wife is constantly with other men not with them, for years? If he goes off and does his own thing whilst also supporting her financially, is that a sign of such a poor character?
But if everybody's aware of the situation and accepting of it, it isn't cheating, is it? I'm talking about situations.where somebody is being deliberately deceived although I maybe didn't make that clear :).
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The real me and my escorting persona is very different, I'm always up for it happy, hang onto every word a client says because I'm paid to do so, I can be a right bitch outside of escorting
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Would you equate sex work with any other work? In terms of the impact on your body/ emotions/ spirituality.
Or is it just me - because of my unfortunate background, that I see it as essentially abusive?
Well I think that it proves the point I was trying to make about punters - we all have different views on, reasons for and experiences of doing sex work and because of that, trying to broadbrush us as being the same just doesn't work and demeans us all. Some/many people are not going to be the ones who 'fit' whatever the agenda is of whoever is trying to make a point, and to try and get round this by saying that their points are less valid than others as examples of sex workers is disingenuous, lazy and simplistic.
I wouldn't equate sex work with working for an employer because being self employed is not the same. I would equate it to offering any other service as a self employed person, because that is what I do. In terms of impact my body and mental state are n the best shape they've ever been in my adult life, because I can eat decent food, rest/work/not work when I like, afford a gym membership at our new sports centre and live in a lovely flat that I can heat properly without worrying about the bills.
I have disliked every civvy job I've ever had for one reason or another, and the only exceptions to that were the ones I out and out hated instead - I used to work twelve hour rotating shifts on my feet in a factory and that was one of the jobs I liked better. Rolling about with random blokes for a handful of hours a week and being paid a relative fortune for it is a piece of piss compared working three part time jobs at once for a pittance and getting four hours sleep a night if I was lucky.
As for the spirituality, I was born on a scheme in Edinburgh and grew up on a council estate in the north east of England, so it's fair to say that in the forty five years I've been alive I don't think it's a word that's ever crossed my mind :).
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In terms of impact my body and mental state are n the best shape they've ever been in my adult life, because I can eat decent food, rest/work/not work when I like, afford a gym membership at our new sports centre and live in a lovely flat that I can heat properly without worrying about the bills.
I have disliked every civvy job I've ever had for one reason or another, and the only exceptions to that were the ones I out and out hated instead - I used to work twelve hour rotating shifts on my feet in a factory and that was one of the jobs I liked better. Rolling about with random blokes for a handful of hours a week and being paid a relative fortune for it is a piece of piss compared working three part time jobs at once for a pittance and getting four hours sleep a night if I was lucky.
+1 The thought of having to go back to 'civvy' work is enough to bring me out in a panic attack and people think we are the ones that need saving ::)
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My point was/is that life isn't as simple as black and white.
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I have met many horrible people, very nasty boyfriend in the past. This escort life has give me a hope there isn?t only bad men out there, so I thought maybe it can be a good idea to date a client, or even settle down at some point, but everyone is different I suppose, worth asking what people think as I might ?dream? a little too much ;D ;D
I don't think they were horrible in first month/hours when you met them? Meaning how could you know person in such a short time?
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I was in a really bad abusive relationship before and not seen anyone since. Since I started this job I've met so many lovely guys and one in particular I have become close to.
He feels more like a friend and we text each other all the time and always there if I need someone.
I think in time our relationship will change especially once I leave the industry and can see us together. Maybe marriage could happen in the future as he is totally in love with me and I'm getting there too.
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If we're saying that all people who buy sex are unsuitable romantic partners regardless of the situation which led to them wanting to do so are we also saying the same about people who sell it, or is the rank hypocrisy alive and kicking as ever?
"I sell sex and I'm good but he buys sex so he's bad".
The rank hypocrisy is still quite alive and kicking I'm afraid ???
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Hmmm.........interesting thread.
I always thought I would prefer a man that doesn't punt, but I've started to change my view of things to be honest. I think (some) men who punt are more enlightened and would possibly make better partners than non-punters but then that is a massive generalization too.
I guess now (although I am definitely not looking) I have really lovely clients and although I haven't met anyone that I feel that way about (as in wanting a relationship with) I can see the possibility of it happening more and more, because there are so many different reasons guys see wg's.
I have a lot more respect for guys who pay than the ones that want free sex from dating sites, I find that really distasteful to be honest.
Also, as a romantic (and I love a love story) I find it incredibly heartwarming that ladies have met their other half's and married them, from meeting them as a wg/client relationship.
We are all different so there is no definitive answer.
Although utmost respect to ladies who have stumbled across someone in this way that has become marriage material, not being naive here, but gotta give kudos to a man that can accept this as purely 'work' that shows strength of character and confidence.
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Hmmm.........interesting thread.
I always thought I would prefer a man that doesn't punt, but I've started to change my view of things to be honest. I think (some) men who punt are more enlightened and would possibly make better partners than non-punters but then that is a massive generalization too.
I guess now (although I am definitely not looking) I have really lovely clients and although I haven't met anyone that I feel that way about (as in wanting a relationship with) I can see the possibility of it happening more and more, because there are so many different reasons guys see wg's.
I have a lot more respect for guys who pay than the ones that want free sex from dating sites, I find that really distasteful to be honest.
Also, as a romantic (and I love a love story) I find it incredibly heartwarming that ladies have met their other half's and married them, from meeting them as a wg/client relationship.
We are all different so there is no definitive answer.
Although utmost respect to ladies who have stumbled across someone in this way that has become marriage material, not being naive here, but gotta give kudos to a man that can accept this as purely 'work' that shows strength of character and confidence.
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Imo if a client wants to take it further with a wg, there is something in it for him (emotional/physical satisfaction etc) and the same applies to wg. Its something to figure out on your own and compute in your mind and go for it if you think its worth it.
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I have a lot more respect for guys who pay than the ones that want free sex from dating sites, I find that really distasteful to be honest.
I feel really strongly about this! This and just generally messing poor girls around because they purely just want sex and can't bring themselves to be honest about it because they know most girls won't want just that!
It totally amazes me how people have such horrible and negative views towards punters simply because they punt. (After all, this is your job and without punters you'd be out of a job) I think it's a lot more respectful for them to pay for it than to use people and drop them like shit.
And I'll add that I don't condone cheating under any circumstances, but surely it's better for these men who are in unhappy or sexless relationships/marriages or whatever, to pay for an arrangement rather than getting into a full blown emotional affair with someone??
Just my thoughts x
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I will also add that I too have been in some awful relationships with horrible men and doing this job has shown me that there are actually some really nice men out there.
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I guess not all find clients bf material, they pay that is all just like not all clients see escorts as gf material. It works both ways.
I would rarther have a guy who doesn't pay for sex than the latter.
Don't know really what is attractive about a male whore.
I am in a relationship with my goals they will be more loyal to me. I bet if you conducted a survey most clients don't have respect for us.
They be nice or they will get no sex which is grand with me As a transaction.
Have a great evening. :)
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Yes and although we don't know them properly , usually you don't if it's a dating site , I've met loads of guys and not old ones I might ad .
who are just dipping their feet back in the water so to speak .
Some have been bereaved /divorced and not ready to date properly so it's a simple solution to a natural need for physical and ( if it's offered ) emotional support.
Quite a few girls have married clients and are very happy.
I dated a guy for five years , not a punter but understood for me it's just work nothing else , just be careful because with all due respect you sound vulnerable and someone will smell it a mile off :)
Don't take offence it's meant nicely , but I do believe it's possible to meet a good guy :)
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I feel really strongly about this! This and just generally messing poor girls around because they purely just want sex and can't bring themselves to be honest about it because they know most girls won't want just that!
It totally amazes me how people have such horrible and negative views towards punters simply because they punt. (After all, this is your job and without punters you'd be out of a job) I think it's a lot more respectful for them to pay for it than to use people and drop them like shit.
And I'll add that I don't condone cheating under any circumstances, but surely it's better for these men who are in unhappy or sexless relationships/marriages or whatever, to pay for an arrangement rather than getting into a full blown emotional affair with someone??
Just my thoughts x
Totally agree, its better to pay for sex than prey for sex. In an ideal world, how nice it would be to have single and respectful clients who pay, get service, leave/repeat.
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I don't think I'd want a relationship with one of those regular punters who sees a girl a week, hangs about on forums and writes long wank fodder reviews. I think it is a hobby many of those types would find hard to give up and I think I'd be concerned about being some sort of trophy whore.
However, the kind of chap who sees escorts once in a while or only sees escorts when single can be as good or as bad as every other man out there and they can't be generalised. I know women who have been very happy for years with ex clients and I have heard horror stories of clients becoming partners and it all going terribly wrong.
The tricky part is negotiating a paid relationship into a romance- Do they just want free sex, but equally if you keep demanding money for time together he might think you only care about his ???. Then there is the danger of losing a perfectly nice regular client if things go tits up.
I wouldn't go there again, even if I didn't have Mr Wailing Banshee!
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i met my bf doing this and been six years now ,but must admit if we argue he does bring it up sometimes which isnt nice at all but the arrangement we have is good for me now not sure about in the future though x
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i met my bf doing this and been six years now ,but must admit if we argue he does bring it up sometimes which isnt nice at all but the arrangement we have is good for me now not sure about in the future though x
In what way does he bring it up if you do not mind the question? Doesn't sound very encouraging to me, so he is ok with your job until you have a tiff and then he makes negative comments?
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yeah justine he does makes nasty comments when hes had a drink , tbh the situation suits me at the minute otherwise he would be gone and thats the truth i dont drive he does so takes me to bookings etc i no its not good but for now am ok with it x
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It must be hard for a partner to cope if you are having sex with other guys. I couldn't deal with it if I was in their shoes. I have a high sex drive and really enjoy sex with a lot of my clients. My fave client is probably the only one I would consider dating but i know he wouldn't be able to deal with me enjoying myself with other men. He's a sensitive guy.
Maybe when I leave the industry I would give it a go with him.
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My boyfriend is an ex client.
I often forget about how we met actually.
Plus I slept over. We had sex. I came, he didnt. Didn't do most(if any )of the things he'd booked me for. Didn't want him to think that he could get away with not paying me just because he's sizzling hot, we liked each other and had had sex (I'm only a bj wg) , so I took the money from his pocket the next morning whilst he was half asleep. 8) ;D
He wasn't too happy about that.
We've been together ever since. And on Valentines day, after much debate he admitted that he had had no intention of paying me on that morning. ::)
F*ing cheapskate punter.
He's a great boyfriend though. He is actually REALLY turned on by my escorting and gets off on it BIG TIME.
I'm pretty happy. We found it difficult to figure out our acceptable "norms" and limits at the beginning, but now we're good.
I would marry him.
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I am worth more than to date let alone marry a guy who pays for sex. There are plenty who don't too. I wouldn't settle for scrappings as a bf.
I know some others wouldn't date clients for various reasons before the trumpet is blown lol.
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Gonna be honest Mia, that sounds like a great fuck buddy but a crap relationship potential.
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I am worth more than to date let alone marry a guy who pays for sex. There are plenty who don't too. I wouldn't settle for scrappings as a bf.
I know some others wouldn't date clients for various reasons before the trumpet is blown lol.
Just bear in mind how many men will think badly of you for being a prostitute - I would have thought you'd be a little more understanding about why some men pay for sex... Wouldn't it be better if we were all less judgemental?
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Just bear in mind how many men will think badly of you for being a prostitute - I would have thought you'd be a little more understanding about why some men pay for sex... Wouldn't it be better if we were all less judgemental?
I found this society so hypocrite...imagine how hard it will be to hide such a secret to a future husband, you might as well marry a client, if the feeling goes well etc... I see nothing wrong with paying for a prostitute or being one, what I found wrong is men who are ? blocked ? in a horrible relation where they are unhappy. Or, what I found wrong is girls being forced prostitute and men complaining service was shit! Other than that, I am scared everyday that people find out and judge me for MY choice. Before, I used to have an active life where men ? promised stability, and serious relation ? when in fact it was free sex and easy target ? in their point of view ?, I have been used, I was na?ve..
Today, I feel in control, desired, and saving money for my future, so if a great man cross my life, why not, I am still thinking of the consequence though...imagine it doesn?t go well! What are the consequence going to be, can you trust?
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Just bear in mind how many men will think badly of you for being a prostitute - I would have thought you'd be a little more understanding about why some men pay for sex... Wouldn't it be better if we were all less judgemental?
I don't need to worry about what others think especially clients. I can't please everyone nor try to. Thanks though for your participation. Xx
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I don't need to worry about what others think especially clients. I can't please everyone nor try to. Thanks though for your participation. Xx
Thankyou agree xx
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Gonna be honest Mia, that sounds like a great fuck buddy but a crap relationship potential.
It does sound bad lol. I just reread myself. I should have gone further into details about the dynamics of our relationship.
But, although our beginnings were rocky at best where we really were fuckbuddies. Its different now. We're at family meeting / friend introducing stage now(on his side, id like a bit more time). And tbh I'm more open and honest than I used to be, where I used to think he only wanted me for a "free service". He's proved it isn't that and that he genuinly likes my sexually free spririt. And also, I'm a but of a nightmare to deal with. So hats off to him for sticking around through my moody ups and downs. And being there for me when I needed support the most with the loss of a family member. He didn't have to.
Him being turned on by my slutty ways is just the cherry on top of the cake to me. ;D
Anyway. We shall see. Only time will tell.
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Just bear in mind how many men will think badly of you for being a prostitute - I would have thought you'd be a little more understanding about why some men pay for sex... Wouldn't it be better if we were all less judgemental?
Well said Kay, Give me a man who pays for sex because he hasnt got time to deal with relationships over a boy who claims he wants a relationship when in reality all he wants is a cheap fuck any day.
I will take honesty over lies all day long!! X
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It does sound bad lol. I just reread myself. I should have gone further into details about the dynamics of our relationship.
But, although our beginnings were rocky at best where we really were fuckbuddies. Its different now. We're at family meeting / friend introducing stage now(on his side, id like a bit more time). And tbh I'm more open and honest than I used to be, where I used to think he only wanted me for a "free service". He's proved it isn't that and that he genuinly likes my sexually free spririt. And also, I'm a but of a nightmare to deal with. So hats off to him for sticking around through my moody ups and downs. And being there for me when I needed support the most with the loss of a family member. He didn't have to.
Him being turned on by my slutty ways is just the cherry on top of the cake to me. ;D
Anyway. We shall see. Only time will tell.
Hey, if he's a supportive decent guy and makes you happy who are we to judge? good for you girl! ;D
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Hey, if he's a supportive decent guy and makes you happy who are we to judge? good for you girl! ;D
I just couldn't get over the fact he had no intention of paying Mia the following morning ( after specifically booking her for her services )
For me, that's not just cheapskate, that's a thief :-\
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I just couldn't get over the fact he had no intention of paying Mia the following morning ( after specifically booking her for her services )
For me, that's not just cheapskate, that's a thief :-\
I agree with that. But at the same time, i took it from his pockets anyway.
But I agree
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I agree with that. But at the same time, i took it from his pockets anyway.
But I agree
If thats how the relationship started it doesnt bode well for the future
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I just couldn't get over the fact he had no intention of paying Mia the following morning ( after specifically booking her for her services )
For me, that's not just cheapskate, that's a thief :-\
Yes, I agree, that's a weird one >:(
However... She seems to be happy (?) and that's what matters after all , right? :-)
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Yes, I agree, that's a weird one >:(
However... She seems to be happy (?) and that's what matters after all , right? :-)
If thats how the relationship started it doesnt bode well for the future
Haha. An awkward start indeed and weird. The worse was never being 100% sure right at the beginning whether he was just after freebies. So he would invite me to do completely non sexual activities together to prove he was legit.
But we laugh it off today. He's a joker so I think he's just trying to wind me up with the "i had no intention of paying you. I didnt even cum " line. Because he did have the cash in his pocket, in an envelope with my name on it.
My best and worse client ever haha. We're good though. The pbs we have now are mainly down to the fact that Im messy af and He's a neat freak.
Anyway. Just to say that it can happen. Although we're not married. Just an odd couple of 1 & 1/2 years.
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Haha. An awkward start indeed and weird. The worse was never being 100% sure right at the beginning whether he was just after freebies. So he would invite me to do completely non sexual activities together to prove he was legit.
But we laugh it off today. He's a joker so I think he's just trying to wind me up with the "i had no intention of paying you. I didnt even cum " line. Because he did have the cash in his pocket, in an envelope with my name on it.
My best and worse client ever haha. We're good though. The pbs we have now are mainly down to the fact that Im messy af and He's a neat freak.
Anyway. Just to say that it can happen. Although we're not married. Just an odd couple of 1 & 1/2 years.
;D thats completely different if hes just winding you up I would probably say the same lol x
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Yes, I saw it in black and white before, but you were the only one in the room with him..and it seems on some level you knew he was winding you up. :) xx
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Yes, I saw it in black and white before, but you were the only one in the room with him..and it seems on some level you knew he was winding you up. :) xx
Yes. I guess so. ;)
Also id like to add that when I took the cash the next day, it wasnt exactly me stealing, i just had to wake up really early to go to the airport and I didnt want to wake him up. But he woke up to me emptying his jean pockets upside down and his phone went "PLONK " on the floor. :D he was like, erm hello. What are you doing ?
I didnt want to leave empty handed.
But i did end up having to leave like a toothbrush and a ring because he didnt beleive me when I promised I'd be back on the condition that he took me to eat my favorite patisserie.
So there you have it. The whole story.
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Yes. I guess so. ;)
Also id like to add that when I took the cash the next day, it wasnt exactly me stealing, i just had to wake up really early to go to the airport and I didnt want to wake him up. But he woke up to me emptying his jean pockets upside down and his phone went "PLONK " on the floor. :D he was like, erm hello. What are you doing ?
I didnt want to leave empty handed.
But i did end up having to leave like a toothbrush and a ring because he didnt beleive me when I promised I'd be back on the condition that he took me to eat my favorite patisserie.
So there you have it. The whole story.
Awww that's rather sweet actually xx
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Awww that's rather sweet actually xx
😊 :) :) :)
I'm a Happy sex bunny
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well i done it and wont ever see a client again thats for sure ,been 5 years finished two weeks ago just cant be putting up with his crap any longer ::)