I don't mind what they call me in the heat of the moment but I find it awkward myself especially if they just come out and ask me to "talk dirty". On demand it's even more cringe worthy and embarrassing!

I don't enjoy it but then again I don't enjoy being called "Babe" or "Sweets" either, lol.  I see it as just another part of the job and don't say anything against it but don't do it back either.  There are a few clients I would have enjoyed calling "Fucker" though. 

About the ones that want me to talk dirty non-stop--THAT is exhausting.  I have my standard lines that I say to turn them on but seriously, not enough to fill an hour unless I'm going to sound like a recording on a loop.    

Just let it go over your head. X

I don't mind it If your in a hurry and let them verbally abuse you it might get them off quicker if you wish t get it over with 

I lovely guy always calls me a fat bitch in the middle of doing his thing . Then spend the next 10 mins saying sorry

I think there are generic words like "dirty slut" and then their are pointed, specific words. To point out a scar or say something about nationality or race is too specific and I won't tolerate that. I also once had a muslim guy call me a "dirty fucking pig." Somehow, that just crossed the line. Perhaps because I assume that "pig" is especially nasty for a muslim. I told him to cut that right out and he did. If someone said anything derogatory about my nationality I would pull them up on it. Of course, I will often introduce my nationality, myself. To say, "Yeah! Fill my dirty Danish arse!" is one thing. But to say, "You slutty little Scandanavian skank" would just feel "off."