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Nameless

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Re: Addressing Etiquette...
« Reply #15 on: 14 February 2013, 05:07:03 pm »
I'm of the mindset that the clients I see know how to behave and would do all of the things on the etiquette page anyway. The clients who are in desperate need of a good old read of an etiquette section are precisely the type of clients who don't read websites and details so you end up in a paradoxical predicament!

Yes I hear you, but bear in mind different girls allow different things, some girls for example will got out and drink heavily with a client, or don't mind if guys do drugs.

As you know guys are easily confused and I know many have said to me they appreciate that its all clearly laid out, what my boundaries are in terms of behaviour.  That being said, these are decent guys to start with.

Brown Eyed Girl

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« Reply #16 on: 14 February 2013, 05:20:52 pm »
I'm of the mindset that the clients I see know how to behave and would do all of the things on the etiquette page anyway. The clients who are in desperate need of a good old read of an etiquette section are precisely the type of clients who don't read websites and details so you end up in a paradoxical predicament!

Yes I hear you, but bear in mind different girls allow different things, some girls for example will got out and drink heavily with a client, or don't mind if guys do drugs.

As you know guys are easily confused and I know many have said to me they appreciate that its all clearly laid out, what my boundaries are in terms of behaviour.  That being said, these are decent guys to start with.

Exactly. We all work so differently, have such varying boundaries, it?s no wonder guys can get confused. I just want guys to know my rules, and if they don?t play by them, well they can?t moan I wasn't clear and upfront about them!
Definitely a tough subject to tackle in your marketing, if you want to do it well and still get the guys to pick up the phone after having read it.

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Re: Addressing Etiquette...
« Reply #17 on: 14 February 2013, 06:56:14 pm »
Hey Alisha

I dont think your problems here are to do with etiquette, they're more to do with the construct of 'Five + Five' that you set for yourself :)

Your site is gorgeous and from the way it's written I think a lot is made clear about the standards of behaviour that you expect and what you offer. If you've written down all of the 'rules' that apply to both you and your Clients and they dont add up to five each then all you need to do is change the title of the page!

I think you're making it un-necessarily hard on yourself by trying to think of that exact number and you run the risk of including something not really required and trivialising the article, or missing out on something important, just because you started out wanting 5+5.

If you come up with 6 'rules' for the Clients and 4 for you then just call it '10 rules' - I'm sure your Clients will e charmed to see that not ALL the rules are for them and that you set yourself high standards too.

Just my take on things - not sure if it helps or not? :)

R xx

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Re: Addressing Etiquette...
« Reply #18 on: 14 February 2013, 08:07:28 pm »
This post reminded me I had to update my etiquette page, of course after an hour of hard work did I not lose my internet connection just as I was about to save it. :FF

Brown Eyed Girl

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Re: Addressing Etiquette...
« Reply #19 on: 14 February 2013, 08:24:41 pm »
I have just had a brain wave!!! Can?t believe I didn?t think of it earlier. Think Rooby is right, I?m making things far more complicated than they need to be.
So, I?m going to tackle the whole sticky topic with a paragraph in FAQ page. I?ll set the question as ?is there anybody you won?t see?? and launch into client expectations. I?ll then do a second question along the same lines ?I?m new/ nervous what should I expect? and say a bit about what do expect from me. I think that will balance it out and not make it all one-sided.
Thanks for the ideas everyone x