Oh seriously?? I'll have to consider that for the future if I'm not as busy as I'd like then!
On a different note, just had my 4th client last night and I felt absolutely TERRIBLE afterwards. It felt like the longest booking ever even though he was only there for 45 minutes. Very demanding physically, respect out the window, didn't talk to me at all beforehand and constant extremely degrading dirty talk (b-i-t-c, s-l-u-, w-h-o-r-) and a lot of forced face fking with forceful deep throat (i'm only just learning to do that and was almost sick) and made me cry out in pain for a long time forcing 4 fingers down me for over ten minutes, (perhaps he was trying to fist me?) and possibly the worst kisser I've ever experienced. Definitely a client that feels he can do whatever the hell he wants with you as he's paid. I expected some men to be like this but actually experiencing it made me feel so sad and depressed and made me question whether I could do this job if 80% of clients were going to be like this and treat you like absolute crap, and two holes just because they've paid.
I should have made him sit down at the beginning of the booking and go through what I do and don't do. I was too scared to tell him to stop as I didn't want to cause any conflict during the booking or get a bad review. I mentioned to the agency afterwards that I felt this client was too rough and they said they'll bare that in mind the next time he calls. I don't really want to see this client again. I think that's fair of me? Should I let the agency know I don't want to see him again?
What I'm now scared of is if most of the clients are going to be like this. The first clients I had seem like a dream away now if this is the reality of escorting.
Miss_Ari, I'll be blunt with you.
Escorting is the worst jobs to get into if you have no self boundaries. Please work on your self esteem as you are working, because it's heartbreaking to read this kind of thing. This is how clients, agency bosses, boundary pushers get away with what they do.
You're working for yourself, there are smart ways to see the clients you want and on your terms. One of them is to get your own private clients through indie advertising. Don't you think it should be on your terms? You sound young and unfortunately clients can be pr**ks towards young inexperienced escorts. You have to be careful.
I am tempted to start AW too but I wasn't sure you could be independent AND belong to an agency at the same time?
My pricing is ?300 agency and it seems like most girls are pricing at ?100-?180 on AW. I can't be cheaper in one place and more expensive in another
Yes you can. Why do you need to confine yourself to one agency and even one set of price? You're now working for yourself, take different sets of photos, set up new profile and be an escort on your own terms.