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Wanderlust

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Are flatmates ever a good idea?
« on: 06 June 2019, 08:43:44 pm »
Have been working on and off for a few years always living alone.

I have recently moved to a new city to do a university course and thought it would be in my best interest to rent a room in a flatshare to connect with people and keep escorting to a minimum (outcalls only and incalls one day per week from a hotel.

Moved into a place with two people and the guy did make
a comment about me occasionally going out at strange times which i found pretty annoying. It’s none of his business?

After only two weeks they have asked me to leave and I’m pretty upset as it was really hard to find a nice place.

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amy

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Re: Are flatmates ever a good idea?
« Reply #1 on: 06 June 2019, 08:51:17 pm »
Quote from: Wanderlust on 06 June 2019, 08:43:44 pm
Moved into a place with two people and the guy did make
a comment about me occasionally going out at strange times which i found pretty annoying. It’s none of his business?

After only two weeks they have asked me to leave and I’m pretty upset as it was really hard to find a nice place.

I wouldn't be too upset. The bloke is obviously a complete dick and far too invested in your private activities - as you say it's none of his (or anybody else's) business :).
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PissedOffPrincess

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Re: Are flatmates ever a good idea?
« Reply #2 on: 06 June 2019, 08:53:47 pm »
Can they make you leave or can you stay it seems so wrong.

Too nosey
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EvelynWho

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Re: Are flatmates ever a good idea?
« Reply #3 on: 06 June 2019, 08:55:03 pm »
Maybe finding someone who knows about this side of you would be a good idea? If it’s not an option to find a place just for you that is. It’d put you way more at ease and being able to talk openly (I imagine) is amazing xx
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Kay

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Re: Are flatmates ever a good idea?
« Reply #4 on: 06 June 2019, 09:08:11 pm »
Trying to be objective, could there have been another reason why they asked you to leave?
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ana30

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Re: Are flatmates ever a good idea?
« Reply #5 on: 06 June 2019, 09:19:00 pm »
Quote from: Kay on 06 June 2019, 09:08:11 pm
Trying to be objective, could there have been another reason why they asked you to leave?

I was thinking the same thing, how on earth did they discovered after two weeks that you're an escort if you're not bringing guys to the house? Were you coming from your oucalls dressed as a stripper and throwing money all over the couch??? Unless of course they went in your room and spied on your laptop (if that's the case they're total creeps so consider yourself very lucky to be out of there). On the other hand a guy who is not your friend making snarky comments regarding how you should conduct your private life is very intrusive and out of order so consider yourself lucky to leave that place,
« Last Edit: 06 June 2019, 09:22:55 pm by Ana30 »
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