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Justine

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Re: Does anyone find escorting a lonley job? I love it but I feel so isolated. xx
« Reply #15 on: 01 June 2019, 10:42:04 am »
I have had some good friends (sp's) in the last few years, or thought I did but regret to say not one of them turned out to be 100% loyal or genuine. They are no longer friends. It saddens me quite a lot. 
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Re: Does anyone find escorting a lonley job? I love it but I feel so isolated. xx
« Reply #16 on: 01 June 2019, 07:20:48 pm »
Quote from: Justine on 01 June 2019, 10:42:04 am
I have had some good friends (sp's) in the last few years, or thought I did but regret to say not one of them turned out to be 100% loyal or genuine. They are no longer friends. It saddens me quite a lot.

I'm like you, i have had friendships turn sour and now I keep other SPs at arm's length. I have a good group that I chat to and will meet up for group meals but I won't invite them to my personal home or tell them intimate details like I did before. It's a shame :-S
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Re: Does anyone find escorting a lonley job? I love it but I feel so isolated. xx
« Reply #17 on: 01 June 2019, 08:01:14 pm »
Quote from: Lushblossom on 01 June 2019, 10:14:10 am
I am like you Gypsy I have no desire whatsoever to move in with somebody and cannot fathom why 90 per cent of the population does so lol.

Perhaps that's because so many people can't afford to live on their own. In most cases it's definitely easier to have two incomes instead of one.

I'm extremely lucky I can afford to be on my own  :)
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Re: Does anyone find escorting a lonley job? I love it but I feel so isolated. xx
« Reply #18 on: 02 June 2019, 02:02:41 am »
There seems to be a theme here,both with romantic relationships and friendships..in that when we have been "burned" we have decided to give up on trusting others altogether.That is the surest recipe for loneliness I have heard.
I am wary and take things slow,but amongst the letdowns I have found some fantastic people who I absolutely trust. I try my very, very best to be a good and RELIABLE friend to others.life is so short and so hard ,it's the very least I can do. Don't lose faith in everyone because of a few bad experiences
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Re: Does anyone find escorting a lonley job? I love it but I feel so isolated. xx
« Reply #19 on: 02 June 2019, 08:32:02 am »
Quote from: sultress000 on 02 June 2019, 02:02:41 am
There seems to be a theme here,both with romantic relationships and friendships..in that when we have been "burned" we have decided to give up on trusting others altogether.That is the surest recipe for loneliness I have heard.
I am wary and take things slow,but amongst the letdowns I have found some fantastic people who I absolutely trust. I try my very, very best to be a good and RELIABLE friend to others.life is so short and so hard ,it's the very least I can do. Don't lose faith in everyone because of a few bad experiences
I've lost trust in most people unfortunately. Been let down too much .I'm wary nowadays .
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Re: Does anyone find escorting a lonley job? I love it but I feel so isolated. xx
« Reply #20 on: 02 June 2019, 10:31:58 am »
Quote from: Veggiegal on 01 June 2019, 07:20:48 pm
I'm like you, i have had friendships turn sour and now I keep other SPs at arm's length. I have a good group that I chat to and will meet up for group meals but I won't invite them to my personal home or tell them intimate details like I did before. It's a shame :-S

I have a few ladies I talk to but have been stung personally twice so I understand. If you work with someone and one of you earns more then it causes friction - it's a shame really.

I think I've come to realise that just because we do the same job it doesn't mean we necessarily have things in common. Most friendship circles have people who do a variety of jobs. You have people you get on with at work and you have your friends outside work.

For me, I'm a right sad case as i don't have any friends outside work but that's because i moved around the country a lot and chose to isolate myself, but I'm happy! I've got the few ladies I talk to from here and they are a godsend. I've also met them on tour and we've had a meal together, catch up etc.

I think our need for privacy and discretion and the stigma attached to this profession is what really isolates us,
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Re: Does anyone find escorting a lonley job? I love it but I feel so isolated. xx
« Reply #21 on: 03 June 2019, 01:53:54 am »
Quote from: sultress000 on 02 June 2019, 02:02:41 am
There seems to be a theme here,both with romantic relationships and friendships..in that when we have been "burned" we have decided to give up on trusting others altogether.That is the surest recipe for loneliness I have heard.
I am wary and take things slow,but amongst the letdowns I have found some fantastic people who I absolutely trust. I try my very, very best to be a good and RELIABLE friend to others.life is so short and so hard ,it's the very least I can do. Don't lose faith in everyone because of a few bad experiences

That's great advice!
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Re: Does anyone find escorting a lonley job? I love it but I feel so isolated. xx
« Reply #22 on: 03 June 2019, 08:17:04 pm »
Quote from: Modesty Blaize on 02 June 2019, 10:31:58 am
I think our need for privacy and discretion and the stigma attached to this profession is what really isolates us,
Most definitely. . . !
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Re: Does anyone find escorting a lonley job? I love it but I feel so isolated. xx
« Reply #23 on: 03 June 2019, 08:18:34 pm »
Quote from: sultress000 on 02 June 2019, 02:02:41 am
life is so short and so hard ,it's the very least I can do. Don't lose faith in everyone because of a few bad experiences

I also agree.  . .  :)
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Re: Does anyone find escorting a lonley job? I love it but I feel so isolated. xx
« Reply #24 on: 04 June 2019, 05:29:29 pm »
Yes it is lonely. I'd like a few female friends to help alleviate that as right now it's really getting on top of me. I only have one male friend but I don't see him much as he's not local. I've unfortunately only had fair weathered friends over the years who just want to go out n get drunk all the time. I'd like a few decent girl friends to chat with, meet for a coffee, gallery, exhibition, museum, the odd cocktail, cream tea, or meal, or something pampering and girly, and even just a movie night staying in. If anyone is interested I'm based in N.W London, 43yrs old but don't care how old you are, PM me. Let's put an end to feeling lonely and isolated and having no one to talk to about the life we choose to lead.
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Re: Does anyone find escorting a lonley job? I love it but I feel so isolated. xx
« Reply #25 on: 04 June 2019, 07:40:12 pm »
I get lonely . I don’t have any local friends really. I’m in the northwest near to Liverpool / Cheshire area. I’m also quite shy that doesn’t help me make friends.
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