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brandy@saafe

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Re: Getting a client to leave!!!!
« Reply #15 on: 08 October 2008, 05:21:31 pm »
Quote from: foxy on 08 October 2008, 04:02:57 pm

How do you girls keep the time?

I keep my watch on.
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Sasha

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Re: Getting a client to leave!!!!
« Reply #16 on: 08 October 2008, 06:47:18 pm »
I have nice clocks in each room. Theyre quite arty and discreet. I also use the CD one to help, saves me sneaky peeking at the clock whilst otherwise engaged! :D
xxx
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UrbaneAspects

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Re: Getting a client to leave!!!!
« Reply #17 on: 08 October 2008, 11:13:26 pm »
Quote from: brandy@saafe on 07 October 2008, 07:50:05 am

In other circumstances I'd agree, but not in this case. Anybody that feels he can take the piss and try and take advantage of me and my time, I'd have no problems telling them that I've got another customer lined up. If it puts them off coming to see me again, then so be it, then I won't have to put up with his timewasting antics again. The last thing that would be on my mind would be wanting to make them feel special. It would give them the idea that I have nothing else better to do with my time after our booking other than to watch him drag his feet. It would also give them the idea that I accept it, thus coming back and pulling the same trick.

I don't mind if it's me that takes my time with a customer, I've done it many times, so it's not about the money. It's about the customer respecting your boundaries. If he pays for an hour, unless you decide otherwise, he has no right to stay for longer.

I guess the difference with the guys I meet is that they just wont take the chance to stick around longer...because they think that if they wont leave, I wont let them out the door if they decide to go over the time without paying extra...it's never happened to me for someone to go take a shower, or extend their time at my place (or theirs) after the event, most here may be too scared I'd take their wallet in the process  ;D

but I can imagine there are guys who would wish to 'run out the clock'
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brandy@saafe

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Re: Getting a client to leave!!!!
« Reply #18 on: 09 October 2008, 07:04:39 am »
Quote from: Miami1inDallas on 08 October 2008, 11:13:26 pm

I guess the difference with the guys I meet is that they just wont take the chance to stick around longer...because they think that if they wont leave, I wont let them out the door if they decide to go over the time without paying extra...it's never happened to me for someone to go take a shower, or extend their time at my place (or theirs) after the event, most here may be too scared I'd take their wallet in the process  ;D

but I can imagine there are guys who would wish to 'run out the clock'

I guess also we don't have the stigma of prostitution being illegal, so maybe in that respect clients know they're not doing anything wrong, so they're a lot more relaxed about it. Just a guess.
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UrbaneAspects

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Re: Getting a client to leave!!!!
« Reply #19 on: 09 October 2008, 09:11:13 pm »
Quote from: brandy@saafe on 09 October 2008, 07:04:39 am


I guess also we don't have the stigma of prostitution being illegal, so maybe in that respect clients know they're not doing anything wrong, so they're a lot more relaxed about it. Just a guess.

no, you're absolutely right, now that you mentioned it....I would say 99% of the time after 'its over', most of them are out within 2 minutes   :o 
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LondonEvie

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« Reply #20 on: 09 October 2008, 10:36:29 pm »


 That's a great idea! A client playlist- I am knicking that idea  :)
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Re: Getting a client to leave!!!!
« Reply #21 on: 11 October 2008, 02:19:40 pm »
Amy
You made me burst out laughing when you stated that your 1hr booking lasted 5 hrs because you fell asleep. Thats so funny!!!
x Lottie
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UrbaneAspects

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« Reply #22 on: 11 October 2008, 05:41:12 pm »
Quote from: lottieBBW on 11 October 2008, 02:19:40 pm
Amy
You made me burst out laughing when you stated that your 1hr booking lasted 5 hrs because you fell asleep. Thats so funny!!!
x Lottie

did she get paid for 5 hours? just curious
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medea

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Re: Getting a client to leave!!!!
« Reply #23 on: 11 October 2008, 06:12:31 pm »
yes that is really a good idea
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amy

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Re: Getting a client to leave!!!!
« Reply #24 on: 11 October 2008, 06:23:21 pm »
Quote from: Miami1inDallas on 11 October 2008, 05:41:12 pm
Quote from: lottieBBW on 11 October 2008, 02:19:40 pm
Amy
You made me burst out laughing when you stated that your 1hr booking lasted 5 hrs because you fell asleep. Thats so funny!!!
x Lottie

did she get paid for 5 hours? just curious

No 'she' did not ;). It was entirely my fault for taking too many bookings during the day and then a late one with a nice regular, who was unexpectedly in town and rang on the off-chance in the early evening. He fell asleep first and I thought I'd leave him to have an hour since he had a fair old drive home and was clearly very tired. I decided to briefly rest my eyes and next thing I knew was that it was coming up 4am!  ;D I just thank God he's single!
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LondonEvie

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« Reply #25 on: 12 October 2008, 05:04:40 pm »


Goodness* At least it was a nice customer and you didn't lose your money/possessions.


 Would you ever say 'I'd love for you to stay, but I'm afraid if you want to continue it will be an additional ??? ?'


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lexienight

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Re: Getting a client to leave!!!!
« Reply #26 on: 12 October 2008, 05:17:14 pm »
Quote from: LondonEvie on 12 October 2008, 05:04:40 pm



 Would you ever say 'I'd love for you to stay, but I'm afraid if you want to continue it will be an additional ??? ?'




NO WAY, im not really looking forward to having a overnight booking, thats just too many hours of small talk for my liking quite frankly.  And its unlikely they would have the cash on them to suddenly spring the over night rates as apposed to an hour or so.  Saying that.... if some one said, id love to stay, heres the cash, do you mind.... well im not going to turn the money down am i?!!! :-)



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medea

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Re: Getting a client to leave!!!!
« Reply #27 on: 12 October 2008, 05:49:07 pm »
i think i would enjoy an overnighter, or even being a companion for a business trip.
i didnt had such offer yet, but maybe soon,
to be realistic it will take and maybe happen some time in near future but i am still in the starting out process and i can't expect to have long bookings at the beginning


yes glad he was single,
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Re: Getting a client to leave!!!!
« Reply #28 on: 12 October 2008, 05:50:26 pm »
Quote from: LondonEvie on 12 October 2008, 05:04:40 pm


Goodness* At least it was a nice customer and you didn't lose your money/possessions.


 Would you ever say 'I'd love for you to stay, but I'm afraid if you want to continue it will be an additional ??? ?'


Fortunately he fell asleep first and woke up last  ;D.

I do say this if it getting towards the end of a short booking and the client is showing no signs of wanting to wind up - apart from anything else it does point out that time is getting on without having to be too obvious about it. I had a one hour booking extend into a two hour on Friday afternoon, but the client (who was new to me) must have decided beforehand that he might do this once we had met, and had the extra money all ready - he asked within 10 minutes of arriving and as I don;t book people close together it wasn't a problem, although I did miss the beginning of Hollyoaks and had to catch up with it today  ;D.

I don't generally offer overnight incalls; I did one at my old place but can never really relax knowing someone is in my house while I'm asleep. I do offer incall dinner dates and have actually done 3; I love cooking and have found that the guys working away from home don't tend to eat properly and like having a home-cooked dinner rather than go out to a restaurant. It surprised me that anyone asked, but I'm always happy to do it!
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LondonEvie

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Re: Getting a client to leave!!!!
« Reply #29 on: 12 October 2008, 05:53:21 pm »
Quote from: lexie on 12 October 2008, 05:17:14 pm


NO WAY, im not really looking forward to having a overnight booking, thats just too many hours of small talk for my liking quite frankly.  And its unlikely they would have the cash on them to suddenly spring the over night rates as apposed to an hour or so.  Saying that.... if some one said, id love to stay, heres the cash, do you mind.... well im not going to turn the money down am i?!!! :-)





That's kind of what I meant, they're not likely to have the money so it gives you an out to ask them to go politely but with making it sound as though they'd be welcome to continue but for the funds. I didn't mean for an overnight I meant for an additional half hour or hour.  If you want 90 minutes pay for 90, and if you've only paid for an hour then pony up!
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